I was given email of my would be fiance by relative by her permission. I wrote a little extra....and mentioned my salary and gave her extra info. I mentioned nothing offensive and/ or about my past life. Just told her my true lifestyle that I non-alcoholic, not going to clubs and stuff and no girlfriends and general life in the US. As a fact the girl and her parents are interested in this relationship. Also, she herself said that she wants to marry me...But I am scared that I wasn't smooth in the email I wrote to her and mentioned things that could have been mentioned face-to-face...Please suggets something.. I don't want to loose her!
2007-01-05 03:34:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Just being yourself is the best thing you can do. If I were her, I'd want to know as much about you as possible considering the situation. If you're only going correspond via email for now, you can only do the best that you can do. It'll be fine. Good Luck!
2007-01-05 06:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by mama_mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The major problem with the people in today's world is they want to fix things even before they are broken
Relax, my dear are you feeling guilty that you lied to them?
Send her a second email saying that what you said in previous email was bulls***.
Just kidding!!!
Keep communicating and be a good boy. If she wants to marry you and her parents are ready too, it will come through.
Please do not discuss things that you are afraid of, to her anymore.
And one more thing never send a email immediately after writing.
Read re-read and then when you are convinced that all said is perfect shoot it. Learn the lesson now.
Emails and Guns have same effects.
2007-01-05 18:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be smooth 24/7. Why would you want her email impression of you to be false? I mean no offense-it's just that what you sent probably reflected your true personality better than a smooth message would have.
2007-01-05 03:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email her again and ask her if she found your previous email offensive. Most likely she didn't. If the information you emailed was being trutful then don't worry about it. She has to accept you as you are so why try to pretend otherwise? It is good to be open from the beginning as long as doing this is not offensive to her. Best Wishes!
2007-01-12 06:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a chance to talk to her on phone, Frankly ask about what she thinks of your mail. If you feel something bad, tell her sorry about it. I don't think she will be the opposite of what you think. Being frank in relation is the best till your life. Don;t worry man. Go on talk to her on phone. Talk softly, Tell her what you have mind in about her. Beware that it is only she on the phone and not others in the other phone.sometimes unfortunately it happens.:) Best wishes for your marriage.
2007-01-05 13:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...i dont think you will lose her because if she really wants you to be a guy who doesnt go to clubs etc then the chances of the two of you boring people getting married and having boring jobs and boring lives with boring kids seems a very high probability..SMILE!!!!
2007-01-05 06:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by sudheesh s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to "loose" her, hold her tight. Aren't you a tad too silly having written things without thinking? Do you want to prove yourself sillier still, by correcting those?
2007-01-06 03:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to meet each other in real-life and spend some (lots) of time together- for all you know, SHE'S not what you want!
2007-01-05 03:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry nothing will go wrong . call her to find out her reaction to your e-mail if you are still worried. Try to clear if there is some misunderstanding
2007-01-10 14:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a mail-order bride thing?
Don't worry, she'll find out who you are all on her own, doesn't matter what you wrote in that e-mail.
2007-01-05 03:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by jen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋