Before our wedding, he was a smoker and he quit smoking as a proof of his love for me. This was very touching and I really admired his courage. As I am very understanding and lenient, I proposed that he could smoke occasionally when we were going out together, i.e., only between us! However, it happened several times that he lied to me that he didn't smoke and I found out that he did. We discussed and compromised. Yesterday night, when I was in my daughter's (3yrs old) bedroom, I heard a strange noise in the bathroom and when I looked through I saw my husband smoking. I felt that all I had just perished at this very moment!!! I immediately took the courage and questioned him about how long this has been going on? He told me 1 year and then when I threatened him that I was leaving the house if he's not telling me the truth. So he spoke out that during all the 7 years of marriage! I feel really down and humiliated that I have not been able to see this before. I'm lost! Help me to solve t
2007-01-05
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