2007-01-05 03:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by Gonzalo P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes we have, and yes we were. We've gone back to monogamy due to life circumstances, but are looking forward to becoming active again.
It is not true that a willingness to share one another with other people automatically means that we must not love one another. For us, it means quite the opposite. It means that we DO love one another, very much. More than we love ourselves, in fact, which is really saying something because we are both confident, intelligent, self-respecting individuals. We just value our spouse's happiness above our own.
2007-01-07 18:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we've been swingers for several years. We had a great relationship and great sex before, and it has only gotten better since. :-)
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2007-01-05 17:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way!! Im my opinion a marriage is a committment to each other and for me "swinging" even when both parties agree is infideltiy and is not healthy for a marriage. I love my husband and I could not bear the thought of him toucjing someone else just as I have no desire to be with another man. A marriage is both and emotional and physical committment to each other and if you want to swing don't gt married. But that is my view.
2007-01-05 03:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jcord29 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i dont think it works for a couple.. even if u think u both agree on it... for the relationship is cannot be good to see your loved one being intimate with another person.. its not ego, its not insecurity, its normal not to be ok with that.. if u are, then maybe u really do not luv that person as much as for being married. marriage is not wanting to share your loved one with others, is a commitment to one another.....
2007-01-05 04:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Confussed 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
at one time in my life i did but i find it hard to not keep my heart from the moment. you have to be strong and willing to let go so you can do that kind of thing.
2007-01-05 03:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋