I love to be naked and want to goto a nude beach really bad but my girlfriend doesnt like the idea. She wont go with and doesnt want me to go. She doesnt understand that it is not for sexual reasons....any sugguestions? Should I go and not tell her? What do you think?
2007-01-09 06:19:02 · 12 answers · asked by idiot_for_a_day 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love the nude beach and have been going for the past four years. Although it's not primarily sexual, there's certainly a sexual element involved the first time a newcomer goes...just the idea of being around so many naked people is stimulating to first timers. Soon, however, it wears off and becomes just an enjuyable sensual and fun experience.
There are numerous nude beach sites that you and your girlfriend can check out that will give her a sense of what it's all about. Also, remember that nude beaches are really "clothing optional", so your if your girlfriend doesn't want to get naked she can stay fully dressed or just go topless. It's her choice, and she should be aware ot that.
She may be shy about her showing off her naked body, feeling that it's imperfect, etc. You might assure her that not everyone at the nude beach is a Playboy or Playgirl model. Most are regular people with ordinary bodies, and nobody will judge her on her appearance. Once she's naked she's automatically a "10" at the nude beach!
There's a great website called Topfree which will redirect you to a message board dealing with topless and nude beach accounts. It's worth sharing those stories with her.
Also, there's a group called the Diablo Sun Devils that has a great social nudity site directed towards women...again, it's something you guys should check out.
Don't force her to go against her will, don't sneak there by yourself, and don't make a big deal out of it. She'll come around eventually, and once she's there and naked, she'll never want to go to a "prude" beach again.
Bare hugs...and good luck.
2007-01-10 05:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did call the cops.. it's just that he called them in the morning when you were eating breakfast outside in the nude, called the fire department when you set your tree on fire (also in the nude) called the cops in the afternoon when you were outside listening to Motley Crue at ear-piercing volumes while playing air guitar in the nude, and then called them again an hour later when you were shooting his house with your paintball gun in the nude. I think that you must have worn out the cops. Maybe wait until nighttime and catch the guys on the next shift. Either that or set a bunch of cats lose on your property and take your chances with the guys from animal control.
2016-05-22 23:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is not the one for you. Being comfortable with you body in front of other people comes naturally to some and not so naturally to others. Maybe see if she would go to a topless beach with you and work from there. Or go to a place where nudity is optional and let her see what it is really like. Many people have the misconception that it is all about sex when in fact it is just about being free and comfortable. It is however not for everyone.
2007-01-09 06:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by 2littleiggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should go without telling her...that's just ASKING for trouble. It will make her think its for sexual reasons even more!!! I say, tell her to join you fully clothed. Keep getting her comfortable with the idea and eventually she'll be shedding those contraining clothes and feeling the liberation too! If not. Practice in your guys' back yard or house. Walk around naked all the time and she'll get use to it.
2007-01-09 06:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by Gwenith O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like the freedom of being naked in public. Tell her that it's important that you experience it at least once. If she still is against it you need to decide if her love is more important or being nude on a beach.
2007-01-09 06:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go, & leave her behind, but not keep it a secret from her.
If this is something that is high on your list of fun things to do then it would be better to find a GF who likes nude beaches.
2007-01-09 06:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 obviously are on 2 different wave lengths, maybe rethink the relationship entirely. But never do anything that you know your partner would not approve of and or lie about it. Maybe tell her you are going regardless and leave the rest up to her.....if she can not accept it or you then you know what to do.
2007-01-09 06:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jakes Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the slobs that frequent a nude beach? I'd stay away if I were you.
2007-01-09 06:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she's ashamed of her body ? Dont mean anything by that by the way but maybe she also wants just to be that with you
2007-01-09 06:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
myt opnion is you need to sit down tonite and talk to her about it you could lose her if you go and not tell her Don't you think? but if she says no then stay with her and ya'll go do somehting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
2007-01-09 06:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by babygurl28607 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋