where you are romantic and affectionate and your partner is not?
I am currently in that kind of relationship and would like to hear from people in similiar situations
2007-01-09 07:05:15 · 15 answers · asked by jimkel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i am the not romantic one, my husband is very romantic and affectionate i am not but i am very passionate in bed so he tells me i make up for the none mushi part in bed****
2007-01-09 07:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was not going to answer this question until I read "ledreg" above. It is difficult for me to understand why too many people think that" swapping" partner is"the solution" for marriage problem. The lack of commitment in the marriage answers the question of "too many divorces" Commitment is the hanger or rod that holds all the other qualities in a marriage. According to"Ledreg" not being romantic and affectionate is a cause to pursue a different partner. Is there any guaranty that the next one will fulfill these characteristics? Sorry "Jimkel" I did not per se answer your question but I could not pass this comment showing so many of us base their marriage life on sex, threesome, porn video, sex toys etc.
2007-01-09 07:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused by your question. Your asking married ladies if they are in a relationship ( duh, they are if they are married). Or are you asking about an extramarital affair. In the first case, you need to speak with your spouse about any problems that may be between the both of you. Communication is the key to a healthy marriage. The second case, if your inquiring about affairs that is just plain stupid to have an affair because your spouse isn't being affectionate towards you. Again communication is the key to hold together any relationship. Once you get your spouses feelings out and you express yours, then you can work on the problem together. God bless you.
2007-01-09 07:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Wifey K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but you need to pursue another partner in life. This is not a relationship that has the ground work you will need to keep it healthy. Romance and affection are very important factors.
2007-01-09 07:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ledreg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My husband doesn't think it's right to cuddle in front of the kids. I say it's healthy for the children to see that mommy and daddy love each other. now it shouldn't go any further than holding hands cuddling and stuff. anyhoot, i just wish he was more lovey dovey at home and in public.
2007-01-09 07:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It started that way. I confronted him and found out that he just wasn't raised like that. However having been with me he is completely different now. It wasn't that he didn't want, he didn't know how. Maybe you have to show your partner the same thing.
2007-01-09 07:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ydua R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We went thru times like that until my husband got a clue. You hold the potential to make your wife come around.
2007-01-09 07:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've had problems like that in the past and noticed the more i gave, the more i was rejected. so, i would back off for a while and if they didn't come around, i'd confront them. if they seemed indifferent to my feelings, we were done.
2007-01-09 07:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep...im in that same exact situation and I hate it...but ya know..what can I do? Ive tried just about everything
2007-01-09 07:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by Pretty Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m in the situation. It's harder because I am married.
2007-01-09 07:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by Blu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋