Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

I had a BF, but my first love came bac into my life. Me and my bf love each other but I love my first love more. My bf seems to make no attempt to come see me. But my first love right off the bat mad e a suggestion to come see me. And to me that intimacy is really important. My bf is financially set, but my first love is in the making.I am so confused. I keep trying to pick one without hurting feelings along with mine. What shall I do?

2007-01-09 07:12:33 · 15 answers · asked by sweetladye19 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm crazy in love with X like I've never been before. X has been in a relationship with Y for 4 years and his lover cheated on him several times. Still he loves him but they are separated. Although they are still living together because of financial problems. When I'm with X, X is happy and he said he liked me and we have been intimate. But whenever Y comes, he changes and becomes miserable. He is hesitant about what to choose. He cannot be with me because he feels he would be making Y sorry, who is very sorry for having cheated on him. But he cannot forgive her either. All I know is he is happy with me and he likes me but he still loves her because he made himself believe that she is the one. He idolized her and he still obsesses over her.

Does anyone have any advice for me? I'm in a lot of pain. At the same time I think it is still worth having 5 minutes of pleasure with him and them being sad for 8465456 hours. Does anyone think I have a chance with him?

2007-01-09 07:12:25 · 4 answers · asked by applejuice 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend cheated me, she was dating with some other guy too, and unfortunately the guy with she was dating was my good friend and he said to me but i did not belived in him then he gave me a proof, and that ****** was n-joying us both , then i said to all my friend that im gonne show her.....and i forced her to have sex with me in college toilet and i removed all her cloths and i ran away with her cloths..... hahaha i cant say how much i n-joyed.. what shd i do next?????????????????

2007-01-09 07:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On Saturday my father-in-law was celebrating his 50 birthday at my in-laws house and when the cake cutting moment came along my mother in-law said "lets take a picture with the kids " so my Husband walks and stands next to his father and well I joined him... this is when it all crashes and burns. My ridiculas Mother In-law grabs me and pulls me out of the picture infront of about 5 other people and tells me "No, not you only our kids" i was so offended!! And the reason why it was so hurtful besides the fact that she felt it was not my place to be in the picture is the fact that it is not the first time that they take a "family pic" that I was not invited too for example for New Years Eve the same thing happend exept I waited to be invited into the "family pic" and that invitation never came along.

2007-01-09 07:11:49 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

IM in gr 8 and i like this girl but me and my parents havent at all talked about dating or anything like that. The thing is, i wanna ask her out. Help!!. Also, i dot no if she likes me. how do i no?

2007-01-09 07:11:09 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

yeah wht do u do when u cant do nething except moving on.. FORGETTIN tht person is impossible... something except getting busy... cuz even if yr busy whole day you'll come home in the night and WILL THINK OF THINGS..... i relle neep help gettin over this friend of mine.....

2007-01-09 07:10:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm the first person in my circle of friends to be getting married. I had really hoped for a sort of girls night out/lingerie shower...something special before my wedding. My maid of honor hasn't mentioned any kind of shower/party. Would it be rude to ask?

2007-01-09 07:09:17 · 24 answers · asked by orangeflameninja 4 in Weddings

Here goes: I just moved out on my own. I was accepted into a program called the Walt Disney World College program. It is really my first time away from home and I am pretty far away. I am 19 years old and I just have this void in my life right now. I have only been here a few days but it just seems to be getting the best of me. It's to the point that I get sick everytime I eat, Im not making myself sick its my "homesickness" kicking in. I don't know what to do! I don't want to go home because I don't want to look like a failure, and if I leave my job I would probably never be able to get one with this company again. I don't want to sound like a baby or anything I just really don't know what to do. I am so overwhelmed by everything. Any advice would be great!

2007-01-09 07:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by jtdm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this guy that ive known since middle school. we never use to talk but then all of a sudden we started. ever since we started talking... i cant get him outta my head. hes all i think about and all i dream about. theres nothing wrong with him or anything like that. hes just such a great person and we have a lotta things in common. he always says i really really like talking to you and hes just the nicest guy ive met. i think that i am in love with him but i just dont want to tell him how i feel cuz im afraid that he wont feel the same about me. i just feel like i can talk to him about anything. and he likes brunetes and im a brunete. i just love everything about him. if only i could tell him how i feel then maybe we would be together and i wouldnt have to feel all sad all the time! somebody please tell me what i should do because i am so helpless and i need to hurry before some other girl takes him!
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2007-01-09 07:08:48 · 6 answers · asked by wwefan4life! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 07:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by alpha_omega_protocol 1 in Singles & Dating

i keep in contact wit all of my ex's. recently i contacted an ex who i haven't talked to in over a year and all of a sudden the feelings that i had for him came back all at once. i recently just brook up wit my boyfriend back in december and he still thinks we go together or whatnot and of course yeah we keep intouch, but it don't matter who i'm talkin to at the moment i just think about him, becuz my feelings for him were real then i moved and we lost contact, but i found him and it was as if we talked to each other everyday. the boy i brook up wit my feelings for him were real to, but it was like once i started back to talkin to this one guy they didn't matter anymore. this is complicated to explain, but give me some feedback.

2007-01-09 07:07:14 · 11 answers · asked by kateee2007 1 in Friends

Ok..so I am in college, I am very opinionated but yet sweet. I have many other friends like me who have a dead on sense of humor, fantastic cooks, dress stylishly, I mean very appealing women, yet men don't easily approach us. ( in romantic sense) Yet..those tarty girls w/o a brain or women who are less appealing outwardly are scoring dates. This has been an on going girlfriend discussion and I would like some male input. Stay clean & respectful!

2007-01-09 07:05:29 · 14 answers · asked by chiqa1485 1 in Singles & Dating

where you are romantic and affectionate and your partner is not?

I am currently in that kind of relationship and would like to hear from people in similiar situations

2007-01-09 07:05:15 · 15 answers · asked by jimkel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i'm 13 and i often find myself wanting to have sex with older men like in their twenties and thirties am i weird for wanting that.

2007-01-09 07:04:59 · 19 answers · asked by tia13 1 in Singles & Dating

BLONDE WAVE AT HIM AND SAY'S "HELLO."

HE'S RATHER TAKEN ABACK, BECAUSE HE CAN'T PLACE WHERE HE KNOWS HER FROM, SO HE SAYS "DO YOU KNOW ME?"

TO WHICH SHE REPLIES "I THINK YOU'RE THE FATHER OF ONE OF MY KIDS."

NOW HE THINKS BACK TO THE ONLY TIME HE HAS EVER BEEN UNFAITHFUL TO HIS WIFE AND SAYS, "MY GOD, ARE YOU THE STRIPPER FROM MY BACHELOR PARTY THAT I LAID ON THE POOL TABLE WITH ALL MY BUDDIES WATCHING,WHILE YOUR PARTNER WHIPPED ME WITH WET CELERY AND THEN STUCK A CARROT UP MY .?".

SHE SAID "NO, I'M YOUR SON'S MATH TEACHER."

2007-01-09 07:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by scott g 1 in Singles & Dating

relationships are the most complicated thing we have, yet it is the simplest thing we have the only thing that makes it complicated is us.......

2007-01-09 07:04:36 · 14 answers · asked by vishal 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 07:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by worriedwoman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have lived in Yorkshire all of my life but over the last year I have been dating a girl from Lancashire. Can anyone explain why it appears to be unusual for a Yorkshire girl to buy drinks if she is out with a man, but a Lancashire girl insists upon it.

2007-01-09 07:04:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i make him see the mature side of me!!!!!!

2007-01-09 07:03:44 · 10 answers · asked by space cowgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Your not going to believe this. Okay I was waiting the other day for a mate(s) at school. Two younger students come up to me, an say "Are you waiting for your girlfriend?"
"no"
"Do you have a girlfriend?"
"no"
"Are you gay?"
"eh...what, NO! I'm as straight as a ruler", which actually probably did make me sound gay! Not good. I have loads of mates and have not been insulted by anyone in years well one or two anyway, I think. Then after a party, the younger guys on the bus ask how many girls I pulled. I say none (I just don't bother at the moment and am not the sort of guy who unthoughtfully just goes after party girls for a quik thing (not like I'd succeed anyway lol-shy). Anyway WHY ME? Some younger people are bothering me now saying about me being 17 and not having/ had a gf. LOADS of 17 year olds (at least in our school) have not had gf's ever. Why pick on me? We had 3 grl's in our yr in secondary, 2 asked me out. They know, so why bother me.Y? How do I stop em (not getting gf)

2007-01-09 07:03:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what the heck is wrong with my husband. We are a young married couple with 2 kids. Overall we have a very good marriage. We do bicker and fight sometimes (not a ton) but nothing major and usually its over stupid petty things. This morning its like I woke up to another man. I've never seen him rage and get as angry as he did EVER in my life. It was over the stupidest thing, he didn't agree with why I put our 3 yr old in timeout (she was standing on the kitchen counter about to jump from there to the couch) He pulled me into another room and a full out fight ensued, ending with him rearing back like he was going to hit me (HE DIDN"T HIT ME) he walked away promptly after rearing back like he was going to hit me. Even though he never hit me It scares me, I've never seen this side of him. I dunno even where to start in handling this, I know something needs to be done.

2007-01-09 07:02:21 · 29 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, i think this boy likes me, (told ya). he stares at me, tries to get close to me, brush up against me, talks to me, makes me laugh and stands up for me. we were never friends and we just met this year. does he like me? (sorry, it must be annoying hearing the same questions over again!)

2007-01-09 07:01:31 · 20 answers · asked by Brunettes Rule 1 in Singles & Dating

NOOOO!!!! I can't belive it!! What will my boyfriend think?? HELP!!!

2007-01-09 07:01:21 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Marriage sucks doesnt it?
Why did you get married? was it love w/o reason? did you choose your wife/husband with your heart or with your brains or both? I guess most of you will say both but if so then why does almost every marriage end with a divorce?!

2007-01-09 07:00:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i broke up with my girl of 9 months. we were only apart one week but i totally hurt her and i miss her and want her back badly. she is the love of my life and i realize that now. how do i win back her trust,heart, and trust???

2007-01-09 07:00:54 · 3 answers · asked by yungblud00 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

details are........
i fell in love to this girl
she is in my school
luv continued
frnds came to know abt it
i proposed her in 10th but she didint answer
i let the matter go
she n i r in same college , junnior
do talk at all
in 12 th she moves in saamne wali khidki
still things r cold
1 n half tear has went by
i m desperate
plz help me
i still love her like #@!$!$2

2007-01-09 07:00:01 · 10 answers · asked by ak88 2 in Singles & Dating

he's absolutely gorgeous. The problem is that after 7 kids and 4 husbands I look really drab, saggy and tired. He doesn't even know I exist, but I see him at the bank every week when I go to cash my giro and i've followed him home a few times. I really want to impress him but don't know what to do to change my image to get my man. His girlfriend really treats him badly, so I want to steal him away. The problem is that he won't leave her for me until I look better. Does anyone have any good suggestions about how I can get my man?

2007-01-09 06:59:45 · 14 answers · asked by Jo_Diva 4 in Singles & Dating

My little sister,Courtney is 11. All of her life she has had siblings that were much older than her. I myself am 11, years older, and with each sibling the age range just becomes larger. I accept the fact that she's young and impressionable, does what she sees, and what not, but she's wearing thongs! Her mother (we don't have the same mom) allows her to do this, and wonders why she acts so old. Courtney, has a severe attitude problem, and talks back to everyone. I know that teenagers go through this phase, but 11 yr olds? Her mother is a BIG TIME alcoholic, and doesn't pay attention to her. But when she visit's my father's house, we always pay attention to her. Why is she doing these things at such a young age?
Do you have any advice to share?

I'm a firm believer in discipline, and I think she should have her *** beat, when she acts up. No one really punishes her for her actions, it's starting to get to me. She's is getting away with more than I ever did, growing up.

2007-01-09 06:59:41 · 10 answers · asked by lilfireyballofhate 3 in Family

being honest..for me its a girl's lips and then her hair

2007-01-09 06:59:38 · 23 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1 in Singles & Dating

who has to pay back the government for childsuppport money

2007-01-09 06:59:38 · 6 answers · asked by leslie l 1 in Marriage & Divorce