i've never had what we call true love....some people get astonished from that and they always tell me that love is essential...so why its so needed and is it really that nice?!!
2007-01-09 06:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by noni297 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't ever truly love someone until you love yourself. You don't have to agree with everything you have ever done, that is called learning. But if you understand your value and worth to yourself, then the right person for you will see that and they will start to fall for you as well.
To some people, they cannot live without someone there to love them. Just because you haven't fallen for someone yet doesn't mean you aren't capable.
2007-01-09 06:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you've never had TRUE love then at least you had a false one then. Honestly, "love" is just a word. When you call it "love", that's the moment it becomes "love." Also, love isn't "essential," it's just a chemical reation produced in our body to further the human species. "Is love nice?" well ask yourself that. "True love" is something you haven't experienced right? Do you find that nice? Maybe you'll fall in "love" with some guy some day and the moment you lose that person "love" is going to make you do desperate things to get it back. Love sucks, but I miss it so.
2007-01-09 15:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by narfanator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit thinking about what other people say about love. Love is defined in so many ways because it's different for every person. Focus on yourself! Think about what you want. What is love to you?
If you aren't getting love then go and take risks! Moreover... have fun! However, don't expect to get the same in return. Also, be cautious about what men can do but if that doesn't bother you then go ahead and flirt.
It takes a lot of time to have some confidence in yourself and be able to move on to others. Learn... explore.... and don't sell your life short.
2007-01-09 14:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic love is not essential. If anything, it just distracts you from the other people who really do love you.
2007-01-09 19:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone needs to feeled loved. Love is a great experience when you share it with the right person. Love is something that is ingrained in us.
2007-01-09 14:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal people think they need love to feel good. I on the other hand am not normal.......don't need anyones love to feel good! I'm a total "giver"......I can give love but can't stand to receive it.
2007-01-09 14:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure thou.. maybe its not love that we need.. maybe just attention..
2007-01-09 14:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by lunatic_arch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature. :)
2007-01-09 14:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by BudLightRocks56954 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋