Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

boyfriend problems he dont listen to me

2007-01-05 03:44:13 · 17 answers · asked by anita o 1 in Friends

2007-01-05 03:43:12 · 19 answers · asked by jeepit123 2 in Singles & Dating

I live with my best friend. Shortly after we started living together, I realized that I have feelings for him that go beyond friendship, but he doesn't return those feelings even though he cares a great deal for me and doesn't want to lose me as a friend. Neither of us can move until our lease is up (for various financial and technical reasons) and...honestly, neither of us wants to move. He wants a friend who will be supportive of his relationship goals and I want to be the kind of person who can rise above petty jealousy and consistent feelings of rejection. I've been terrible and I just want to stop. I never thought of myself as a bad person, but I hate myself more and more every day that I can't be the friend he wants and needs.

2007-01-05 03:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-05 03:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by Gonzalo P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if so, what makes you sexy? I am NOT talking about being a slut, i am talking about a person who has this "i don't know what". What is it?

2007-01-05 03:42:52 · 11 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Singles & Dating

in the beginning, like you just thought you'd NEVER get used to this or that about them. Then after time passed, you found that you loved them enough to overlook it?

2007-01-05 03:42:29 · 14 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 03:42:17 · 17 answers · asked by Gonzalo P 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and some of my frineds are going out drinking tonight, figured i would invite everyone. It will either be in Portsmouth or Dover, not sure yet. Answer if you are down.

2007-01-05 03:42:06 · 4 answers · asked by Latex 3 in Singles & Dating

If your are dating and do plan to have sex.

2007-01-05 03:40:54 · 21 answers · asked by Gonzalo P 2 in Singles & Dating

She is very picky person.

2007-01-05 03:40:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 12 years old. My best friend, 13, has a crush with our math instructor, who is about 30, married, two kids. He has pictures of her everywhere (bedroom, bathroom, locker, computer, etc.). He's been signing up for all the math courses lately to spend time with her and impress her. I know it sounds wierd and stuff, but he is just crazy about her! What should i do to make him come to his senses and get a life???

2007-01-05 03:40:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

good or bad??from a womans point of view??

2007-01-05 03:40:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On New Years Eve, I confessed my sins to the Catholic church. I made the priest aware that I had moved in with my girlfriend and was sleeping with her. This, he had told me, was a huge sin in Catholism. In order for God to forgive me I would I have to immediately stop sleeping with her and move out of our house until we are married. She is outraged by my decision. Will our relationship continue to work? What should I do?

2007-01-05 03:40:21 · 11 answers · asked by Jason K 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, hes 18 and I'm 20. Everytime I see him, he smiles, and is happy to see me. I'm the first one he ims when he signs on and I know this sound childish, but he hasnt asked me out yet and I think its because hes shy. Should I ask him out because he is all I think about lately and me having feelings this strong hardly ever happens.

2007-01-05 03:40:16 · 21 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm only 15, but my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I am a strong Christian, and I love my boyfriend, but, even though he goes to church and claims to be a Christian, he doesn't act it out in his life, whereas I try very hard to. But I don't know how to point this out to him without sounding stuck up and holier-than-thou, you know? I want our relationship to be as godly as possible, but if he was the man God has prepared for me, wouldn't he be on the same level as me? I'm so confused. Any Christian advice? I appreciate it.

2007-01-05 03:38:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, as most of you predicted, that boy DID like me back! (Yay!) He asked if I liked him then I said yes and he told me he thinks he feels the same way. We then agreed to talk properly when we next saw each other.

I saw him a few times in the last few days, and I didn't bring up what had been said, and neither did he, so we never had 'the talk' and carried on as normal. However, I would really like to go out with him, but he mentioned that he also liked me a while before and didn't say anything, despite his confidence, when it comes to things like this, I wonder if he gets shy.

But what should I do next? Should I just leave things unsaid and flirt, or should I have a proper conversation about our feelings?

2007-01-05 03:37:56 · 11 answers · asked by Elle F 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 03:37:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Althow I understand that no one wants to be labled a racist by making comments in referance to race, and wants to say "io dont see race", but wouldnt it be better to be color sensitive, respectful and appricative of the differances and the challanges that all women face verses saying "they are all the same and thier color dosnt matter" ???

What im saying is Black women face challanges That white women dont face, and white women face challanges that black women dont , and so on with in each race of women. So why is that some guys can sit back and say that all women are the same when they are not save the exception the are each buetiful in their own way and should be appreciated as individualy beutiful for they differance and not generalized in any way :)

2007-01-05 03:36:56 · 19 answers · asked by blackplatnium007 2 in Singles & Dating

is marriage possible between two of us?

2007-01-05 03:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by rajiv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't seem to be able to keep a girlfriend. Was dating a woman until this morning and she said that i was a really nice bloke but wants to be friends my ex before split with me cause i was too nice! what is going on don't women want a guy who will treet them right? Any tips from anyone would be appreciated cause i really am at a loss. I am not desperate before anyone says it.

2007-01-05 03:36:24 · 26 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Singles & Dating

His name is Leland he gave me his number.He left to Virginia and said that I would be the first one he called on his new cell. Does this mean he likes me?

2007-01-05 03:36:02 · 3 answers · asked by love 1 in Singles & Dating

I was attracted to this guy two years ago but then I never saw him again. Now that he saw me again, he asked me out..
Upon learning that he will be moving to New York in a couple of months I don't know what to do. We were never friends before, so I don't think friendship is his only intention with me. I don't know what to do, what to expect?? Should I even bother to develop feelings for him?

2007-01-05 03:35:43 · 6 answers · asked by Taylor R 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband just popped a piss test. His boss told him to tell the lab that he eats ibuprofen like candy. My Q is will it show up and fool the test to think it's marijuana or coke? My husband might have a problem and he won't admit it to me.

2007-01-05 03:34:48 · 11 answers · asked by Tasha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a lot of guys who likes to experiment with sex between the ages of 15 and 18. How many of you tried it? This one guy asked me why I wouldn't experiment or sleep with a guy...Just want to know who of you have?

2007-01-05 03:34:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you start seeing someone new. Especially when they are the ones that left you.

2007-01-05 03:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I was given email of my would be fiance by relative by her permission. I wrote a little extra....and mentioned my salary and gave her extra info. I mentioned nothing offensive and/ or about my past life. Just told her my true lifestyle that I non-alcoholic, not going to clubs and stuff and no girlfriends and general life in the US. As a fact the girl and her parents are interested in this relationship. Also, she herself said that she wants to marry me...But I am scared that I wasn't smooth in the email I wrote to her and mentioned things that could have been mentioned face-to-face...Please suggets something.. I don't want to loose her!

2007-01-05 03:34:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My bf & I have been together for 3 months & we moved in together a month ago. It seems really fast but we have actaully been dating for about a year it just got SERIOUS a few months back. I have never met his family & he tells me that he will only introduce a gf to them if he knows he plans to marry her. He almost introduced his ex but she dumped him before it happend. (she is 7 years older than him & was just using him to get over her divorce, she was abusive, jealous, & cheated on him constantly... every once in a while she will text him things like "I love you, I'm sorry, I know you are not happy with her so leave her for me" even though she has a new BF!) I'm not sure what to do because I found an email he wrote to a friend saying he lives by himself... he lives with me! If it were not for me he couldn't have moved to the a big city like we did. Should I trust him & just realize that he is very reserved or is he emberrased by me? He says he loves me but I don't know... Help

2007-01-05 03:34:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 03:34:04 · 7 answers · asked by lee r 1 in Singles & Dating

Something my bf said did ot add up and he left his email open and there was an email sent saying - hey you not up to much except thinking of you............ please tell me your thoughts.... I do not want to say anything directly incase I am going off on one but I have just this second read it and I feel sick

2007-01-05 03:33:52 · 17 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2 in Singles & Dating

Or was that dream bubble burst after a while ?

2007-01-05 03:33:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating