2007-01-09 07:34:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Aww..that tough. Why dont you talk to her dad? Tell her she will be safe, and nothing bad will happen. Have a pep talk, lol
~Good luck!~
2007-01-09 07:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by ~Brown Eyes~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to talk with him first, if that doesn't help, take other actions. Go to the police, ask somebody like a lawyer for help if you can afford it but don't back off, they are also your children. Both parents should have half rights on the kids, good communication is very important but if one of the two doesn't want any of this than you have to handle it the hard way.
2007-01-09 07:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Esp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheryl, im no expert in family law, but firstly, how old is your daughter? does dad have contact with her? who has residence? do you have maintenance paid to you for her?
all this comes into account i think.
Why wont he let her go? i know its a damn long way away, but the lifestyle is much better over there. Maybe he feels he wont see her anymore. If you moved, would he be able to come over and visit easily enough - would you be able to put him up etc.
Its worth chatting all this kind of stuff through with both him and your daughter and if he seems to be softening, offer it to be a temporary stay of approx. 3 months
Good luck
Flower xx
2007-01-09 07:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a little confused? this is your daughter right? Sometimes parents disagree, married or not. If its during your visitation time, which I assume it is, you have considered his opinion and you still get the final decision. Its a great opportunity to discuss with your daughter how adults make decisions, how you both respect her dad and how adults learn to disagree without being disagreeable....then go! (That being said, I assume she is old enough.....how old is this kid? )
2007-01-09 07:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have her passport? There's nothing much he can do to stop you,this is a once in a lifetime opportunity for her,i assume you mean to live. He would have to prove in court a good reason why she couldn't go,and you'd already be there by then,hopefully. Whwt's the alternative,i'm sure he'd run a mile if you gave him full custody and went yourself.
2007-01-09 07:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by heebygeeby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is to live - offer him free holidays to visit her!!!
Otherwise you can go to court.
How old is your child - is she old enough to decide what she wants? Can she talk to him to help him see why it would be best for her to go. - Would he go too but separately?
I know it is difficult when you are no longer together but imagne how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. I know i wouldn't like it very much. On the other hand i appreciate you are probably doing it to better your liefstyle.
Its a tough one.
2007-01-09 09:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by peachy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may want some legal documents drawn up about the amount of time your over there and that she will be returned to the UK. He may be fretting that you wont bring her back
2007-01-11 04:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Chill_Out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's for a holiday then just go....if she is in your care, he cannot stop you from taking her on a vacation....but if you want to move there then it could get messy, i don't know what you can do, but seek some legal advice first, find out what your rights are
2007-01-10 02:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court and state why it's in the best intrest of the child to go with you and hope the judge agrees with you.
2007-01-09 07:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by gummi bear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is that oz or arizona? if it's OZ contact dorthy or the tin man. They handle all Travel to OZ now.
2007-01-09 07:48:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋