feelings for him? right before i got married, he called and said he was engaged, and I didn't care- I didn't even think of him at all on the wedding day- but now that I am married, and he is starting to set a date etc... i feel kinda jealous, and dream about us being together..(we were going to get married, but right out of high school, he went in the army, and then to Iraq for two years) So, I broke up with him.. Anyways, what is going on w/ me!
2007-01-05 03:01:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its strange how we don't seem to care until we hear something like that huh? I have been there. I don't understand it either unless our hearts wonder if we made the right decision, so when we sleep we dream about it. you may be carrying some guilty feelings about dumping him when he was away fighting for us. whatever the reason keep a positive attitude about the choice you made , I think its normal for us to feel a little jealousy when it comes to an old flame. STAY FOCUSED. And good luck to you.
2007-01-05 03:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to speak to her about it to find out the exact reason for this. If he had been stalking her, he may have some obsession, and takes pleasure in rubbing something such as getting married in her face. After all, every girl dreams of getting married and even though they're not interested in an ex, could be upset as they wanted to get to that stage with someone first. Almost like a stand-off in some ways.. It's sure as hell petty, but that's just how some people roll. But as I said, you will have to sit down and talk to her about it as you're only seeing peoples opinions on here and not finding out the whole picture. Good luck
2016-03-29 08:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smarten up lady!!!!!
Avoid your ex. We all have these "what if" thoughts. They are not based in reality. Your husband is. You need to understand that you married your husband for a reason. Concentrate on him. Love him. Don't EVER stray. Never.
The dream was just that - a dream. Reality is usually less exciting than fantasy, but when you wake up, it's always to reality. Make sure your loving husband is still there when you wake up.
2007-01-05 03:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U r just remembering the sweet time u spent together.. Just get over it and enjoy with ur hubby..U too have gotta a man to celebrate life..
2007-01-05 03:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't marry the wrong one. Stay focused and don't allow confusion to come in and steal your Joy or Love for your husband.
2007-01-05 03:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal feelings
better to make a change now then always dream about it
tell him you still love him and want to see if you made a mistake before he gets married
do it now or you'll never forgive yourself
there's nothing like a HS sweetheart
2007-01-05 03:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JESUS!!!
Dump your husband and pursue a happily married man only to be left alone OR hang up the phone, take your clothes off, and get jiggy with your man and forget HIGHSCHOOL BOY!!!!
2007-01-05 03:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER IT!!! you're a grown woman not a 14 year old little freshman. Start acting like an adult.
2007-01-05 03:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanny W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've got issues. Goodness. Good luck to you, and good luck to your victim... err I mean husband.
2007-01-05 03:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have not gotten married, I feel sorry for your hubby...
2007-01-05 03:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋