Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Spouse reflects doesn't want me to hurt and doesn't want to hurt our children - can't figure things out. I have told - I am hurting now and can't resolve it - if I knew the "final" decision I could at least resolve issues - even if it hurts. How long do I "wait" for spouse to figure out what he wants in life family vs' being alone. I am sure there is no other person (i.e. relationship) I have been trying to keep distant from spouse to allow time to think but I also need a little emotion/to know I am at least cared about. Spouse says it has been this way for years but just recently told me (by my nudging as I knew something was wrong)

2007-01-05 00:21:36 · 17 answers · asked by Confussedhere 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am and always have been an uncontrollable but harmless flirt. My partner never minded, she found it amusing. But I was taken to task recently on what was one of my more tamer flirtatious remarks (first time I can recall it ever backfiring). And partner chastised me with a "That'll teach you"...Ummm....what do you think? Does it bother you, would you mind your partner doing it etc?

2007-01-05 00:21:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy at New Year, we got on really well and swapped phone numbers. We text a lot the following day, now he's ignoring me. I can take a hint but why give out your phone number if you're not really interested???

2007-01-05 00:20:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok here it is i pay my child support faihfully as it is taken from my payroll check but i am in the arrrears due to the fact from the time she filed for a increase to the actual court date the put me in the arrears. well my question is since i will be filing a joint return with my wife how much of that arrrears will take affect on our taxes since this is my obligation not my wifes. They say the arrears is about 1500. once agin i ask for respectful answers not bs onpinions.

2007-01-05 00:19:26 · 13 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents got divorce then my mom started dating then she started seeing her best friend!! help....my close friends know..but its ruining my life..when we go out when they ask who her best friend is my mom says "MY PARTNER"....shes happy but how am I gnna get through this???IT EMBARASSING....their planning to have a baby...

2007-01-05 00:18:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love my sweet girlfrd a lot..but sometime i feel that we r just talking bore topoics....anybody tell me how to increase love from talking sense?

2007-01-05 00:17:18 · 7 answers · asked by Tough Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am with someone who has 3 children from his ex wife. I have 6 children from my ex husband. So, that means we have 9 total. His ex wife says that my children are baggage and I shouldn't be with him. Him and I love eachother so much. Could it be jealous because her children love me so much? Could it be jealous that she doesn't have what she had before? It hurts me to say that my children are baggage. How do i handle that word?

2007-01-05 00:13:58 · 17 answers · asked by mibabi1971 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this problem all the time. im at a bar/public place and i see an attractive girl that looks at me several times. i know i should go up to her and say something but i always talk myself out of it because i dont want to look like a retard. any advice on what i should do in these situations? or should i wait and see if our paths meet again before approaching?

2007-01-05 00:13:58 · 12 answers · asked by Chiefs 1 in Singles & Dating

should I have woken her and asked for permission?

2007-01-05 00:13:41 · 14 answers · asked by Silkie1 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-05 00:12:54 · 19 answers · asked by Quiet V 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 00:11:51 · 13 answers · asked by sandeep_force 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 00:11:40 · 1 answers · asked by Twaune 1 in Singles & Dating

my teahcer/freinds mom is in the hospital and is not expected to make it out....this struck me as odd cause the other day she was fine....talking joking laughing and more.....but now she is in there and is one of the worst in pittsburgh....there are bloodclots all throughout her body and arterys have exploded....how do i tell my friend that i am here whenever she needs me....or do you think it is too early

2007-01-05 00:09:18 · 4 answers · asked by my name is jimmy 2 in Friends

Okay, it might sound stupid but I really need to know if there's any real way to cheer myself up. I've been heartbroken for a few months now, since October and I've still not quite gotten my sudden feeling of vulnerability sorted. Every so often I find myself feeling useless and not worth it.

I'd really like to find out if there's anyway I can make myself feel better and soon. As things have went on, I've suffered greatly from insomnia and I'm failing to get to sleep at night because of it all. Can anyone recommend anything?

I'd appriciate it if I got helpful answers and it's okay if you don't know anything just do your best.

2007-01-05 00:08:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 00:07:17 · 22 answers · asked by best friend 1 in Singles & Dating

we met on line,chatted a lot ,daily 2-3 hours ,shared a lot in common at first ,and when we met we had a nice time together,then she says its better we stay friends,i asked her y ,she didnt answer ,and took one side decision ,i wanted to know what was wrong she didnt tell me and said u have no right or deserve an answer,well we r friends now,luckily she opened up and gave me the answer with still insisting i dont deserve it,like this,i am muslim she isnt,i am controlling ,obsessive,dependent,have no ambition ,and happy with my current stat quo,well just for u to know, i am 32 ,i run my own business,i have good income,i aint poor,,i was loving her a lot ,and spent most of my time close to her ,never left her side,i am educated have a college degree,and regard religion she knew i am muslim from beginning and i never asked her anything religious ,does domeone walk in and walk out without with no respect of dialogue normal and mess your life,i really loved her,?

2007-01-05 00:06:35 · 11 answers · asked by reifguy 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for quite some time now. i really care about him. but we live far away from eachother, and theres this boy out here who likes me and i think i like him too. idk what to do. should i risk taking the chance of losing my boyfriend from him. i need some help. please...

2007-01-05 00:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Friends

I'm out of the country, I have no friends, nor family I could rely on, my husband is filing for a seperation. Where should I go? He is active duty military. For the remainder of my time here, should we continue to be intimate? Do I continue to do his laundry? Do I put a plate aside for him? why or why not? I don't think he's having sex with anyone else, but on the other hand I don't honestly know. I wouldn't put anything past a man. I just don't want to give nor recieve the wrong message. What state should I reside in? I need advise. My family pretty much disown me b/c I've dated outside my race and friends tried to warn me about him.I feel as if I'm in between a rock and a hard plate. Please, someone give advise.

2007-01-05 00:04:28 · 8 answers · asked by Jerry S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 00:04:08 · 14 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel so bad, for the pass those 4 days, i feel like my heart is hurting, and what i found understand is my doctor check it and they said is normal. i will go back to them and say to him, that i need a heart check up all the way. i'm 20 years old and i'm male, and i wish to have family sooner or later and live happy. but as soon i notic i have heart problem going on, i think all my dream is over. what would you do?

2007-01-05 00:03:27 · 9 answers · asked by Alex K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 00:03:19 · 1 answers · asked by girl24gr 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is 48 and i am 32 we live togather and at first it was fine but things between him and i are not as good now he has been chatting with others on the computer and our sex life was great before we lived togather now its next to nothinghe comes off with i am tired and when we do it last maybe 5 min whats up with that i ask myself is it me or is he going else where i ask him is he sure i am who he wants to be with as he did ask me to merry him and bought me a big diamond what should i think

2007-01-05 00:02:35 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i split with my ex over a year ago - weve still been living together and ive just found out he has a new girlfriend and has been seeing her for quite some time, i still love him very much and don't know the best way to handle this, continue to be friends or not.

2007-01-05 00:01:10 · 24 answers · asked by sarah s 2 in Singles & Dating