2007-01-09 06:10:39 · 13 answers · asked by ero e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how about kicking her a** and his as well
2007-01-09 06:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by star-e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you confront them both, get your ducks in a row. First, seek legal advice from a family law attorney. Have the divorce papers drawn up before you bring everything out in the open. Second, have your proof ready that they have been seeing each other. When all of this is together, confront them both. Trust me, you do not want to stay in this relationship with your husband. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You will never get the trust back. If he is willing to cheat with your best friend, he will cheat with ANYONE. This is a no win situation. They only way you can come out on top is to be the first to file for divorce.
2007-01-09 06:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lilith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband and the girl to see if this is the case. That's why it's important to keep you man and you friend at a distance. I don't know why it always happens like that but if you leave them alone long enough or if you let anything slide, you'll get played. It's messed up but that is how it goes. Maybe before you ask you could just sit back and watch to see if you notice anything out of the ordinary.
2007-01-09 06:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by Brownie_baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront the both of them and tell them what you know.
If you want to get even, sleep with her husband.
Another option is to video tape while they're doing it and post it on the web so the world can see it. Then send a copy to his friends and family as well as hers.
Evil, huh?
2007-01-09 06:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront both of them and then get rid of both of them. I would typically say work things out with your husband, but in this case this is your friend and he should have known better just as she should have. Good Luck!
2007-01-09 06:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them both out of your life. She's not a friend, she doesn't respect you and your marriage. He's not a good husband, he doesn't respect you or his commitment to you. Why do you want these people in your life at all?
2007-01-09 06:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's obivious that she is not a friend. But very few females make good friends anyway. Next time be careful when selecting a friend. As my great GRANDFATHER use to say "If in your lifetime you find ONE true friend consider yourself LUCKY".
2007-01-09 06:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expose them and kick them both to the curb.
2007-01-09 06:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need either one of them in your life. Clean house. Take them to the dump.
2007-01-09 06:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to the cleaners. Keep all records/evidence. You will need it in court.
2007-01-09 06:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it public....so when they disappear it looks like they took off together and no one would be the wiser :)
2007-01-09 09:51:54 · answer #11 · answered by ray g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋