bad friend for 10 points?

Question

so i have this friend...and she talks sh!t about me all the time. she wrote a poem for a class about me, and it was really mean.
heres the poem
"heather is such a disgrace. i wish that she would hide her ugly face. she likes to cut, shes an emo slut, and i wish that she would die and leave this place."

she WASNT kidding. so what do i do about this?
should i stay friends with her, or should i dump her on her @ss and let her talk sh!t somewhere else?

good helpful answers only please?

poem in a better version::::::::::::::


heather is such a disgrace.
she should hide her ugly face.
she is an emo slu+.
she likes to cut.
i wish she would die and leave this place.

Answer 1

dump her....but i have 2 things for you

1. if you really ARE a cutter...get help please, talk to the nurse, counselor, your parents...someone that can help you

2. she writes this poem for class and the teacher doesn't do anything? she wished you DEAD for crying out loud! you could report her AND the teacher for that...her for doing writing the poem and reading it to the class and the teacher for not reporting her! do you not hear about students shooting each other, or committing suicide? PLEASE report BOTH of them!

dump her...she no longer exists to you...she sounds like she never was a true friend to begin with...

edit: don't give her the satisfaction of even talkin to her to find out why she did it...don't talk to her just to tell her you aren't friends anymore...all that will accomplish is showing her it bothers you. best thing to do is just walk away and do your best not to show any emotions to her or to anyone about her....don't talk to her or about her to anyone....it will just give her the satisfaction that it bothers you and will lead to more ridicule by her

Answer 2

Well, as for the first friend, I'm not sure what to think. If she doesn't seem like she's intending to be rude and mean, she's probably just kidding around. But sometimes people tend to go over board with jokes and it can really hurt someone without them realizing it, so the best thing to do it tell that friend that you know she's just kidding around but it's not funny to you. Hopefully she'll understand and stop. Don't be mean about it though, talk to her calmly. If she does seem like she's trying to hurt you, still, talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't seem to respect you, then she isn't that good of a friend. But it sounds like she's just kidding. As for the second friend, I'm not really sure. She could be doing this too, without realizing that she's hurting you. It sounds more like she's hurting you than kidding. Again, talk to her about it. Tell her you don't like it. If she's rude to you and won't listen and keeps denying that she ever said those things, then she isn't a good friend and you should find a better friend. Hope you resolve this and stay friends :)

Answer 3

I would never stay with a friend that treated me this way, they are obviously not your friend. I would defiantly confront her though and ask her what her problem is. Tell her that she will never be your friend again and that she needs to grow up and if she had a problem she should have come to you first and if she gets all stupid with you and act like she is trying to be cool around people then be like you'll have whats coming to you some day and you wont be around to help her. She has just lost the best friend that she could ever get. She is not worth any ones time and leave it at that. Don't stoop down to her level. Act like it don't bother you and eventually she will get over her issues and grow up (hopefully)

Answer 4

I don't get this question at all. Would you be asking the same question if she hit you on occasion? "Yeah, so my friend decked me in the face the other day for the fifth time...what should I doooo?" She isn't your friend. Stop talking to her. How come this is not obvious to you? I'm sorry if this isn't helpful enough...but maybe it IS helpful to know that there are people that are confused why you even have to ask this question because they are so sure that you should not talk to this ugly person ever again. Good luck dumping her.

Answer 5

Honey, why would you want to stay friends with someone who says these things about you?

A friend is someone who supports you in all you do. Not pull you down! If I were you, I would tell her how you felt about the things she said to you, and then tell her that it isn't something a FRIEND does to let her know that this kind of behavior is NOT ok. (If she keeps this up, take her to the school board or even tell your parents and consider hiring a lawyer because saying she wants you to die is a THREAT. Did the teacher report her?)

Find some friends who will support you and say things to you that make you feel good, not like a piece of ****.

If you need a GOOD friend, you can talk to me on my MySpace if you want:
http://www.myspace.com/mel_4321

Answer 6

How to Make Real Friends :
- We All Need Friends
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good Friends--Bad Friends
- (A Note to Parents)
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm

How to Find Real Happiness ...
- Think of Your Spiritual Needs
- Keep your Life Simple
- Happiness and Self-Worth
- Hope--Vital to Happiness
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2001/3/1/article_02.htm

(This last URL will likely be modified soon, whereafter the Advanced Search at http://watchtower.org/search/search_e.htm will find its new URL.)

Answer 7

She is harldy a friend if she wants you to leave this place .A true friend would want you to stay an she wouldn't talk about you behind your back.

I think you should confront her and ask her why she's being like that to a friend.

My friends are always really supportive of me and if someone upsets me they stand by me.. that's a true friend

Answer 8

The poem written for a class...wishing for the death of another student...hmmm, this person is not very bright....Does she not realize you could take it to the school board? She is definitely NOT a friend. In no way is that funny or acceptable.

Answer 9

Honey, with friends like that who needs enemies?? She is definately NOT a friend. Making up a poem like that is just wrong, and then to read it to the entire class. I say you dump that b i t c h on her @ss. Besides revenge is a dish best served cold. You definately deserve better that that. Good Luck!!

Answer 10

Well I would not consider this person your friend! Why would you want to have someone like that in your life? Firends are there to support you and help you not put you down! I would slowly become less available to her, she may try and manipulate her way back in, but dont let her!