I like this friend of myne a lot!! I think that he likes me to, BUT he thinks I like someone else!! Then later on last year he told me he likes my friend!!!! But se knows i like him to?? We go to parties together and to movies!! And things that couples do!! That he doent do with this girl 'he likes'!! Does he likes me?? And must i tel him how i feel??? He is like my best friend and our friendship is on the spell!!! What should I do??
2007-01-09 07:52:30 · 16 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel.
2007-01-09 07:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by tootsie1115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar position (now dating the friend in question, though after he dated 2 others girls with me as friend). Just tell him you want to talk and, as directly as possible, say that you care about him a great deal and would like to be more than friends. It's likely he has some sense of your feelings anyway, if you spend so much time together, and he may be waiting for a chance to talk (whether he wants to tell you he likes you or tell you he doesn't). Just be direct and if he says no, that he's more interested in someone else, concede the point and keep hanging out with him as his friend, and try not to harbor any lingering hopes or wait for him to come around, it'll result in a lot of pain. Good luck!
2007-01-09 08:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to start a "love" relationship is by being best friends! :) You're definitely on the right track! You always want to be "best friends" with the one you love. Why does he like this other girl but is never out with her and spends time with you?! He must like you a lot! and he must think you're really cool so I would tell him. Don't go and say i love you or anything but tell him (pick a right time) that you'd like to take your guys relationship to the next level and see what happens. I think he'll definitely want too. :) Don't live with regrets and "what if's"
2007-01-09 07:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by cottontail34@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep things the way they are. He probably does like you and likes having fun with you, but you should really just let him make a move..or just let it be..and just have some fun while it lasts!
2007-01-09 07:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Samster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, just show him little flirty ways. If he really does like yo too, he will pick right up an it. If not, he will just laugh it off, either way, you have nothing to looses.
2007-01-09 07:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a card telling him in person, that he is the one you have feelings for. and just let him show you/tell you his awnser. If he doesn't give you the awnser you hope for dump him, and find someone else, otherwise, good luck!!!!!! Hope it gos well for you
2007-01-09 07:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by one_odd_parent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and stop making anything else besides having fun and enjoying his company.
2007-01-09 07:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever get involved with your best friends boyfriend
your friendship will be over if u do
2007-01-09 07:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to being friends for awhile. who knows he might have changed his mind and if you wait a little bit longer then he might come to you.
2007-01-09 07:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by morgan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Sounds like he likes you too.
2007-01-09 07:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋