She ignorne me all last week and just sat in her room. I tried making conversation with her and ask her how her day was....but still got nothing. Then FINALLY on Saturday I just came out and asked her if she was mad at me and she said no. Well, she still continues to ignore me?? What should my next move be? Let her be until she comes around? Or talk to her more?? I don't want to be pushy, yet I'm almost over this childish action she's displaying! I can't think of anything I could have done wrong (besides not clean constantly like she does).
2007-01-09 07:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had this very same thing happen to me, and it was quite irritating! When I finally got sick of being slighted, I asked what the deal was and it blew up into a huge argument. The crux was that he said it had nothing to do with me. My point was that if it had nothing to do with me, why was it being taken out ON me??
There was no rational answer. Sometimes people who are incapable of handling stress just implode and wreck everything around them. That seems to be what is happening. Fortunately for me, my roommate ended up moving out shortly thereafter (had already given notice before the anti-social behavior started), so I didn't have to deal with it any more.
In your case, though, I'm not sure where I'd go with it now. Just let it go, I supposed, even though you are being mistreated. Hopefully, everything will return to normal and she will see how bad she's been acting.
2007-01-09 07:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may because of something she is going through at school or her family might be going through some things. Your best move will be to let her come to you. If she doen't just be paient. Some things dont always go right in life. I know you have had some ups and downs. If she still doesn't come out to you in about maybe 3 or 4 weeks you go and see if everything is alright with her.
2007-01-09 15:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Asheypooh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr Phil would say, "well i think you need to start walking around backwards and talking like a crazy person. And every once in a while throw fecal matter at her to get her attention. Though this may seem wrong at first, but its been proven to work. Dont ask my about the proof."
2007-01-09 15:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you already tried to talk to her... you asked her if she is mad and she said no. Dont even bother to ask her again if you know you didnt do anything then she will come around eventually..
2007-01-09 15:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by kathernva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone until it blows over. Confronting the issue could cause problems in your living arrangement. Just wait until she is ready to talk about it with you.
2007-01-09 15:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out whats her favorite thing to do then suggest to her if she want to go to that place or not if she say no spy on her and dig up some dirt on how she feel if she have a diary read it and see if it relate to u or keep asking her some question and soon she will spit it out
2007-01-09 15:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she mentally healthy? Could she be suffering from depression, is she manic-depressive.? The saddest thing is schizophrenia shows up in young 20 something's just when their lives are beginning. Please continue to be supportive, she may have had a traumatic experience she can't discuss with you right now. Please, Please don't take it personally, it may not be personal at all and she may really need you.
2007-01-09 15:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by LoneStarLou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something other than you may be bothering her. She will talk to you about it when she is ready.
2007-01-09 15:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by tootsie1115 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
reduce talking with so tht she can feel ur presece of u in her life..she will come back..
2007-01-09 15:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by guru p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it has nothing to do with you, so relax and have some fun ...
2007-01-09 15:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋