When my ex comes around me he will hug me and if i don't talk to him if I see him he will ask why am I being mean to him, once he came over and we sat on my bed just talking about old times and he gave me that look he would give me while we dated, he's told me after we broke up that I was beautiful and fun to go out with. There was even one point where he told me when we was going out he really wanted to "make love" to me so why does he say these things?
The only reason we broke up was because I told him I wanted to and I wanted to so he couldn't say he broke up with me and the other way around, plus I was told he was fixing to break up with me any way, I asked him about it and he said he didn't intend to break up with me
Please help and please give serious answers because I want to know why he does this he has a girlfriend but he told me she just uses him and she didn't make him happy and she cheats on him
I kinda miss him but I wouldn't come between him and his g/f..
2007-01-05 04:06:27 · 9 answers · asked by some chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE DOES THESE THINGS BECAUSE HE CAN. HE'S PLAYIN WITH YOUR MIND & HEART.
PEOPLE ONLY DO TO YOU WHAT YOU LET THEM!
DON'T LET LET HIM & HE WON'T.
2007-01-05 04:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like from my perspective that he may want to get back wthi you and listening to people that have heard things is not always the best way to go about why you would break up with him. if his other girl is cheating then h needs to have enough self esteem to dump her *** also guys will be guys he may just feel really god having you wrapped around his finger and if he keeps saying these things then that is what he is doing to you then he has the best of both worlds he gets her and then you on the side. ask him what he wants and what he is trying to do it will be easier then asking others guys can be unpredictable who knows
2007-01-05 04:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by sororitychick_112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, and I say this with all seriousness and compassion, your head is screwed around so tight you can't see straight . It sounds like you left him, and want to stay away from him, but now he's making kitten eyes at you.
What do you want? Decide and proceed. Don't worry about the other gf.
EDIT: I think Stella is right.
2007-01-05 04:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think hes just with the other girl to try to get over you but obviously its not working. he probably says all that cuz he still likes you and wants to be with you. and let me tell you, breaking up with him cuz u thought he was gonna do it first was the wrong move. you shoulda waited to see what was gonna happen, maybe that person that told you he was gonna do it was wrong or just plain hating on you. i think both of you made a wrong choice by breaking up and if u still miss him and he still wants you why not give it another chance! just what i think.
2007-01-05 04:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he wants to get back together.
If you are interested, tell him when he breaks up with his girlfriend to give you a call sometime, and you could go to a movie or something.
As for the "make love" line, that doesn't indicate "true love". If you are looking for a life partner, tell him you are saving yourself for marriage. If he loves you, he will commit.
2007-01-05 04:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 - HE DOESN'T BELONG ON YOUR BED. He's getting mixed signals.
Number 2 - A quick hug to be polite is okay as long as YOU are comfortable with the physical contact.
He is your EX. What exactly do you think you owe him? Now he wants to f***?
Figure it out.
2007-01-05 04:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants to keep the doors open with you in case his new relationship doesn't work out.
2007-01-05 04:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on u should get it he want's 2get u back and i think u should get him back2 but u have 2make sure that he's gf don't love him and really uesing him and cheat on him if she dose wat he said just get him back u look like u wish u didn't break up with him if he's gf love him and he was lyeing 2get u back don't get in between him and he's gf , good luck .
2007-01-05 04:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by mohame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with stella
2007-01-05 04:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by pamcake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋