The other day I noticed my husbands penis was raw around the head, red with peeling. What would cause this? Also last night he faked an orgasm? He said he gets raw like that all the time, but I haven't noticed. What could be up? He says he does not masterbate, could this be signs of cheating? We have sex about 3xs a week,and have been married 2 years. could this be an std?
2007-01-09 23:59:21 · 17 answers · asked by sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Might be the result of tight foreskin.
2007-01-10 00:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is not circumcised, he can get a yeast infection causing the tip of his penis to get red/ raw look and small bumps. That has to be taken care of with a topical anti-fungus medication (Nystatin Cream). Rough sex will also cause this look or a lot of sex. It sounds as though you have sex often so I don't know why he'd be masturbating like a crazy person causing his penis to get red.. If it were and STD he'd have other problems like he would have burning when he urinated etc. Oh, and if your guy is faking an orgasm, I'm thinking you may want to check what he's doing during the day. Raw penis, can't ejaculate, is there another woman in the picture??? Makes you think. For your sake I'd find out you definitely don't want an std!! Good luck..
2007-01-10 14:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sky
You get that kind of peeling when you masturbate vigorously or a lot. I am not so sure about the raw part. I guess dry and vigorous sex can do that. But then consider what he is saying, you might not have been noticing. It might be nothing but if it’s painful, then definitely he has to see the doctor...
Faked orgasm? Join the club. A lot of men do that. It doesn’t have anything to do with cheating. Mostly its stress and having a lot on mind. They do that because they don’t want to hurt your feelings. I bet you are the one who initiated sex last night. Its ungentlemanly to turn your wife down for sex, well, that’s what I think...
2007-01-10 08:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by tomwaterboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect he's masturbating and not admiting it to you. If he faked it last night, it's probably because he just masturbated himself to orgasm before coming to your bed. IF he is cheating and it is and STD, you've already been exposed. Get yourself checked and you'll know. Just tell your doctor why you want to be checked.
Assuming he is masturbating, I'd also assume he's doing it at the computer. See if you can find out what sites he's going to. He may have a sexual addiction. He can delete the history but there are other ways to see where he's been. email me and I'll help you with this. If this is a compulsive behaviour, there is help available.
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2007-01-10 08:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bill G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not good. Sounds like he has some sort of fungal infection or he is lying about something. Regardless he needs to see a doctor. Hat him before having anymore relations for your own protection.
2007-01-10 08:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by All_Dawgs_Go_To_Heaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be, but it could also be caused by a yeast infection. Feeling a bit itchy lately? Men can get them too. He might masturbate and just be too embarassed to tell you about it and that would be too much masturbation. Why not take him to the doctor to get his penis checked out? Tell him you were looking online and think it might be penis cancer and if they doctor doesn't see it soon his penis will fall off.
2007-01-10 08:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he fakes a gasm then he beats his meat too often in a day! he might be embarrased to tell you tha he beats his monkey because you have sex 3 times a week! maybe it is not enough for him. But just in case get his junk checked out!
2007-01-10 08:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by mob792001 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he isnt masterbating or having sex with someone else, then what is causing that? since WE don't know, and HE doesn't know, he needs to see a doctor... if he refuses, then maybe he is doing something he doesnt want you to know about
2007-01-10 08:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he is having an affair. At times, even my head becomes tender, but not chaffed. I would suggest that he take a shower after each time you both have intercourse.
2007-01-10 08:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grow-up and quit asking questions everyday about your imaginary husband cheating. You have more stories and lies than anyone on this site. Get over yourself.
2007-01-10 08:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT NEEDS TO BE WASHED WITH SOAP AT LEAST 3 TIMES A DAY, KEEP THE GERMS OUT.
WASHED OUT BEFORE AND AFTER INTERC. AND ALSO USE SOME PEROXIDE, IT IS THE BEST DETERGENT FOR GERMS.
2007-01-10 08:13:09 · answer #11 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋