Here goes: I just moved out on my own. I was accepted into a program called the Walt Disney World College program. It is really my first time away from home and I am pretty far away. I am 19 years old and I just have this void in my life right now. I have only been here a few days but it just seems to be getting the best of me. It's to the point that I get sick everytime I eat, Im not making myself sick its my "homesickness" kicking in. I don't know what to do! I don't want to go home because I don't want to look like a failure, and if I leave my job I would probably never be able to get one with this company again. I don't want to sound like a baby or anything I just really don't know what to do. I am so overwhelmed by everything. Any advice would be great!
2007-01-09 07:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by jtdm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am trying to stay positive but nothing seems to be working. I have pictures of my sisters with me, they are sitting on my dest. Every time I look at one of them I start thinking of all of the good times we have had together and it makes it that much worse. When I do call my parents it takes me forever to hang up the phone because I don't wan't our conversation to end. I know its only been a few days but I don't know how much more I can take on. When I am in my different meetings it's really all that I think about. I have never really felt like this before and I just don't know what to do. It's pathetic, I know!
2007-01-09 07:23:27 · update #1
I feel for you... Call home an talk.. Maybe you need to get out there an meet some friends..
2007-01-09 07:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down a second. You have a great opportunity at your feet. Don't blow it because you miss home. It takes time to get settled into a new place. My best advise is get off the computer and go outside and look around and check out all the new exciting places around you! Talk to co-workers ask them what they like to do and what they enjoy in the area. You'll find that because you are new they will be willing to show you different spots and places they love. It takes time. I know where you are coming from, in August I moved to a city two hours away from all my family and friends and I'm on my own. I still dont' really know anyone in this area but I make sure to check out at least one new place a week and I keep myself busy, you'll settle in soon, don't stress yet.
2007-01-09 07:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i did the WDWCP a few years ago! it's normal to be homesick if you have never being away from home. my advice is to keep yourself busy and try to soak up everything that disney has to offer. also definitely take an advantage of the free park passes you have and participate in the different program activities. when you are eating, try to eat with other cp. since you just got there, try to branch out and meet as many people as you can. i'm good friends with my roommates, and we still keep in touch. people who are in the program are generally really nice; otherwise they wouldn't be working in the disney. i don't know how far away your family is, but you can definitely invite them to come visit and use your discount! also when i was in the program, i know a lot of people who went home for a short time in the middle of the program. if you can manage to get time off, that might be another option for you.
good luck, enjoy, and have tons of fun!!! :)
2007-01-09 07:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by applec19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I just moved from a small city to a very big city. It's definitely scary and a little overwhelming. Just know that this will pass and soon you will be completely comfortable with your surroundings and will be looking forward to having guests visit you in your new hometown. Showing them around might be very good for you. I think I took off my email blocker and you (and ONLY you) are welcome to email me if you need a friend. You can do it, it just takes a bit of adjusting. Remember, this is a very normal reaction to a big move.
2007-01-09 07:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have a friend who went into that program from Potsdam State and she said that she lived with a whole house full of roomates.. I don't know if this is the same set up that you are currently living in but if so I think you should start hanging out with them and getting to know the people you live with... Chances are they are probably going through the same situation that you are.
2007-01-09 07:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Brittanee04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up so early.I mean,if you've just started,wait a bit more.Every beginning is weak.If later you feel the same,then ok go back home but for the time being allow yourself some more time.I'm sure after a while you'll be happy.
2007-01-09 07:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Brenno 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just like anything, it will take time to adjust. it's really ok to be homesick. stay in touch with your family and keep lots of pictures around, but also try to start focusing on your new world. in time you will make friends and soon you will be enjoying your new found independence. remember the words "and this too, shall pass" they are the truest words. hang in there kid, your doing something positive with your life & you should be proud! good luck!!
2007-01-09 07:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by trippydee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get abit easier the more you get into your job, I know the feeling, you have only been away a few days hang on abit longer and see if it gets easier,
2007-01-09 07:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy. Find a new hobby to keep yourself occupied and your mind off of home.
2007-01-09 08:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋