Why is it that I don't seem to go well with brown girls? I am south asian/Chinese, although I like every girl, it seems the brown girls I meet are exclusive to their own, if they're Guju they'll only date Guju, Tamil only Tamil, etc. All the brown girls I've been in relationships with end very badly; I grew up in a brown community and absolutely love brown girls. Is this a racial thing? or is it something else? Plus I don't see too much brown/asian love in my city and I live in a very multicultural city.
2007-01-09 22:04:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is depending of culture
2007-01-09 22:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the indivudual. For sure u will be more comfortable with a person who at least speaks ur language. dont u? its the same. There is nothing to do with the races of the people. It matter almost nothing.
WHo knows. u may end up wiht the best woman on earth and she could be a brown girl!!!!!
(surprising that a south asain chinese using the word Tamil. One of the oldest language on earth next to chinese.)
2007-01-09 22:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what are you looking for in a brown girl? try to see the personality in sted of the colour, I know what you are talking about, i am bangladeshi and all of the bengali couples i know don't mix. I think it has a lot to do with culture, people are used to be with the same kind of people, get married with them etc.
I dont know if it's racial, I mean try to not see the colour, i don't think that a girl want to be loved because of her skin colour some that maybe the reason to why it doesn't work with the girls... well hope you understand what i mean, and i see this happening everyday, and u are not alone ...
2007-01-09 22:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Misha L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is race that is the problem here. It could be differences in culture, language and attitude, or may be the multicultural society you live in, is basically very conservative.
If you really like brown girls and want to have long term relationships with them, you probably need to adapt your thinking, behaviour and way of life closer to theirs, learn to speak their language and make genuine attempts to show that you would like to be one of them.
Many parents of girls may not like their daughters getting involved with someone who is culturally different from them, and so you will have to really work hard to convince them of your sincerity and devotion.
2007-01-13 18:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--guess you;ll just have to find you a brown south asian/chinese--or invest in a tanning bed--make her as brown as you want.
2007-01-09 22:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well give it a year or two and see whats hapens
2007-01-09 22:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe bc they have diff culture..like way diff?
2007-01-09 22:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by wayyytogo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋