My boyfriend is a virgin and I'm a bit of a nympho (when in relationships) I'm growing impatient, but at the same time am hesitant to sleep with him. My ex, whom I still have feelings for, and I had the best sex. Mind blowing! I'm worried that my current boyfriend will be so bad that I'll leave him for my ex. I'm frustrated! I just turned my ex down cuz I'm not the type to cheat. Ahhhh!
What do I do?
2007-01-09 06:57:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When your boyfriend is ready, have fun teaching him everything you know and like.
2007-01-09 07:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off, don't sleep with anyone until you know who you have the feelings for, whether its your ex or your current boyfriend. your ex sounds like he's just around for a booty call though, if he's trying to get you to cheat on your boyfriend, and i can tell you that from experience.
if you decide that your feelings are stronger for your ex (not based on how good he is in bed though!), then talk things over with him and leave the current guy. there's no point in being with someone if there's someone that you have stronger feelings for, whether youre with them or not.
if your feelings are stronger for the current guy, don't push him into sleeping with you. if you wait until you're truly in love, things are so much better. promise!
2007-01-09 07:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by john_deeregirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so your boyfriend is a virgin.
Sex is something you've got to work at and go on working at so that it gets better and better. And there's no better framework to do that than within marriage.
Your boyfriend has kept his penis out of other girls. If you can't accept his values, then better look for someone else. And he'd be better with someone who would share his own values for using his penis in a relationship that involves a formal, permanent committement rather than for a few minutes of short-term pleasure.
2007-01-09 07:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you leave your boyfriend because he may "be bad"...he's inexperienced. Are you with him just for sex or is there a relationship. This is an opportunity to teach him the way you like to be pleasured...don't give up on him be mature. I'd dump you for even thinking about this and painting your boyfriend to be a chump...
2007-01-09 07:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. Some guys can naturally control their pc muscles well. If you find the sex un enjoyable it's really sad because guys like that are rare and many girls would love their guy t o last that long in bed. Ask him to go down on you, try anal etc.
2016-05-22 23:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend and work with him. If he is saving himself for marriage respect that and go back to your ex if your that nympho. If you really like him and he is ready to play . Take time and teach him.
2007-01-09 07:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by mdsmith9372 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is a virtue. Since he's a virgin you can teach him what you like, on the other hand, You want someone who already knows what you like. I think you should be with the one you love, unless you are just wanting a booty call. If thats the case, then go with the one you know is good.
2007-01-09 07:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sleep with your boyfriend and don't cheat on him. Why did you and your ex break up? It's kind of stupid to go back to him over your boyfriend being a virgin.
2007-01-09 07:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by fl_omicron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex shouldn't be the basis of a relationship. If you want him to be like your ex, then take your time and train him. If you feel you must go back to your ex, then have the decency to break up with him first.......don't break his heart.
2007-01-09 09:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont worry... if you really like him then that wouldnt matter. whats wrong with waiting? you had great sex before now you have a great relationship w.o the sex. make sure you dont leave this guy for something you want.. cuz it will bite u in the HOOT!
2007-01-09 07:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by godisamor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like U and Ur ex are still talking... talk to Ur boyfriend... be honest w/him... why did U brake off the relationship w/Ur ex... good sex is not the only thing in a relationship....
2007-01-09 07:03:45 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋