I have met a girl that I could see spending my life with.Weve only gone out a couple of times,but she is what ive been looing for,for a long time.I need to know how to show her that I really like her without scarying her off.Are flowers over the top?any ideas?
2007-01-09 23:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by John G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on how you think she feels. If she feels good abotu you guys, then expressing your feelings for her , will make her leap in joy. Who wouldn't want to hear that from someone they like ? I would LOVE it if once a guy would tell me that. :(
Ask her what she thinks abotu you, and you guys together (its a perfectly normal question). And if you think she is feeling good abotu it. Let her know what you've been thinking. Don't tell her you want to spend the rest of your life with her, Thats at least a 3month or later conversation. But say, that you enjoy spending time with her ALOT. and that you appreciate her as a person, tell her that she's special to you. And that you think of her alot. IT's very sweet, and I would LOVE those compliments. They sound so little, but pack a big punch :o)
Good luck.. Flowers are never a bad idea.
2007-01-10 00:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to talk to her.Sometimes its not about what a guy can buy for you but about the way he acts and the little things he does no make sure your safe and stuff like that.If you've only gone out a couple times I would think flowers would be okay as long as they aren't that expensive or that cheap. The thought of a guy thinking about flowers should really.... show her that you care
2007-01-10 08:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by dorkk8531226 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you have to find out if she has the same feelin towards you as well....and think,do you feel that connection between the two of you when you guys are together? try to let her know how you feel, try to let her know she is special to you...girls are quite sensitive, and if she is a shy girl, i suggest you to find out how she feels before doing anything..but sending some flowers is nto a bad idea ^^ Good luck
2007-01-10 08:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by Miss. Anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a short note perhaps. not the lovey dovey type coz that would freak her out. one or two flowers would be nice. if too much flowers would be over the top. always ask her...how are u? and smile. then she will realise that u care for her. u dont have to say i like u to her. she will find out without u saying it anyway. actions speaks louder than words :) good luck
2007-01-10 08:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out some more times to really know her,
flowers are OK, but find out what she really liked.
2007-01-10 08:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by latina_y_sincera 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
after going out for only a few times it is not possible to say that you want to spent the rest of your life with her,in fact it is immature
anyway! you could give her a rose but not a bouquet( personally ,i wouldnt like that)
remember to be polite , be intresting in what you say and also be intrested in what she says to you
2007-01-10 08:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her out to dinner and give her flowers. yea thats a good idea
2007-01-10 08:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Cavegirl948 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like yourself! Do what YOU think YOU should do. If it's too much ask her what she would like.
2007-01-10 08:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋