I had a BF, but my first love came bac into my life. Me and my bf love each other but I love my first love more. My bf seems to make no attempt to come see me. But my first love right off the bat mad e a suggestion to come see me. And to me that intimacy is really important. My bf is financially set, but my first love is in the making.I am so confused. I keep trying to pick one without hurting feelings along with mine. What shall I do?
2007-01-09 07:12:33 · 15 answers · asked by sweetladye19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going backwards hinders you from moving forward, and in the meantime you are running in circles.
2007-01-09 07:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first love is courting you again, obviously he'll go out of his way to impress you. If he was your first love and you're with a new guy then you broke it off with your first love, for whatever reason you broke up once what makes you think you won't break up again.
Anyways, good luck, just remember the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence until you hop over and find out otherwise.
2007-01-09 07:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a deep look into what you really think love is... Love is not something you just share with all of your boyfriends. If you think you moved on from your first love and fell in love with this new guy then you are not in love with one of them. Money should not be what you look at to make a choice... follow your heart.
2007-01-09 07:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by Brittanee04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go where your heart tells you. In a relationship someone always gets hurt when the other does not love them like they love them, it's just a fact of life.
2007-01-09 07:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the better question is why did your first love leave in the first place? Consider that...and if the reason is one you can live with...choose the first. But don't make the same mistake twice...
2007-01-09 07:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have your first love you are always going to have feeling for him because he was your first. however that doesnt mean that you guys are still compatible with each other. like do you love him for all the memories he gave you in the past. or is it a love that you would want to make more memories with. or are you happy with your current boyfriend that you are willing to forget your first love
2007-01-09 07:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can your first love offer you anything your bf can't? The grass isn't always greener believe me. saying that you have to do what is right for you. Best of luck hunny x
2007-01-09 07:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by suckaslug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had the same experience..if i were you i would just break it off with your recent bf because if you don't its just going to make things more complicated and ugly..you don't need someone to be angry with you..but also be careful with your first love..guys love to have competition with one another and you may just be the trophy
2007-01-09 07:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by gemstone2421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One figure out why your ex is your ex... there was a reason for is..
Find out why he's come back to you, make sure it's not out of convenience and
then figure for yourself who you really want to be with.
2007-01-09 07:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart hunny....your brain will lie to you....in matters of the heart someone always gets hurt.....dont try using logic...it wont work
2007-01-09 07:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by foxyrebelcowgurl69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋