I met this girl that works at this sportsbar and i've been there twice now. The first time we met she dropped every hint imaginable that she wanted me to leave her my number but im slow to say the least and as we left she had the most hurt look on her face. The second time a few days later i took my lil bro up there to watch the rose bowl and, i'm not conceited but when i dress up nice i tend to blow the ladies sock's off at times which is what happened with her and she thought i had come back to make a move which i didn't have planned at all. I'm not like that, i've tasted both sex and love and love is far far better. I wanna get to know her not her body.
Now not only did i not leave her with anything, but i left her a measly tip which didn't even cross my mind that for all i know about the ladies, i didn't even know how to tip a great waittress. My next move should be?
2007-01-09 06:49:00 · 7 answers · asked by 2smooth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go back up there with a friend, ask her for her number (since you've been stubborn) and always leave the pretty server a 20% tip unless she sucked and you were left sucking on ice cubes your entire meal. Good luck!
2007-01-09 06:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you interested? Set up a time with her when the two of you can just sit and chat. See what you can find out about her intentions. Don't give her your number, yet. Find out when she has a break and talk to her. If she seems to act desparate, pushy, or get touchy-feely, tell her that way it is for you. She'll either slow down and go your way or look for the next quickie mark. I applaud you for looking for a real, fulfilling relationship based on love and mutual attraction, not just nookie.
As for tipping, I believe the traditional tip is 20% of the bill. I tip according to the satisfaction of the service provided. In the case of the desparate waitress, if you're not interested in a relationship and since she's using her profession to find whatever, I think you did the best thing you could do under the circumstances. I believe that if you get to talk to her and she keeps up the poor professional behavior if you ask her not to, then I'd speak with a higher-up. It doesn't seem like a pleasant idea, but the girl needs to be made to understand that people don't attend a bar, restaurant, store, etc to have the moves put on them-well, at least most people don't. Work is not the place for her kind of childish behavior. Again, congratulations on being a true man!
2007-01-09 07:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by jat_terbox1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lothario isn't your middle name, is it?
Go to the bar with a small bouquet of flowers. On the small card, include your number. Write something cheezy like "You're prettier than all the roses in the Rose Bowl". Wait for her to call. If she doesn't she's not interested.
2007-01-09 06:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, go back, alone and make a move. If she asks you what took so long, and why you ignored her before, just admit that you're crazy about her and unfortunately you're a jack***!
2007-01-09 07:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had the opportunity to Make Your Move--you blew it
2007-01-09 06:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to worry since you will not have a next time with that girl...You have shown her that you're not interested, so that's it.
2007-01-09 06:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her your number so you two can talk and you can find out if you really want to get to know her more!
2007-01-09 06:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋