Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

2007-01-05 03:19:22 · 5 answers · asked by jbowhard 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been married 28 years. Both children adult. She is an attractive woman caring of others with a fine intellect and personality. I did not believe it was serious when she told me a year ago she was involved with someone in Second Life. I believed it was just an internet game. I did not believe she could betray our marriage. I woke up after finding her YM and Second Life chat logs. It was devastating. She lied and evaded but finally told me he makes her happy. We are American, he is from Norway with wife + 2 teen girls butdoes not love his wife. He 1st said single then he was leaving but never has. She says they love each other but can't know if they are in-love unless they meet but havent agreed to a time. She insists that she has not cheated or betrayed me as our marriage was in name only for along time. Our talks end up with me mad and yelling and her shutting me out. She still cares but wants to be happy. I do not want to lose her or marriage. I am an emotional wreck - HELP!

2007-01-05 03:19:17 · 24 answers · asked by Gary K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my gurlfriend has a strong sex drive, aint complaining, but im having difficulites living up to her standards. ..She wants it all the time. and sometimes im just exhausted from work overload. can compete,, im afraid shell eventually leave me...for somone else whose more compatible with her... HELP.

2007-01-05 03:18:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

EAT?

2007-01-05 03:18:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm in desperate need of an answer (teenage boys opinion is essential) Thanks............................

2007-01-05 03:18:21 · 1 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Singles & Dating

Did it work? And how did it make u feel? Any side effects?

2007-01-05 03:17:24 · 15 answers · asked by laura k 2 in Singles & Dating

that during the day , your mood can have such a impact on those around you

2007-01-05 03:17:20 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean, just to know her a little but no to send a message of "i'm in love with you since i saw you" or something

2007-01-05 03:16:53 · 4 answers · asked by puki el pagano 5 in Friends

well i was nice & we got along then one day we where standing there macking out then when we were through she dumped me. well i know i can kiss becouse she has told me i was a good kisser

2007-01-05 03:16:18 · 14 answers · asked by tkhottie_4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 03:15:50 · 28 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

hes not taking his medication and he and his girl are always rushing to the hospital because of it.

2007-01-05 03:14:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i can't decide. Should i yell at my boyfriend or should i be nice and let it go

2007-01-05 03:14:41 · 17 answers · asked by bob the magic chicken 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife's self-esteem is very low. I assume that because she has to have the attention of men all of the time. She has cheated on me a number times. I think that she is incapable of love. I forgave her twice for cheating. and she still does it again. She cheated on her first husband as well. Is it me or does she not understand the meaning of love and committment.

2007-01-05 03:14:41 · 18 answers · asked by ted j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am divorced, 34 and have a child. As a single mother with a full time job it's difficult sometimes to find time for myself and private outings with my boyfriend. He is 31, never married and perfectly healthy. He swears he is sooo atracted to me and he loves me. The problem is sometimes we plan to spend the night together, I arrange for my mother to babysit, we get a hotel room, I get nice lingerie, we drink wine and have a nice conversation and when I try to initiate some contact he withdraws and say he wants to go to sleep. I have tried to be helpful, talk about it, insist a little, get upset, ignore him, be playful, etc... but when he says no it's no. Don't get me wrong we get busy sometimes but it is when he wants and I think I want more frequently than him. Is it a bad thing? Should I end this 2 years relationship? Maybe we are not good together, I don't want to go down once every two weeks for the rest of my life. Any suggestions?

2007-01-05 03:14:22 · 6 answers · asked by myOHmy 1 in Singles & Dating

need helppppppppppp

2007-01-05 03:13:56 · 16 answers · asked by boricua_italian_mixbaby 1 in Friends

2007-01-05 03:13:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...at our office holiday party. she is just a friendly acquaintance and not a good friend, so i didn't feel comfortable telling her.

should i have told her so she could have fixed if it wasn't intentional?

folks were looking and talking quite a bit....

2007-01-05 03:13:36 · 7 answers · asked by Bob B 1 in Friends

Split with my boyfriend before christmas, was really depressed, after a month we decided to see how things go. so now i am seeing him about once every week and a half but it doin my head right in!! i am used to seein him more and talkin to him often but now i hardly ever hear from him, i dont know if we are gonna get back together or not i dont know when im next seeing him and he doesnt really seem as bothered. i think this is because he said he is scared of rushing into somthing then it goin all wrong again, which i can understand, but just seeing him every now and again and never speakin to him really gets to me, i miss him loads. In a way it was easyer when we didnt speak/see each other as i just got on with my own life then and didnt really think about him that much! I've spoken to him about it but he says he wants to take it slow, what should i do just live with it and get annoyed with it or what?

2007-01-05 03:13:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I go to the University of Michigan and I am sharing a apartment with two white girls who are roomates (not so much friends) and when I was living alone, I would walk around naked. Well, I have seen them in bra and panties before so one day, I came out naked and they were giggling and laughing, and eventually they started teasing me. I got an erection and they teased me. I never get aroused nude. I am only 3.5 inches erect and they kept waving their pinky fingers at me (what the heck does that mean?) and calling me names like little monkey boy and ape boy. I am East Indian from India. They said if you keep going around naked, we will never stop teasing u. Should I argue with them or complain?

2007-01-05 03:13:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

find out they have just started goin out wiv someone. and that someone could infact have been you if you had just asked them.

2007-01-05 03:12:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 03:12:43 · 6 answers · asked by John D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I told her they here mine so she would not think i got it on with the waitress last night.She told me if they are mine she wants to see them on me but i need the skirt and bra etc also. or she wants a divorice what should i do?

2007-01-05 03:12:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 03:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by supsexiletsm8 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, my boyfriend seems to have some trust issues. He came over to my place the other night after leaving a friends party at 2:30 a.m and I wasn't home.

I'm the type of person that likes to go to the 24 hour grocery store and shop because often times I go to bed at 7 pm and I'm up by 1 or 2 in the morning. I also like to do my laundry during those hours because theirs no crowd and it's quiet. My boyfriend asked me where I was and I told him grocery shopping and he didn't believe me. I even showed him the receipt. Why do some people always think you're lying? Especially when you don't have a reason too. I know he has some trust issues and we talked it out. I know I can't make him believe me, or is it a result of his own guilt. How do we establish trust? I know couples go through it all the time...any advice?

2007-01-05 03:11:10 · 13 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

One time I invited my bestfriend to a dinner w/ my client. My client seems to like her, but I told her that don't mind him. After that night, I didn't know that they are already communicating. the next night, they are already like lovers. after few days, my bestfriend slept w/ my client. the following day, she got so angry & pissed off - asking me if I already closed the deal...that she is just doing all the effort (having sex w/ my client) because of me- for me to get the project/deal. I got shocked & told her that I didnt asked her to do that for me & i will not sell my soul by using a friend to do sex w/ my client to close a deal & I'm not that desperate...Then she told me that we should cool off & said sarcastically: she has to mend her soul for a while...
1st- its a turn-off that she did that cause I'm losing the credibility to my client, I never thought she's that easy
2nd- I'm not shallow, I value friendship as much as my family (for her- even more -BEFORE)

2007-01-05 03:10:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im soooo bored and miserable!
i should be happy
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2007-01-05 03:09:09 · 33 answers · asked by Autumns_Coma 3 in Friends

what whould i guy do if a girl just went up to him and kissed him. whould he freak out the girl likes him and he likes her.

2007-01-05 03:08:59 · 27 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I am addicted to YA, I need to get my Christmas decorations down, and stuff put away. And other days I put off doing things I know need done, because I can't seem to pull myself away from this site.

So my question is, should I slowly wean myself off of here, or go cold turkey?

2007-01-05 03:08:57 · 15 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

he has told me that i work some sort of magic on him. that he only came here on holiday and not to meet a girl but that he will come back asap. he told me that he like me a lot. do i trust what he is say? Also if i want to make a go of this what do i do? what do english guys look for in girl they date? please help!!

2007-01-05 03:08:53 · 7 answers · asked by mrs. smutty aka sodachix 4 in Singles & Dating

i just found out my boyfriends has been cheating on me we went threw a rough patch but we sorted it out over new year nd its rewind me i did everything for him we was toghetrher about a year and he lived with me but as soon as i found out i hit him bust his nose and chucked him out my house! but that dosent seem anough since his is going around acting like a child calling me to my firends saying im a slag and that! hi car is down the street from me ad i wanna smash it up or fier it because he should feel how i do !!! dose any no a diffrent way to hurt him ??? i no he still loves me deep down but hes done it to often now and i don want him back!!! HELP PLEASE?!?!?!?!

2007-01-05 03:08:16 · 15 answers · asked by x HuNniBuN x 2 in Singles & Dating