my parents got divorce then my mom started dating then she started seeing her best friend!! help....my close friends know..but its ruining my life..when we go out when they ask who her best friend is my mom says "MY PARTNER"....shes happy but how am I gnna get through this???IT EMBARASSING....their planning to have a baby...
2007-01-05 00:18:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know this sounds harsh, but just get over it. She's happy. You should be happy for her.
2007-01-05 00:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No doubt you find it awkward and embarrasing.
But think this. You love your mom and surely you want her to be happy. Uptill now she has been a good mother and other than that she is. It would maybe have been better that she talked it over with you before, but perhaps you showed enough maturity thru the divorce, and after that. She thought you of all people, her own daughter would understand.
I guess its best to tell her, that you feel confused, embarrassed and talk it out with her.
She has a right to be happy does she not? I am sure you love her, and will work it out.
2007-01-05 00:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by shahpaarw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you get one of two options...sit down and tell your mom exactly how you feel, hopefully she will consider your feelings and explain things to you. If not, you could move in with your dad or if your old enough move out on your own.
Also realize that your mothers life is her own, it is NOT a reflection on you, unless you make it about you
2007-01-05 00:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by kitty_kat4602000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you stop judging and start to love your mother again. Who's more important to you---the person who gave you life and nurtured you, or some friends you met along the road of life?
2007-01-05 00:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect your mother's wishes and lifestyle. Talk to your mother and tell her why and how this is bothering you. If it is too much, consider moving in with your dad.
Anyway, I wish you the best of luck, try to be more easygoing.
2007-01-05 00:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can bet she'll have a change of heart if only I meet her for a chat, 1-on-1. If you could could arrange that, it'll be spledidly okay to help her out. Cheers!
2007-01-05 00:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good on them and you stop being a spoiled ***** and get on with your own life
2007-01-05 00:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you accept it
then it wont matter anymore
you wont be embaraced
or care what other people think
i think you are their worst cridict
so if you get over that
i know there will be no problem
2007-01-05 00:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just open your mouth and say to your mother that this is bothering you and disturbing you!!!
2007-01-05 00:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by merisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just nasty but its her life so deal with it !
2007-01-05 00:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by hotshot 12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋