and one is 3 months old he cheated on me then and hes never home on the weekends and only for a hour at a time durin the days. what should i do? i even live in his house.
2007-01-05 04:20:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please kick his a s s
2007-01-05 04:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I was reading your question, I thought it was OK to wait to tell others until he asked your father for your "hand". This would indicate he has respect for your father. It really is a wonderful tradition. Our own daughter got engaged last fall, and her fiance asked both my husband and I for our blessings before he popped the question to her during a romantic trip to NYC and Central Park. He had the ring with him, so all and all, it worked out very well for everyone concerned. But, back to your situation -- if you are already living together 9 months, and he has the ring picked out; what is he waiting for? It just doesn't make sense to me -- what will be different 3 months from now? I would think he (and you) would know your father would be pleased that you were living together as an engaged couple rather than the way you are now. Hate to sound negative, but there's something "fishy" about all of this... are you sure he's not just "stringing" you along to get you to live with him? I hope not and that you soon will be sporting a beautiful ring with a proud father admiring it!!
2016-03-29 09:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and get out- on the double. This man is a multi-timer. Even if he dumps the other woman for you, who's to say he won't pull the same stunt later on down the line? Not to mention that he obviously doesn't have respect for family in general- after all, who in the right frame of mind would put everything on the line like that with a three-month-old baby? He will eventually bring you emotional pain, just as he will with his current legal wife once she finds out. It's all a matter of time.
2007-01-05 04:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously dont marry him. But if the relationship works for you than keep it going. Heck if he's paying rent on the place, he's out of your hair except when you need him. Then it sounds like you're getting the best of both worlds. Just dont have any kids by him for sure. Hell you can even sneak in another guy when he aint around. He has no problem double dippin so why should you!
2007-01-05 04:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by mktk401 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is not a clear sign to you to bail, then I don't know what is. Time to go and find someone that does not lie to you. Mind you, the lies he told were not minor, nor are they inconsequential. He is married with two kids. Clearly he is irresponsible and a man of poor character.
2007-01-05 04:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl my advice is to move to another man that doesn't have that many issues. You should have known from the very beginning about the kids and the wife. Also if he cheated on his wife with you, what makes you think that he won't do that to you.
2007-01-05 04:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by ivonne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a little self respect and dignity. Maybe some couseling. Why waste time on a loser? I was 48 before I met the "right one." Enjoy life
2007-01-05 04:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's ludicrous - he cannot get married to you while he is married to someone else. Tell him you'll marry him when his divorce comes through - that should make him run a mile so you don't have to kick him out.
2007-01-05 04:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to walk away even if your feelings are going to be hurt chalk this up as a very well learned lesson
2007-01-05 04:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Huttserlla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run far away! This guy sounds like nothing but trouble!
2007-01-05 04:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LEAVE AND HOW CAN HE MARRY YOU WHEN HES MARRIED ALREADY. FIND SOMEONE ELSE THAT IS SINGLE . YOU DON'T WANT TO BE IN THAT KIND OF SITUATION. BAD NEWS.
2007-01-05 04:24:50 · answer #11 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋