when you just dont ever see eye to eye?
2007-01-09 06:22:16 · 21 answers · asked by *never give up* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Agree to disagree. You both know right from wrong. What you are fighting about are merely each others opinions. And one of you thinks they have to be right. Mabe you both have competitive personalities. Don't fight anymore. Appreciate your differences. Remember what Dr Phil says " Do you want to be right? Or do you want to be happy?
2007-01-09 06:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to AVOID conflict rather than to have conflict & become stressed out on how to resolve it. It's never the fact that you don't ever see eye to eye. I believe it's more in the matter of not wanting to see eye to eye. A good marriage consist of many things, but the most important is to have GOOD COMMUNICATION.
2007-01-09 14:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On most things you can just agree to disagree, but there are somethings that you have to agree on or both of you will be hurt by it. Example is money and paying bills.
If you can not agree on how to handle money then separate your accts. One acct is yours, one is his and one is for bills which each of you put in exactly half of what is needed pay everything. I would also recommend to have another shared acct for the house hold budget. This way you will never NOT have the money to pay your bills. If you run out of money in your house hold budget acct then it a flag to look at your spending habits plus you will still have the back up of your personal accts. This will create independence yet strong bond because neither one would leaching off the other.
2007-01-09 14:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you never see eye to eye?? Sounds like you need counseling to me. The occational dispute is expected, but never seeing eye to eye means something is wrong. It could be that you are growing apart or heading in two different directions. This doesn't mean the marriage is over, but you need to work to get on the same path in life.
2007-01-09 14:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Compromise. Sometimes my husband is so wrong, but I just walk away and let it be. Cool off a little. The little stupid arguments/disagreements aren't worth always being right.
2007-01-09 14:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what your fighting about...they key is to keep focused on the issue at hand. Avoid saying hurtful things to each other just to get your point across.
2007-01-09 14:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it depends on the situation and how strong the feeling are on it. back off and wait till you are not in the heat of a disagreement and talk about it and do not point fingers or place blame. Talk it out.
2007-01-09 14:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by K N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on what the conflict is, there's not enough given to answer with good judgment.
2007-01-09 14:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrestle
2007-01-09 14:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Dreaux~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce
2007-01-09 14:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋