ive kissed guys before. im not like a kiss ho im just saying. but my boyfriend has never kissed a girl before. the last time i tried to kiss him his lips went inside my mouth, and it was super gross. its not like our whole relationship is gonna revolve around it but he told me the other night how selfconseious he is about the whole thing.
i felt so bad and now i dont kno what to do. he is so great and i love him not only for his body but also his personality, i dont want it to be weird espesally when we r alone and im waiting for him to do it. he just pussys out and gets nervious. how do i kiss him without him being uncomfortable?
2007-01-09 06:07:44 · 23 answers · asked by Ali D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww thats so cute! a kissing virgin! you should just teach him how to kiss but make it sexy so neither of you is nervous
2007-01-09 06:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by chyna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for his timing. If you let him gain confidence and practice taking initiative, he will do it for the rest of your relationship. If you force the issue and you drive the initiative, you will be required to be "the man" and the real backbone behind any major initiative he displays for the rest of the relationship except for when he exits the relationship.
You need him to lead, not because you are weak, but because you want a partner and not a child. He isnt wired to be a wingman, and teammate without him having practice and forum to initiate. Not having a place to initiate, or the power and authority to act, is the place of a child, not an adult.
2007-01-09 14:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you ARE making it weird. You're making a super big deal out of it, posting it on Yahoo for the world to see, and the worst part is, you think it was "super gross". I don't blame the poor guy for feeling self conscious. Give him a break, Jesus H Christ! Everyone has a first time! Including you!
2007-01-09 14:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Omg does this bring back memories..few years ago when I moved up here. My boss thought his son and I were perfect for each other. I went on blind date-his son was so nervous he wanted to give me a kiss-to break the ice-instead he stuck his whole mouth in mine and nearly drowned me. I also got a chip tooth that cost me $1200.
2007-01-09 14:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Hyatt A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teach him how to kiss the way you want him to. Just be patient with him and tell him step by step what feels good to you and what doesn't. As long as you are gentle with him about it, he should be appreciative towards you. What are you waiting for.
2007-01-09 14:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by grizzly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want in a kiss. I have been dating a man for nine months--it was four months before we kissed. I had never kissed before and was incredibly nervous/scared about messing up (so I can identify w/ your bf). It is your job to make him feel comfortable w/ kissing you.
2007-01-09 14:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by completenerd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kiss ho LMAO anyways give him time let him get more comfortable with you... don't keep bringing it up that is probably what is making him so nervous. you obviously sound young so you should worry less about kissing and more about having fun
2007-01-09 14:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♠ JƏSSƏ'S GiRL ♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your boyfriend so teach him how to kiss. It's not that hard to do. Some are good kissers some are not. But you can show him how it's done I'm sure. ;o) good luck
2007-01-09 14:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree to give him kissing lessons. Make it a fun thing!
2007-01-09 14:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! How old is this guy? Is he a virgin? Get him kind of tipsy and loosen him up a little bit that might work. Good luck.
2007-01-09 14:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well next time ur alittle intament just be like can i give you a kiss babe, and just do it nice and light slowly not toung but little pecks he'll get use to it good luck~
2007-01-09 14:12:24 · answer #11 · answered by theyknowmeaslilb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋