when she has a problem./issue i listen and give advice and comment thruoughly on her situation, but , when it comes to me telling her my issues , she hardly comments on anything i have said- oh and when i start talking about something i did, she always turns it right back to her so she can start talking - it is sooo annoying!! any suggestions?
2007-01-05 04:05:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know what you mean. I've had friends like that too. I thought about doing the same thing to them, but then didn't keep on all the way because they were really nice and it seemed like they weren't doing it on purpose, didn't know that they were doing anything, or they were trying to correct themselves. In the end however, you're not gonna get heard and then you'll stop appreciating them and drift away...................maybe.Maybe it'll stay like that, which wouldn't be good. Just say , not rudely, whenever you're talking,"Hold on. I'm not done.", a bit aggressively if you have to though. If she gives you some weirdness about it, it might lead to a conversation or situation, that could let her know what's going on and fix it. It's probably just a habit of her's. Some people do that when they feel like they're ignored, probably by parents, important people in her life, etc.
2007-01-05 04:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't consider her to be your friend because the only person she thinks about herself and her own needs.what you need to do is let her know how you feel about the whole situation and if she is not willing to change i guess that will be a good time for you to move on with your life
2007-01-05 12:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she cant give good advice she has to many probles and cant solve them herself sounds to me you have the brains in this friendship keep your head up high for all to see
2007-01-05 12:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by tania c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she won't know what she is doing wrong until you tell her, she don't know her own mistakes.So just sit down and talk to her.And get the problem straightened out.
2007-01-05 12:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by curt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u still talking 2 her then...find some one elis whos gonn share equal comment with u.......
2007-01-05 12:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by freethaddeus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be friends with her. or have an honest conversion and expect her to be upset, because the trust always hurts.
2007-01-05 12:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is a friend; tell her the truth about how you feel.
2007-01-05 12:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be her friend. shez not your friend shez selfish. if she isn't there for you then there is no need you need to be there for her. shez just using you. find a good friend who understands you and respects you and is there for you to help out with your problems.
2007-01-05 12:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Legant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how has she been brot up has her parents given her every thing she asked for thats probly y
2007-01-05 12:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by askharley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get away from her as quik as possible
2007-01-05 12:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by srini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋