my crush is talking to other girls about his feelings for me and not telling me his feelings about me. i haven't had the courage to ralk to him yeat ( i get scared ) i like him but i get scared. HELPPPPPPP I am really depressed now
2007-01-05 03:59:52 · 19 answers · asked by bob the magic chicken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's your crush, he's not your boyfriend and even if he was who are you to control his actions?
2007-01-05 04:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a grow up lesson.
Yelling at him is gonna make you look like a bufoon. Go ask him what his feelings are. Tell him you have a crush on him and politely ask him to stop discussing your business. He may be shy or intimidated. He's scared too it seems. You're depressed over this? PUHLEEZE!! There will be other guys.
Go to this guy and talk to him. Tell him I like you but you tell your business to everybody. I don't like people in my business. If it doesn't work out, move on. A year from now I guarantee it won't make a dam bit of difference.
2007-01-05 12:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least when he's talking to other girls he's talking about you. He might be a little scared just like you.Don't be depressed do something about this. Life is too short to let it pass you by. Why don't you give him your phone number and tell him to call you sometime without putting a lot of pressure on him.
2007-01-05 12:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Susan P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a lot like you when I was younger- I had difficulty telling people how i felt, good or bad, I had a very hard childhood and I and trouble expressing myself to people, I found that writing down how I felt helped.
Try this: write a letter to him telling him how you feel about what he is doing, don't send it put it down, then a little while later read it, you will probably notice things in there that you will want to re-word because it may sound angry or nasty and you don't want to come accross that way, then re-write the letter, again put it down and read it again - if thats exactly how you feel, without being nasty, then you can either give it to him or read it to him. Either way let him know it's hard for you to express your feelings and that is why you chose to write them down
2007-01-05 12:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by shambuca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible that he gets scared (just like you) and chooses to talk to others because he can't get up the courage to tell you himself.
2007-01-05 12:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy talk to him.
Tell him what you know and ask him to tell you
how he really feels about you.
get up the courage and face him
this is the only way you will really know how he feels and it will give you the courage to ask him.
2007-01-05 12:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what you need to do, is quit being so scared, if he likes you to, then it shouldn't be that scary! Just ask him how he feels, && you tell him how you feel. Go get him girl!
2007-01-05 12:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not make someone do something. If it is not with in them then forget it. You can talk to him, but don't yell. Yelling is not the key and more then likely you'll start a war.
2007-01-05 12:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Kgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont get mad at him.hes telling other people hoe much he likes u and how he feels about u .maybe hes just shy right now. hell open up to u later in the relationship
2007-01-05 12:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it casually and tell him about ur feelings for him. He may stop talking like this and will express his love for you. All the best.
2007-01-05 12:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by mipa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie just tell him how u feel...dont scream and yell cause then hes going 2 think your a bird and thats not cool.....so just take him 2 da side and teel him how u feel......
2007-01-05 12:05:06 · answer #11 · answered by freethaddeus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋