Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Wouldnt it be cool to be able to run a back ground check on your b/f or g/f before you fall in love with them? The back ground check would tell you about how many men/women this person been with.With out them lying.Tell if there good in bed or etc.
I think that would be awsome!! Do you?

2007-01-05 04:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by AMBRASIA C 2 in Singles & Dating

I seem to be having trouble in the male department. I am 22, have a 2 yr old little girl and I need someone actually worth my time. My roomate and I are going out on the town tonight. What is the best way to present myself to potential candidates?? Dress, attitude, everything!!

2007-01-05 04:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by Kamryn's Mommie 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend are on the verge of breaking up! he is Everything to me! he says that he does know me? i really dont know what to do because he never talks to me! anytime we talk it just about the daily stuff thats happens! i really cant cope with losing him he is everthing to me! please help i seriously dont know what i can do to save this

2007-01-05 04:09:50 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 04:09:08 · 8 answers · asked by Tony 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 04:08:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one you like and enjoy bein with who has loads of money you know will never have to worry about a thing
or
someone you are head over heels in love with so much so that your stomach flips whenever you see them but has no money and you are sure of a life filled with strife

Who would you choose?

2007-01-05 04:08:06 · 5 answers · asked by alig 3 in Singles & Dating

When my ex comes around me he will hug me and if i don't talk to him if I see him he will ask why am I being mean to him, once he came over and we sat on my bed just talking about old times and he gave me that look he would give me while we dated, he's told me after we broke up that I was beautiful and fun to go out with. There was even one point where he told me when we was going out he really wanted to "make love" to me so why does he say these things?

The only reason we broke up was because I told him I wanted to and I wanted to so he couldn't say he broke up with me and the other way around, plus I was told he was fixing to break up with me any way, I asked him about it and he said he didn't intend to break up with me

Please help and please give serious answers because I want to know why he does this he has a girlfriend but he told me she just uses him and she didn't make him happy and she cheats on him
I kinda miss him but I wouldn't come between him and his g/f..

2007-01-05 04:06:27 · 9 answers · asked by some chick 1 in Singles & Dating

How come when a woman knows that a man that she has been seeing on a sexual basis gets involved with someone else, she now says she is pregnant? does she think that he might change his mind about wanting to be with her? Do these woman know that they have just been booty calls?

2007-01-05 04:06:26 · 4 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have had a lot of problems with my ex (we have children together) and he has another gf and what not. The gf and i got into it shortly after the holidays over the phone (i was calling to get a hold of my ex) and he called me and screamed at me as usual... I have had enough of the drama and all the bs with him...he has played mind games with me and whatever telling me he still loves me and wants his family back ect....so we got into he told me he never wanted to talk to me again (it was based on his little 19 year old gf who was all upset cuz i laid into her) and I went ahead and changed my number...didnt' give it to him or his family have cut off all communication with him..he blew off the kids on sunday..never showed up to see them...I don't know what to do at this point do I break down and call him or do I let him make the first move? I feel bad for my kids but he is worthless honestly. I am sick of all the problems I just don't know what to do about any of it!

2007-01-05 04:06:19 · 4 answers · asked by MLP 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like my cousins cousin and I can tell he likes me too, but I dont know weather to ask him out because it might seem wierd because he is my cousins cousin. Should I ask him out or not?

2007-01-05 04:05:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how did u meet your other half? when did u know it was love?

2007-01-05 04:05:12 · 10 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Singles & Dating

when she has a problem./issue i listen and give advice and comment thruoughly on her situation, but , when it comes to me telling her my issues , she hardly comments on anything i have said- oh and when i start talking about something i did, she always turns it right back to her so she can start talking - it is sooo annoying!! any suggestions?

2007-01-05 04:05:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't know where to start so here go`s. I'm 18 years old unemployed and live at home with my parents And i feel like i have nothing to live for (I'm very lonely). And depressed and always have been for as long as i can remember do to my troubled past----child abused, went threw 9 family member deaths, bad experience threw out my school years....and so on and so forth. Ive never had a girl friend and never plain to because i feel as thought girls think I'm nothing more then a loser and they don't want to have to deal with the emotional baggage. I have no social life and the few friend i do have look at me as the loser friends that ant going no where in life. I get very jealous of the way they live (blown up myspace, beautifully women, confident). I guess what I'm trying to ask is how can i be just a fraction of what those guys are. I'm not good looking and i have social anxiety so is there any hope for a guy like me or should i just completely shut myself down(if you know what i mean)

2007-01-05 04:04:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just want to rub off the feeling and go on fearless of pain friends can cause
thanks

2007-01-05 04:04:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i loved my gf but then i moved...... we still in contact and haven't broke up yet....
3 months later, i came all the way from Oklahoma to Chicago secretly just too suprised her..
Then i saw her kissing another guys, i was so mad and i just leave Chicago....
Is it my fault that i came secretly OR is it her fault?

2007-01-05 04:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After a bad fight about a week ago my live in fiance told me she needed space. I apologized profusely but it just seemed to make her angrier. So I temporarily moved out.

She called me on Wednesday to talk about something trivial then let me know how hurt and angry and upset she was about the fight. She told me not to call her unless I needed something. She also said the dogs missed me. And when I told her I was looking for roommate she told me not to do anything till I talked to her.

When I asked what our status together or apart she said she didnt know. She said she wasn't going to see anyone else, but she didn't care what I did. She said why should it matter what our status was, and to just do whatever my conscience tells me to do.

After hearing her out I sent her an email to her work that she wouldnt get till next day, just apologizing and letting her know things could still be good between us, but I would leave it up to her to contact me.

How will things work out?

2007-01-05 04:02:40 · 28 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what happens to be the most valuable thing or person in your life?

2007-01-05 04:02:30 · 4 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Singles & Dating

Been married 15 years, about 3 years ago wife started e-mailing and calling old boyfriend from high school. The part is she has not always been telling the truth about how much or how often she's spending time?

2007-01-05 04:01:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is soo boring. how do i make our relationship more exciting without s#x???

2007-01-05 04:01:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who said he loves and he want me to be the future wife. The guy is a student of 23yrs of age. He used to come to the house wicked. When he comes, the number of calls he get from female friends is too much. And he informed me to wait for the future before we marry, he asked me to wait and I accepted I also asked him to wait and he informed me that, he will try his best. Which I dont understand. Every evening he want to meet me, which I thought is wrong because I know we are too young and right in front of me he get calls. What should I tell him. And do you think this love is true love.



When you are woman and you force a man into marriage without love, will the marriage go on.

2007-01-05 04:01:27 · 1 answers · asked by emelia p 1 in Singles & Dating

my crush is talking to other girls about his feelings for me and not telling me his feelings about me. i haven't had the courage to ralk to him yeat ( i get scared ) i like him but i get scared. HELPPPPPPP I am really depressed now

2007-01-05 03:59:52 · 19 answers · asked by bob the magic chicken 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a very shy person and one of my co-workers, told me she thought I would be the type of person to sit in and study on the weekends and not date. She said she feels sorry for me. Its people like this that annoy me, because I have lots of friends and I dotn drink every weekend, but I do party enough. I date and just because I'm 20 and dont have a boyfriend right now doesnt mean I'm happy. I could have a boyfriend, and will soon. I just hate how people judge me and their almost always wrong. Why do people judge?

2007-01-05 03:59:35 · 13 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

do you like or dislike to give oral? what is your opinion on it? and what do you think the best way to finish it is

2007-01-05 03:59:23 · 15 answers · asked by will 2 in Singles & Dating

I mailed a letter to my ex yesterday about how we should stay together and now I had a chance to re evaluate some things and I changed my mind. Now what am I going to do?

2007-01-05 03:58:56 · 9 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

After a bad fight about a week ago my live in fiance told me she needed space. I apologized profusely but it just seemed to make her angrier. So I temporarily moved out.

She called me on Wednesday to talk about something trivial then let me know how hurt and angry and upset she was about the fight. She told me not to call her unless I needed something. She also said the dogs missed me. And when I told her I was looking for roommate she told me not to do anything till I talked to her.

When I asked what our status together or apart she said she didnt know. She said she wasn't going to see anyone else, but she didn't care what I did. She said why should it matter what our status was, and to just do whatever my conscience tells me to do.

After hearing her out I sent her an email to her work that she wouldnt get till next day, just apologizing and letting her know things could still be good between us, but I would leave it up to her to contact me.

How will things work out?

I

2007-01-05 03:58:51 · 21 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 03:58:16 · 8 answers · asked by spikey j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 03:57:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of the Peni$

2007-01-05 03:56:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 24 years old. Im sick of being lonley. I feel like I need the company of someone else. I do date but never let things get too serious and when it does get serious I end it. I have a fear of marriage. Anyone have any good advise? or a good program they used to get over a fear. Please only serious answers. I have dumped sooo many nice guys because Im afraid of marriage.

2007-01-05 03:56:45 · 6 answers · asked by mexchick316 3 in Singles & Dating

I really would like to put this behind me I promise myself that I would and could move on in 2007. But here I am still stuck in the past that is moving on. What can I do to stop what I feel? No I do not want to be in inmate relationship with this man nor do I want to be with him again any shape or form. I still care about how he is doing or what he is doing. It is affecting my life in a bad way. So what can I do to stop caring? I pray, I keep busy, and I read. But still I am in this trap fighting everyday to move on. I thought about talking to my preacher or a counselor. But how do I tell them I am crazy behind a married man? Yes I said married man. A married man that is promised to someone else again, I know people do it everyday so I am not knocking that.

2007-01-05 03:56:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce