My ex bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago. It's weird that he didnt block me on aim since it seems that he wants me totally out of his life. When he broke up with me he was very firm begging me to let him go and stuff. After the break up, the only convo we had was a week ago on aim and he was very cold too. After that I felt akward since both of us are on aim for hours and dont talk to each other. So I let myself disappear by being invisible. Then i noticed that everytime my ex signed in he only stayed for like 5 minutes and then signed off. This is weird b/c when i was visible both of us would be online for hours. I dont know why he does this now. Is it possible that he is looking for me?but he never talks to me when he can see me online. i just wonder why he is doing this sign-on-sign-off trick. Btw, the reason of the break up is he doesnt want a relationship right now, which i believe him. he really has trouble balancing everything in his life.He's a senior in college and i'm his 1st gf
2007-01-09 06:23:53 · 4 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i appear visible again he'd stay online for hours again. i kinda feel like he's waiting for me to talk to him. but this time he really hurt me and i'm not chasing him back. i want him to come back on his own though. what should i do in this situation?
2007-01-09 06:25:17 · update #1
I would wait and see what he does. He might end up contacting you since he can't "keep tabs" on you in that way. Just stay the course and in the meantime, make your own happiness your priority. Delete him from your list too. Out of sight makes him more out of mind. Hang out with ur friends and don't think about guys for a little while. Just have fun being young and having a bright future ahead of you! The rest will fall into place, guys should not be our only priority. Best of luck!
2007-01-09 06:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by johannacass@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games. Leave him alone. I am going through a similar situation right now and the best thing to do is to leave him alone.
2007-01-09 06:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is just let him go. i know its hard but he said he didnt want to be with you anymore and he shouldnt have to beg you to let him go and you shouldnt have to beg him to stay either.
2007-01-09 07:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.. give him time to think what's best for him.. but yet.. if he's still being an idiot, give him hint.. (if u really want him back..) or.. just find another guy.. (if u had enough with him..)
2007-01-09 06:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by lunatic_arch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋