I am divorced after finding out my husband cheated on me. I have moved past that and have met somebody new. We get along great and share laughs. We are even considered by others to be a serious couple...but...other than kissing me he doesnt seem interested. I am not one to jump into bed with every man I meet but he doesnt even seem interested in me at all in that way. I know that I doubt myself sometimes because of the past and my ex cheating but should I be worried that something is missing in my new relationship. If we continue seeing each other and I hope we do, will this change or I am never going to feel wanted again. Please no answers about being glad he isnt just after sex. I am glad. I just wonder if something is wrong or is it me.
2007-01-09 06:27:07 · 9 answers · asked by nascargirl216 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No...I was the same way with my live in girlfriend....I would not even try or act like a had a interest in it....its just the way some of us show you that we are interested in YOU and not just what you have.
I finally told my girlfriend when she asked if something was wrong that I wanted it to be right for us both and not for her to feel pressured....we just went with it and let me say the wait was worth it!
You have a good man....don't let him go!
2007-01-09 06:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very wise, that her has a healthy dose of self-esteem, and you would be wise to follow his lead.
It is no guarantee, however, that his motives are pure ...
I suggest that you consider the following :
What's Wrong With Premarital Sex? ...
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2004/7/22a/article_01.htm
Why View Marriage as Sacred?
- Love and Respect - Time and Attention
- Avoid a Casual View
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2004/5/8a/article_01.htm
Why Cultivate Virtue?
http://watchtower.org/library/w/2001/1/15/article_01.htm
Is Bible Morality Practical Today?
- Moral Values on the Decline
- Is Bible Morality the Best?
http://watchtower.org/library/w/2000/11/1/article_01.htm
You Can Remain Chaste in an Immoral World
http://watchtower.org/library/w/2000/7/15/article_01.htm
(These URLs will likely be modified soon, whereafter the on-site Advanced Search at http://watchtower.org/search/search_e.htm will find their new URLs.)
2007-01-09 14:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your confused about where you stand in this relationship why not ask him. It is better to ask and get answers from the source than to read into things and ruin a good relationship based on a feeling.
Men aren't the best at expressing themselves and if he knows you just ended a relationship perhaps he wants to be sure your ready for a new relationship with him. Don't be afraid to ask men what their intentions are, you have a right to know what type of relationship your in.
2007-01-09 14:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"other than kissing me he doesn't seem interested" - have you tried talking to him about it? Usually if you have a good man, insecurities can be cleared up with just a little more communication.
2007-01-09 14:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by SBirry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have let things flow as simple as that
later on you will glad how it turn out, maybe
God is giving you what you a man who can
love and accept all of you. thank the lord for
your BLESSING!!!!!
2007-01-09 14:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Tella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has performance issues, or a disease and doesn't want to bring it up early in the relationship.
Who knows.
2007-01-09 14:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably just you. He probably doesn't want sex to early, be honest with him and and comfront him with it, don't flat out say it, but try hinting around and getting him to tell you whats up.
2007-01-09 14:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked to him about it? Maybe he thinks that you're not interested like that because you're recently divorced he's trying to give you space...you know?
2007-01-09 14:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just wanting to take it slow.
2007-01-09 14:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋