Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

I am 33 yrs old and my husband is 39.This is my third marriage (but i married my ex. twice)and his second marriage.I am concerned because I met my husband through work while he was still married.We were old collegues and on friendly terms.Nothing ever happened between us while he was still married other than a few suggestive glances and some flirting that he tried to instigated but i backed off and I waited 6 month after he was divorced to start seeing him.My issue is that he seems very proud to show off that i am an ex. model and beauty pagent queen.I also overheard him tell a co-worker that i was his trophy wife?And i quote that he had got a white woman! This is bothering me because i feel like he thinks of me as a status symbol?

2007-01-05 03:07:27 · 19 answers · asked by Elizabeth S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this woman I have been Intimate with told me she was pregnant by me. the baby is here, but her new boyfriend threatens to leave her if she ever allows me to take a test. He's her financial stability right now and so she won't. what should I do?

2007-01-05 03:07:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he is my best frind but i think that i am in love with him but i was so not hard to talk to him but now when i see he i dont know what to say. but when his gilrfriend coms it rely hard to talk to him what should i do

2007-01-05 03:07:08 · 7 answers · asked by sakuragirl25 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, when I was a kid, about 5, a very close family member did something to me, it's always bothered me, but I don't have the guts to confront him about it. It's been years and I just can't get it out of my head. I've told 2 people in my life about it. I thought that would help, but I'm starting to think that I need to confront him, I mean the person who did it. I don't know what to do?? Somebody, anybody have advice?

2007-01-05 03:06:45 · 18 answers · asked by LivingMyLife 1 in Family

2007-01-05 03:06:37 · 10 answers · asked by Alcor 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do i think that love is just a collection of words,and pictures.Constaintly bashing at our brains,changing the way we act and think.The more you think your in love,then the more fantasy's and daydreams you have.It gets to a point when everyday life is just an obsessive dream you want to have.If people are obsessed about something,isn't that bad for your health.Whats the cure.

2007-01-05 03:05:45 · 26 answers · asked by prettypete 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 03:05:12 · 17 answers · asked by seda 1 in Singles & Dating

my mum is realy fussy her birthday is realy close and she had all the things she wanted for x-mas she will be 42 any ideas would be realy helpfull thanx

2007-01-05 03:04:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-05 03:03:53 · 5 answers · asked by fun fun fun .... you know the rest 5 in Friends

She recently lost her grandfather to long term illness and was crying last night. I have not lost a family member that i was that close to and felt helpless to console her. What is the best way to ease her suffering and brighten her outlook on his passing. I am dying myself everytime i see her cry. She doesnt do it often at all and i mean i have seen her do it only 5 times maybe in 3 years. Please help!?!?!

2007-01-05 03:03:52 · 9 answers · asked by wannabegamer2714 2 in Family

I have been going out with this really great guy for a month and a half. I know we're just kids, but is it wrong to want to have sex with him? We have protection and a place to go but I'm nervous. Im 16 years old. He's 15. I feel like if we do this so many things will go wrong. But we both want to. It would be both of our first times, and we want to share it with each other. We've talked about it a lot and we just decided we should do it. I know people say you get "caught up in your emotions" but I really love him. I know we have protection, and that its not 100% guaranteed, and thats what bothers me. If anything ever happened (aka getting pregnant or an STD) I would die telling my parents. Im just really nervous. What should I do?

2007-01-05 03:03:24 · 16 answers · asked by Molly K 1 in Singles & Dating

You see love stories in movies, tv shows, books, etc. But is love really like that? I've never been in love, obviously, but is it really all they make it out to be?

2007-01-05 03:03:04 · 13 answers · asked by Kevan David 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing that guy for a few month but it was never official wich hurt me.. He recently realized what he'd done want us to be friend before anything else... I still have feelings for him but I don't know if it's worth it.

2007-01-05 03:02:42 · 4 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 with social anxiety and panic attacks. I have dropped out of college due to this. I just couldnt be there. I work only 3 nights a week cleaning at my mothers office building because no one is around me. In order to live at my parents house I have to go to college, but I feel like I do not want to go back yet. I am actually considering moving out with my husband and renting a home. And renturning to college on my own. And instead of going to school for nursing (I did b/c thats what my dad wanted) I want go for Esthetics. Am I wrong for wanting to move out on my own and go back to college when Im ready for what I want or is it something I should do? thanks for any help!

2007-01-05 03:02:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

feelings for him? right before i got married, he called and said he was engaged, and I didn't care- I didn't even think of him at all on the wedding day- but now that I am married, and he is starting to set a date etc... i feel kinda jealous, and dream about us being together..(we were going to get married, but right out of high school, he went in the army, and then to Iraq for two years) So, I broke up with him.. Anyways, what is going on w/ me!

2007-01-05 03:01:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there this guy that im into,,,i noticed him a couple of times and he said hi first to me around last year or more. now he comes near sometimes but not alone always with a guy or friends,he doesnt say hi to me when i pass anymore, but every time i come close he looks at me (when im not looking,accord to my friends) and moves away.. i dont get it is he shy? did i skare him off by saying hi back? or is he taken?or not into me anymore? he doesnt act like that with other girls.
is he not interested when he stopped saying hi, does hes have a gf now...i dont know what happened.

2007-01-05 03:01:24 · 9 answers · asked by missTQ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband snores so loud every night!! i wear earplugs every night, i sleep on my stomach with a pillow over my head, and make him sleep on his side, but he still keeps me up every night. its ridiculous!! he hates when i mention it because he can't do anything about it and feels bad that he keeps me up every night.

2007-01-05 03:01:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you are a woman and are on the small side (size A-B cup), would you rather stay small to have real ones or would you want to get fake ones to increase your size? How big would you go?

For guys that want to answer, do you prefer small real ones or large fake ones?

2007-01-05 03:01:01 · 28 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3 in Singles & Dating

there this guy that i talk to all the time and we joke around and say mean things but we know that it a joke i think he like me and i kindy of like him but some people don't like him and say he woulden't be a good boyfriend what should i do (help me)

2007-01-05 02:59:41 · 14 answers · asked by candygurl_4_ever 1 in Friends

2007-01-05 02:59:32 · 11 answers · asked by laura k 2 in Singles & Dating

What I do if my boyfriend wants to be all day working with the car and never call me. :( i love him, but i think he love more the car. ja!

2007-01-05 02:59:21 · 5 answers · asked by sweet lips 1 in Singles & Dating

Beautiful, sensual hands? What kind of hands do you like?

2007-01-05 02:58:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

question are the best way to under stand the things
more u ask the more u understand

2007-01-05 02:58:50 · 3 answers · asked by dguru07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-05 02:58:41 · 6 answers · asked by troll_gumma 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a divorced mother of a 5 yo girl, sharing a one family house with my sister, her four boys and her husband. Many times I feel like my daughter gets excluded from games and activities because she is the only girl. I try to provide all I can for her but since I am the breadwinner, I don't get to spend a lot of time at home. My sister and her husband are usually with the kids when they come back from school and oversee them, but I feel they have a lot in their hands to worry about my daughter's feelings. How can I help my daughter deal with the rejection the older boys show when she wants to be included in their games? These boys are my nephews and I love them, I wish they could be nicer to my daughter but I don't want to create a bigger conflict.

2007-01-05 02:58:05 · 2 answers · asked by myOHmy 1 in Family

2007-01-05 02:55:59 · 5 answers · asked by brunettehairapy25 2 in Weddings

sick of being a fukin mug to him who he traets like crap. how can i piss him off??
thanx in advance!!
x

2007-01-05 02:55:53 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who is the person or people who bring the most emotions in your life?

2007-01-05 02:55:32 · 31 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i am realy shy and i haven't had a boyfriend in a while i don't realy talk to a lot of guys there are so realy gut guys in hight school but i don't know if they like like me should i just take a chance and ask a guy out .

2007-01-05 02:54:54 · 2 answers · asked by candygurl_4_ever 1 in Friends

"Thanks for last weekend, looking forward to our time at your cabin", enclosed with a picture of a very nice looking woman. Only problem is I don't know her...I do have a cabin and I did let my buddy stay at my house. Do you think he is playing her? Should I just let this go?

2007-01-05 02:54:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating