me and my boyfriend are on the verge of breaking up! he is Everything to me! he says that he does know me? i really dont know what to do because he never talks to me! anytime we talk it just about the daily stuff thats happens! i really cant cope with losing him he is everthing to me! please help i seriously dont know what i can do to save this
2007-01-05 04:09:50 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and its really hard to have a proper chat cuz he's away with work
2007-01-05 04:43:29 · update #1
i really want to tell you that everything will be ok and i really want to tell you that he wont finish with you bt i cntcoz that would be lying!
im sorry! iv bn there ! i did everything to stop my ex from finishing with me i woul s--g him sensless lay the guilt trip on him the lot and then he cloked wat i was doin and finished with me it was hard ! dnt try stopping it its just another chapter of your life ending and another adventure begining if you need to talk im here ok mail me illb there 4 u!!!! im so sorry hun xxx~blodz~xxx
2007-01-05 04:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by pwincess_blodzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, are you sure that he wants to break up with you?
Secondly, if he wants to break up, leave him, there is nothing you can do if he has made up his mind about that you will look stronger, and he'll be annoyed, and surprised if you don't go after him.
I know it's difficult to be hard in this situation when you love someone that much.
2007-01-05 04:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sheldon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like it's working out to me from what you've said! Are you sure he doesn't want to talk to you because he finds you boring? Stop trying to delay the inevitable, the longer you leave it the harder it will be.
2007-01-05 04:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Phil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are there no phones where he works?
just talk to him!!!!
if he won't talk to you about this seriously, then it's already over cos he doesn't care.
end it on your terms rather than being miserable cos you don't know what to do without him.
get some self confidence.
maybe it can't be saved.
2007-01-05 05:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Add some spice to the relationship give yourselves something ti talk about. Go out and do something new and exciting. Surprise him. Let him surprise you.
2007-01-05 04:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by FunkSoulBrother 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may find the following advice helpful. I gave it to my girlfriend last year and it's really helped. You should find the answers to your many questions here.
Q: My fiance still has feelings for his old girlfriends. I'm afraid he will not be faithful.
A: A man's capacity to love is boundless. It has been proven to increase with the number of sexual partners. Thus, by having a few other women, your partner is really increasing his love for you. Best thing to do is to buy him a nice, expensive present, and cook him a nice meal and don't mention this aspect of his behaviour.
Q: My husband has too many nights out with the boys.
A: This is perfectly natural behaviour - and it should be encouraged. The man is a hunter and he needs to prove his prowess with other men. Far from being pleasurable, a night out with the boys is a stressful affair, and to get back to you is a relief for your partner. Just look back at how emotional and happy the man is when he returns to his stable home. Best thing to do is to buy him a nice, expensive present, and cook him a nice meal and don't mention this aspect of his behaviour.
Q: My husband wants to experience three-in-a-bed-sex with me and my sister.
A: Your husband is clearly devoted to you. He cannot get enough of you, so he goes for the next best thing - your sister. Far from being an issue, this will bring all of the family together. Why not some cousins involved? If you are still apprehensive, then let him go with your relatives, buy him a nice, expensive present, and cook him a nice meal and don't mention this aspect of his behaviour.
Q: My husband continually asks me to perform oral sex with him.
A: Do it. Sperm is not only great tasting, but has only 10 calories a spoonful. It is nutritious and helps you to keep your figure and gives a great glow to the skin. Interestingly, a man knows this. His offer to you to perform oral sex with him is totally selfless. Oral sex is extremely painful for a man. This shows he loves you. Best thing to do is to thank him, buy him a nice, expensive present, and cook him a nice meal.
Q: My husband doesn't know where my clitoris is.
A: Your clitoris is of no concern to your husband. If you must mess with it, do it in your own time. To help with the family budget you may wish to video tape yourself while doing this, and to sell it at car-boot sales. To ease your selfish guilt, buy your man a nice expensive present, and cook him a delicious meal.
Q: My husband goes straight to sleep after making love - we have no time to talk.
A: Sex is an extremely difficult task for a man. Afterwards he needs rest. In fact, the more he loves you, the more hard work his love-making is, and the more rest he needs. Stop putting pressure on him. Buy him a nice, expensive present, and cook him a nice meal.
Q: My husband's efforts at lovemaking only last 30 seconds.
A: Your husband loves you very much. He is so turned on by you that he cannot control himself. In fact, the shorter the 'effort' the more he loves you. Return this love by buying a nice, expensive present, and cooking him a nice meal.
Q: My husband is uninterested in foreplay.
A: Foreplay to a man is very hurtful. What it means is that you do not love your man as much as you should - he has to work a lot to get you in the mood. Abandon all wishes in this area, and make it up to him by buying a nice expensive present, and cooking a nice meal.
Q: My husband has never given me an orgasm.
A: The female orgasm is a myth. It is fostered by militant, man-hating feminists and is a danger to the family unit. Don't mention it again to him and show your love to him by buying a nice expensive present ..and don't forget to cook him a delicious meal.
2007-01-05 04:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Status: Paranoia 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just talk about the daily stuff, & then suddenly just pop up this question..." Do u luv me?"... Try it it might help... if he says yes give him a light kiss on the cheek & say u do 2, if he says no... allah ma3aki
2007-01-05 04:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kitkat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him let him go if its meant to be he'll come back. Its not healthy to cling onto someone so much it will drive him away
2007-01-05 04:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by tra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it obvious he doesnt want to be with u i dont mean to sound mean or ne thing but it will be his loss if yall brake up as for u keep ur chin up it will get bettr
2007-01-05 04:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by Xtina12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO GET A GRIP LUV YOU SOUND REALLY DESPERATE,THERE MUST BE A REASON TO WHY YOU THINK YOU ARE GOING TO SPLIT UP IF HE MEANS SO MUCH TO YOU SHOULD DO ALL YOU CAN TO KEEP HIM. GOODLUCK X X
2007-01-05 04:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋