I'm only 15, but my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I am a strong Christian, and I love my boyfriend, but, even though he goes to church and claims to be a Christian, he doesn't act it out in his life, whereas I try very hard to. But I don't know how to point this out to him without sounding stuck up and holier-than-thou, you know? I want our relationship to be as godly as possible, but if he was the man God has prepared for me, wouldn't he be on the same level as me? I'm so confused. Any Christian advice? I appreciate it.
2007-01-05 03:38:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to remember not every Christian is going to walk the same or talk the same. what you must realize that you have your own walk that you have to lead and not pay attention to what other people do and that includes your boyfriend, because believe it or not he will have to answer to his own stuff when the time comes and you will not be there when he has to give his answer, just do what you do and God will be pleased at what you do and what is in your heart.
God bless you!
2007-01-05 04:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think at 15, God has yet to prepare the man for you. Your boyfriend's not even a man since he's around your same age. Remember guys at the age are silly and I hate to say it, but as they get older it doesn't get much better. But there are good ones out there and you will find the one for you.
Right now though take it easy and don't do anything you don't want to. If he makes you uncomfortable then leave the relationship. At 15 you shouldn't be trying to "make it work"
2007-01-05 03:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i know what you mean...I am christian too and I think I have met my soulmate (my bf). I am not holy or anything...but still I have a good relationship with God. But my bf I think was prepared by God for me and he is not very umm..Godly. I mean he believes on God and all that, but it's just not incorporated into his everyday life. But I do pray for him and he I talked to him about it. We have agreed that once we get married, we will go to church every sunday and have prayer and all that.
He is not on the same level as me...but with prayer he soon will be. It is hard for guys sometimes...and it takes time.
God Bless
*hugs*
2007-01-05 03:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is prayer. We don't always accept what God is telling us. Sometimes we as christians allow our human nature to guide us. Wanting someone to love and to love us in return. When looking for a mate you have to be careful, 15 is a young age to try and decide if your current boyfriend is in fact the one. And I must tell you that being unequally yolked is a road to many a trying time. You can allow people to God in you and even show them the way, but you can't make them heed what you are saying. Even if he is the one for you, perhaps he's not the one for you right now.
2007-01-05 03:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young I think you shouldn't try to become so seriously involved with anyone. I'm not your "poster" christian but I do believe in salvation. Anyway, if you and him remain close for years to come then no matter what you should stick with him unless he wants to leave. I can't remember where but I know that the bible talks about sticking with an un-believing partner unless they decide to leave.
2007-01-05 03:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly you need to decide whats more important to you... your morals and beliefs or your boyfriend. while making this decision however be sure to remember that no one is perfect and at this point in your guys life many things are changing and happening both physcially and mentally. my advise stick with your morals because once you compermise those you change yourself
2007-01-05 03:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by justashley541 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stick with your values. Sit down with him and have a talk about the things that bother you.
2007-01-05 03:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am christian too but i am not spiritual i mean don't be too extreme
do you thing is the time to grow up ??
if you are too much spiritual you will never be with a man . sorry
go back to church you stupid , maybe you don't even go to parties
you will be an ugly stupid sheep with no ******* life
2007-01-05 03:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by tim 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you love him love him for the good and the bad
2007-01-05 03:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no God, we die and become dirt, sorry to break it to you.
2007-01-05 03:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋