Why do i think that love is just a collection of words,and pictures.Constaintly bashing at our brains,changing the way we act and think.The more you think your in love,then the more fantasy's and daydreams you have.It gets to a point when everyday life is just an obsessive dream you want to have.If people are obsessed about something,isn't that bad for your health.Whats the cure.
2007-01-05 03:05:45 · 26 answers · asked by prettypete 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm i know what you mean, but you cant feel like this if your genuinely in love well ok if you got a crush maybe. I guess the difference between a crush and real love. Is that real is really knowing the person and loving them for what they are etc. I guess we tend to idealise someone more at the start of a relationship and the only way to test if you can put up with the rest of the person is time cz then the honeymoon period is over and you can truly see if your compatible long term or if youv grown apart, have different needs etc etc. However having said that whats so bad about the honeymoon period?? Its amazing i love it and everyone wants it!! Its not bad for your health as long as you still remember your head once in a while and dont let that person disrespect you. If they like you as much as you like them then it can be one of the most rewarding and amazing experiences of your life!! Live for love!! dont knock it but dont let anyone disrespect you either life is too short, so do what you really want to do with it!! Hope this helps :) :) good luck!! x
2007-01-05 03:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by lazydazy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hehe sounds like me. i'm sitting right here with ma 3 toddlers today ;) i do not hate cats inspite of the indisputable fact that. i imagine human beings love canines a lot because they're extra unswerving then something else in this global ( even human beings have the tendcy to easily go away each now and lower back) the feeling if coming abode and having slightly domestic dog greet you on the door with such exhilaration and entertainment is a superb feeling. this is extremely great to understand, for me any way, that on the suitable if the day my canines will in no way end loving merely because all of us else has :) they ate also great to communicate too and nicely, silence looks to consistently be the right answer. you received't comprehend till you've and love a canines tho ;) they're quite mans perfect pal
2016-12-01 21:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends on what u r obsessed for. well if u have a dream of successfull person or alot of money. good life. then i think its not bad idea to be remain and work for it.
because according to my thinking and moto that if u have dream about something u will achieve that some time in ur life.
Imagination and dreams are the best way of life u can imagine.
however, if u have u r talking considering relationship then it could be bad or good as well. like if u like someone u will get some power in urself to talk to her/him and let know ur feelings and then u will decide what to do.
Summary is that Dreams and imagination are something that make u think and help u to make ur life better. just to remember to keep thinking about positive things. that's it. this is a secret of successull life.
2007-01-05 03:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The cure is to be able to take things in stride. Evidently you realize the difference between reality and fantasy. Read 1 Cor 13. It is called the love chapter. I believe that when are loving and being love according to this. Then you can call it love. If it is nothing like this walk away and leave it alone.
2007-01-05 03:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is not words, pictures, fantasies or daydreams.
Love is putting the other person's needs above your own. Loving their good points as well as their bad points. Being prepared to give a lifetime of committment, even when the going gets tough.
Love isn't just something you feel, it's something you DO. Something you GIVE.
What you are talking about is lust. That's a totally separate topic.
2007-01-05 03:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well your definately talking like a love sick puppy. But when we meet someone that we have "chemistry" with we get a flood of endorphins. We like that feeling so much we think of that person often, filling ourselves over and over with those endorphins. So yes, it can be addictive. You need to make special times for thinking of that person, when he or she pops into your head during other times shoo him or her away and refocus on what your doing. Otherwise you'll be doing nothing but thinking about that person and really screw yourself up in the head. But I spose we've all been through this.
2007-01-05 03:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is just a chemical reaction, an attraction between two people. Supposedly, this romantic and hormonal attraction ends after four years, the amount of time it takes to raise a child through infancy. After that, we rely on our family bonds. Don't worry; the "drug" wears off if you want it to.
2007-01-05 03:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by hillystargirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Love and obsession are pretty similar. Both can damage you emotionally and both are about putting someone on a pedastool and having intense feelings for them.
2007-01-05 03:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't tell if you love someone until you've gotten over the 'lust' period. Once you're not thinking about them 24/7, it becomes clearer to you what you like or don't like about them. When your head's clear, you'll just know whether it was love or lust.
2007-01-05 04:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh i think ur just confused but ok ill tell u this love is more than just dreams fantasys or w.e trust me ..me n my bf r soo much in love lyk we cant stay away from each other that long its not obsession
2007-01-05 03:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋