ok i'm 13 and i often find myself wanting to have sex with older men like in their twenties and thirties am i weird for wanting that.
2007-01-09 07:04:59 · 19 answers · asked by tia13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, but i would suggest not acting on those impulses...you are too young
2007-01-09 07:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by krikkitsong 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not say weird just curious. There is nothing wrong with curiosity as long as you do not experiment. However, there is plenty of time in your life to have sex with older and younger men. I would wait. There are so many people out there who would take advantage of you and you are worth more than that. I am not saying wait forever, just wait until you are a little older, especially to be with men in their 20s and 30s.
2007-01-09 15:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 13!?!?!?! I'm sorry but you should not be wanting to have sex at all at your age. And for your information it is illegal for you to have sex, especially with men over 18.
When I was 13 I still didn't even know what all sex entailed. Jeez, the state of the world is sad. Do yourself a favor and don't fantasize about it yet. You really don't know what you are getting yourself into. You're not ready for the emotional/physical baggage that comes with sex at your age.
2007-01-09 15:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by intothelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting and having are two different things, all of us young girls at one time had a fantasy of an older man, just don't be laying down with them, they know how vulnerable you are and will take advantage of you in heart beat. Think twice and think hard, you have your a whole life a head of you, and when you get old enough to actually want to get serious with a guy, he may not want to being how he knows your past, so be patient and wait. If you can't control your urge you may need some counceling.
2007-01-09 15:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by sweetme35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having sex at all if you are only 13. Get your head into books and off of boy especially grown men!
2007-01-09 16:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by missalisa05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's not right. You should not even be thinking about sex right now. Guys that age who are interested in someone your age will always want someone your age. That means when you get to old they will ditch you.
2007-01-09 15:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That isn't at all strange. When I was 13, I wasn't thinking about anyone who wasn't in my eight grade.
2007-01-09 15:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do u will lose and reg rate just wait in the best time OK.
2007-01-09 15:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i still find myself wanting to be wiht older men and im 17 just knowing that they have had a lot of experience and are probably really good turns me on!!!
2007-01-09 15:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
THATS IS SAD YOU MIGHT AS WELL GO AND SCREW YOUR DAD OR GRANDPA YOUR BARELY A TEENAGER YES THAT IS WEIRD BESIDES THOSE DUDES CAN GO TO JAIL YOUR HORNY BEHIND GOING TO SEND SOMEONE TO JAIL YOU NEED DR.PHIL THIS IS ONE OF HIS CASES. I'M GOING TO PRAY FOR YOU CAUSE SWEETIE YOU NEED IT DEARLY.
okay yeah its really weird. no lie. at least screw someone that is your age not someone that is 20 or 30. i know someone that was horny at your age and freak someone that was 20 something and he went to jail and she had a very very very bad reputation. but u kno what its up to do what you want to do.
2007-01-09 15:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're not weird, but please fight these urges! you can get yourself in alot of trouble, pregnant, sick with aids. try to find a hobby and stick with kids your own age. if the feeling persist maybe you can get therapy. good luck & be good!
2007-01-09 15:11:55 · answer #11 · answered by trippydee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋