How many of you likes to experiment with sex?

Question

I know a lot of guys who likes to experiment with sex between the ages of 15 and 18. How many of you tried it? This one guy asked me why I wouldn't experiment or sleep with a guy...Just want to know who of you have?

Answer 1

After I put it in all the way to the nuts,we could experiment from that point !!

Answer 2

I have. More guys talk about it than do it though. Still, lots manage to do it. Kinda sounds like you mean trying it at all, not experimenting with... variations on the theme.

It also sounds like the guy you mention started low on the scale of ways to convince you to do it with him. Most guys save pathetic attempts like his for desperation tries as a girl shoots them down again and again but they're dumb enough to still have hope!

Still... if it works, maybe he's smart like a fox, right? Here's the deal: sex is fun, it's exciting to anticipate or remember, feels REAL good, easy to do, it has lots of good features to it, easy sell once a person is aware of most of those features. That's why you usually don't see adults over, say, 28 fooling around with games on the subject. They've decided already, just need to see if the partner qualifies.

But if you are 15-18 like those boys you mention, there's some extra stuff for you to think about. Pregnancy of course. Gonna slaughter that baby or give it less of a life than it could have had a few years from now? Tough choice. Boys talk, they brag. They lie. Just need enough truth that others know to start to brag and let it smooth right off into lies. Lol, you'll be amazed at the freaky stuff you did after the story gets around school a couple times. Something else to think about there: other boys who aren't all about sex (well, they pretty much want it, but won't push the idea if it bothers you) that you might like in the future will feel pressured by those stories to push you for sex, feeling they are really pathetic if they can't get the freak who did Stein and his two buddies. (See how the story has grown already???) So a boy who would be about you and the relationship with you is pressured to be strongly about sex because you were careless.

That is not to say don't do it if you make a real choice. Real choices are different from giving in to pressure and being careless about what you get into. And when people know you and feel you made a real choice, they look at those choices and their results differently. I have to say though, were I one of those friends, I would never believe being pressured by "everyone but you's doing it" led to a real choice.

Hmmm... downsides other than pregnancy and good boys, the ones that get married for 25-50 years, screwing up with you because of pressure... AIDS, maybe a little burning when you pee, some chlamydia, warts (later boys will LOVE seeing them when undressing you), finding out two of his friends are coming by to share... but then, it does feel wonderful for a little while.

A last thought. There are very few things couples can truly share as something of their own. Sex is one. Some people feel it is a more special sharing when one or both partners have most their history in the relationship, rather than before it.

Answer 3

Well I wouldn't say experimenting with sex is a good thing, many bady things can come out of it (STD, pregnancy, etc.) but I'm not to judge anyone for experiments with sex. Sex can be a fun thing and can bring a couple closer together but like I said there are consquesnces of sex...

Answer 4

I never tried to experiment with it until I got older like 19 or 20 and that was only because I was with someone who I felt comfortable experimenting with...now I have to wait until I meet someone who I feel comfortable with again before I try it!

Answer 5

Blondie: The times for Experimenting with S## start at three yr and continues until rigormortis sets in.But I think you meant Teen display of Coitus or other forms of reaching a Climax with a partner present and participating.Ladies Won't admit to Exp-- very young or with relitives or samesex. Also, neither will most GUYS actually tell the first times or the incestual events.
I remember acting as watch-out in third grade so the girls could MESS with each other( in rural school 50 years ago) I watched as the older boys taught them how to BJ and jack&jill. Older girls were telling each other about Older men and how to exersize and make the floor of the Uterus stronger to SQUeZe it in and milk it dry. At twelve , an 18 year old BABYSITTER taught me for two weeks. Her&Girl Friend Bought a marriage manual and we went thru it cover to cover with out missing a diagram.
luckily nither one became pregnant.The age or times are perty much the same I think.

STUDY---- the methods of BC and safe sex. Use your knowlage and stick to Heavy petting (hands in pants) Rubbing it off outside the material of clothing. And belive an old goat%%%%% he won.t pull out on time no matter what he says.
I have old Diaries of long ago(1860s) and the activities were the same with more CODE words for how far they went.
Swing on the Garden gate- was standing up fase to face with a penis hidden in her petticoats touching the Snail on the head.
Primrose path- was a walk in the high weeds to stomp out a soft patch for a bed and lay waste to the maidenhead.
Picking Grapes- was Boy on back girl spreading dress/hoops slips over him to conceal him to others as he sucked the grape-like exposed flesh.
Frog hunting -was Anal and other with satisfaction as the Prize of a good Box Supper.
Boys learning the Touch of Tassels -was to teach him how every place on the body has a WQW spot. Hands(palms) inner forearm, inner bicep, Small of the back ,under ear, feet, inner thigh ,sides up to nipples and down to navel.
The ability to KISS a girl to Orgasm without taking her bloomers off,was called --French Courting.
letting the erection slide past on the outside of the pantaloons was --Preacher style.
Letting the erection snuggle into the Exposed hinney Cheeks without going in was called opening the drapes.
This isn't Whores talking it is Finnishing school and NORMAL school ordinary teens just like you only more Discreet and without Internet. Girls Drank Abisenth as a DATE DRug and Coke came along later With Real Cocaine to be applyed to the inner walls of the vagina straight from the bottle.
Ain't life grand. passed from hand to hand

Answer 6

Lost my virginity at 18, starting fooling around about 16. Never do anything you don't feel comfortable with.

Answer 7

I'm still a virgin but I like to experiment with sex just like everybody else. You know different types of oral or lotions, etc.

Answer 8

If that's what u want to do honey, then experiment. Have as much fun as u can! But just be sure to stay safe!!

Answer 9

im 18 and me and my gf "experiment" sometimes but we are very careful sex isnt a game

Answer 10

this is different for everyone
if he is in one place and you are in another
you both would be better off with other people
guys will usually push for girls to experiment
girls rarely do
guys lead the way on this front
that's probably all they lead the way on ...