There is this guy who said he loves me and will marry me in but he recieveds much call from his female mate.?

Question

There is this guy who said he loves and he want me to be the future wife. The guy is a student of 23yrs of age. He used to come to the house wicked. When he comes, the number of calls he get from female friends is too much. And he informed me to wait for the future before we marry, he asked me to wait and I accepted I also asked him to wait and he informed me that, he will try his best. Which I dont understand. Every evening he want to meet me, which I thought is wrong because I know we are too young and right in front of me he get calls. What should I tell him. And do you think this love is true love.



When you are woman and you force a man into marriage without love, will the marriage go on.

Answer 1

Honey, I would back, way off!!! He's not done "Playing, at all !!!" If I were you, (you both sound young), so I'd just get involved in doing things with your friends and just see him every so often!! And dont lose yourself, until you are really mentally ready to settle down, (emotionally, behind this man). Just really make an honest effort to seperate yourself from him, and spend more time, with family & friends, you know.... Atleast 10 years or so!! Atleast give it 5 more years, to get to know all of his "Ins & outs" you know!! And trust me, you cant force any man into marriage!! I've been there tried that one!! Most women are old-fashioned, in that manner, but no man is going to do anything without feeling it, you know...... So, give him his space to run, and do his thing, and I'd definately make sure you use protection in the meanwhile, you know..... Good-Luck, to you Hun.... Just Take Time To Know Him, like the song says..... And if your as young, as you sound, you have nothing but TIME!!! Smile!!!