i just broke up wit ma boyfriend but i know dat he still loves me and i havnt talked to him since saturday and today is tuesday.and the thing is dat he found out dat some gurl is "pregnate"wit "his" baby.i honestly dont believe her! but before we broke up we talked and he kept telling me tad he lovd me and that he wantd to be wit me.and dat he didnt want to be wit her dat he wantd to be wit me.i just......i just dnt noe wat to do i kant get ovr him!im still really hurt!!HELP!!1
2007-01-09 06:05:01 · 15 answers · asked by mrs.garcia16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did he get the girl pregnant while he was with you? If so then he cheated and that was wrong of him too do
If it was before you , it was before you and you cant get mad at something he did before he met you. And if you love him then you need to be there for him
2007-01-09 06:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your pain. I've been there. Now, you can't automatically say that the other girl's baby isn't his. You don't know that for sure. He could be telling you that he loves you and everything else, but also telling her the same thing. Once the baby is born, the pregnant female and your ex should have a paternity test to prove whether the baby is his or not. Still regardless of the fact he obviously slept with her because he don't know if he is fathering her baby or not. It's gonna hurt for a while, but eventually you'll get over it and find somebody else.
2007-01-09 06:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by miss info 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound like an English teacher but "dat" is not a word.
If your ex-boyfriend is having a child with someone else that should tell you something about him.
When you love someone you don't sleep with other people....move on and start again with someone who deserves you.
2007-01-09 06:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is me and my ex.
We broke up last year and he dated this ho who said she was going to have his baby - lie.
He was head over heels for her.
We got back together he said he wanted to be with me not her.
I kicked him out last week - cause he was still talking to her.
I couldnt get over him last year- it hurt and hurt bad.
But I have learned my big lesson now. The whole time we were together - all I thought about was her.
Let him go or you could be hurting worse in the end.
He is not worth it- and you may love him but it doesnt sound like he loves you.
Im sure he cares about u - but he wouldnt be screwing around if it was REAL love
2007-01-09 06:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank you and goodnight, there is no responce to that question other than maybe you should get your illiterate a$$ back in school and learn how to speak english before trying to connect with another human being because as you pscyo women always say "comunication is the key" and you can't comunicate if you can't complete a coherent sentence.
but as far as advice on your situation, stop dating losers with kids.
2007-01-09 06:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
basically hit upon a fashion to envision with him, and tell him how sturdy your emotions nonetheless are, and that you'll like to easily %. up the products and take a check out to commence over..i recognize it ain't gonna be straightforward, yet woman, in case you truly love him, that's nicely worth it! I desire you the finest of success!
2016-10-17 00:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well make sure its not his baby bc if it is that means he cheated!!!! and you dont want to be w a cheater plus there is a lot of drama coming up if it is his baby, he would have to deal w her for the rest of his life!!!
2007-01-09 06:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama! Drama! Drama! How immature. It's hard for me to get serious about your question until you learn proper English.
2007-01-09 06:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you love him why run away for someone else to trap him with a child stay and fight the fight if you feel he is whort the stress.
2007-01-09 06:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by oluwatobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-09 06:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋