and broke up with him
he knw that I did not want him and her talking. They dated when we broke up previously.
Sunday he came over and said he loved me wanted to be with me - and the next day he tells me he talks to her and we are not together so he can talk to who ever he wants.
Why would he do that?
2007-01-09 06:51:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he's getting bored and he wants to try something new.girl your guy is so insensitive..dont tolerate his action.talk to him and clears things out.ask him what or who he really wants.make things black and white.its either he pick you or that other woman.remind him that if he picks you,you expect him to be loyal and be sensitive with your feelings.
2007-01-09 07:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥heartbreaker♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care if he TALKED to his ex? The ex thing means it's over in most cases. I talk to my ex but I don't want to have anything to do with her. I talk because it's the right thing to do. There's no feelings for her.
When you broke up with him, maybe he had no choice and went out with her just for the sake of being with someone or to complain about his break up.
As for him being able to talk with whom he wants when you are brok up, he's totally right. If you broke it off then he hasn't done anything wrong. In many of these questions on this board, I side with the girl but you explained it that he was in the right.
Sorry.
2007-01-09 07:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 13:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong for you care that he is SIMPLY TALKING to his x. She is probably a good friend to him, regardless of their history. Even if you two are together, you shouldnt care, and by you caring so much, its going to push him away. NOW YOU TWO ARE NOT TOGETHER AND you STILL care... I know this sounds harsh sweets... but you are going to push him away - probably right to her, if you keep acting this way. Its pretty childish.
2007-01-09 07:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is obviously still some connection with his ex, and if you ask him not to talk to her and he does anyway, then forget about him because he obviously doesn't care about you enough to consider your feelings or worry about you getting hurt.
2007-01-09 06:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why he'd do that, unless he still had some feelings for her. you need to realize that he doesn't respect your feelings at all and you need to get rid of him. find the guy who's gonna treat you like a princess.
2007-01-09 06:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by john_deeregirl07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks talking to her is innocent but "we" don't usually think that way...we go into jealous mode...no matter how secure we are in ourselves or our relationship with them. believe me he would have done the same if you were talking to an ex
2007-01-09 06:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
nope i wouldnt tolerate it hun!
2007-01-09 06:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Melle Mel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u did good breaking up with him. he is a pig he doesn't deserve u.
2007-01-09 06:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋