addict. She got mad that I answered the phone and when I gave it to him she started yelling at him. He then turned to me and asked me to give him a moment alone to talk to her. When cameheback in the room he got mad because I answered the phone. She didnt call in a month but when she did she asked for money. Should I call her and asks what is her problem or do I let her look like the bad one?
2007-01-09 06:12:10 · 12 answers · asked by starsmoonis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't call her, comfront him, and make it right.
If he is choosing her over you, or hiding conversations, you know somethings up. Be sure to set it straight that she doesn't need to be asking for money, and she also doesn't need to be getting upset and flipping out just because you answer the phone, make it clear to your man that it's one or the other, and he can't hide things from you, explaine to him that you want an open and honest relashionship, and that is going to require both of you being well aware what she is saying, and wanting. Me (personally) I wouldn't call her, I would let her look like the bad one, and explaine to him that you only had good intentions, and apologize to him for any mis-communication. Just be honest, and if can't handle an honest relashionship, he probably deserves a girl like his ex-wife, hun. I'm sure that if you explaine to him the circumstances, he will understand.
Good luck and I hope I helped!
♥ KAY ♥
2007-01-09 06:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if in your shared home ,you shouldnt have to go anywhere but if you can imagine the discomfort of someone who is sitting with their current girlfriend while talking to their ex,,most uncomfortable and if you dont mind,,give them a minute BUT to be chastised over answering the phone,,thats a no-no,she called your home or a phone where you were,you are his chosen girlfriend are you not? she has no business shouting about you but this undoubtedly is the drugs talking,,she cant get him wrapped around her little finger if you are there interfering can she,,if you dont live together sit back and take a look at how he treats you and respects you because if he is usually like this it isnt respect,,if you do live together he needs to prioritize between someone who he isnt with anymore and his girlfriend who didnt ask for any of this treatment.this isnt about her,,this is about how he speaks to you and switches off when she clicks her fingers and as his ex,,she doesnt have that right or indeed any rights anymore.he needs to sort it not you or she wont stop at all and will not give you any courtesy ,phone or otherwise.
2007-01-09 06:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your b/f him and his ex can get glad the same way they got mad. If they doesn't like you answering the phone, then her *** needs to stop calling. And don't ever ask you to leave the room again, you aren't going anywhere and he can leave.
2007-01-09 06:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is the bad one and he is wrong for making you leave the room he is yours now so you have the right to know what is being said. and as far as him getting mad at you for answering the phone then it sounds like he just don't deserve you.
2007-01-09 06:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're in a complicated relationship especially if your b/f is gonna get mad at "you" for answering the phone. I think it's best that you find some-one else.
2007-01-09 06:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her, talk to him. He had no business barking at you because you answered the phone.
When my husband's ex-wife calls, I stay in the room and listen to everything and when my husband hangs up the phone he tells me everything. Even if she calls him at work, he tells me.
Your future husband should have nothing to hide from you, including conversations with his ex.
2007-01-09 06:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because his relationship with her is none of your business. Dont answer his phone and dont be such a busy body and have to know everything. You are just the girlfriend she is the wife until she is not.
2007-01-09 06:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing with a boyfriend who has a wife. A "soon-to-be" ex is not an ex. I'm not real impressed with you OR him. You're having an affair with a married man. He's cheating on his wife.
2007-01-09 06:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would show common courtesy to give him a moment of privacy, as long as you trust him.
Don't bother calling her, it could serve no good purpose.
2007-01-09 06:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your business to call her, it's for him to deal with. And everyone deserves privacy when on the phone or speaking with someone in person, if they desire it.
2007-01-09 06:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋