Last year I began dating someone who was seemingly ideal. He is intelligent, handsome, sweet, attentive and great in bed. After a month he told me he was in love with me and started backing off. He lives 400 miles away from me, I was ok with that. I wasn't asking for a commitment. I understood he was a college senior and wanted to put his time to "good use." After not seeing him for 3 months, i began dating someone else. This upset his and he asked how I could do that to him. I think he's an asshole now...he says he wants to work it out when he graduates and returns to so cal in 6 months.
My question is.....what should I do?
Is this just a bunch of BullS***?
2007-01-09 06:12:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps I'm full of Bulls*** myself but I believe that if you were to get involved with this individual he would have a lot of control issues and may lead to some form of abuse. I would suggest that you end communication with this fella and if he refuses to back off (which may be a possibility) then it may become necessary to have a non- association action placed on him in the courts. Hopefully it will not come to this and he will gracefully accept your goodbye and then you will not have to worry about how he might react. Get on with your life and move on to a healthy relationship please.
2007-01-09 06:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had something on the side at college. And it just finally ended. Or we wanted his wants both and is trying to keep you on the line also. You do your own thing. Only worry about your happiness and see the guy whos around for you now. Not the one who wants to keep you on the line.
2007-01-09 06:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by rdwngfever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with the guy you have now don't ruin a good thing and stay with him.....This other guy owes you NOTHING and proved to you NOTHING.......He was in and out of your life in a moment of time and said he loved you but never proved himself to his words....He isn't sincere. If he was he would of proved himself long ago......Don't get involved with a flake. Stay with the sure thing.
2007-01-09 06:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when you are with someone you cat go off with someone else, you should have talked to him, what should you do now?, follow what you feel, do you think it would really work now, its all up to you.
2007-01-09 06:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an asshole
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2007-01-09 06:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋