this woman I have been Intimate with told me she was pregnant by me. the baby is here, but her new boyfriend threatens to leave her if she ever allows me to take a test. He's her financial stability right now and so she won't. what should I do?
2007-01-05 03:07:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maury Povich, I am not. However you have the right to know.
If you are worried about her boyfriend leaving her and her being Left without an income, she needn't worry, you will be paying her child support if it happens that you are the father.
What if you are the father, and you don't ever know, and then this boyfriend leaves her anyhow. Think of all that time you lost with your child, and you can;t get that back.
Follow your heart, and your conscience.
Good, luck.
2007-01-05 11:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Petition the courts fpr a DNA test. She will HAVE to take the test and have the baby tested or she will be in contempt of court and can face charges. Go to your local family courts office at the courthouse. Good luck!
2007-01-05 11:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be able to go to the courthouse. file for visitation or something and they have to give you a paternity test for that.
if he is threatening to leave her over something like that then he really isn't too much concerned about the well being of the child and doesn't need to be in child's life anyways.
good luck
2007-01-05 11:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by pamcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to domestics, and as long as you haven't signed anything, you can request a DNA test and they will get a court order for it...if you have signed something and they say they can't give you the test, don't believe them, it cost @ $550 for the test and if you say you want to pay for it they have to allow you to take it. if they still sat no, go to legal aid and file a complaint and they will give in and give it to you...
2007-01-05 11:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by bravo95165 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋