Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

Okay...well currently I am a single 19 year old mom of a 4 month yr old son and I still love his father, but he is telling me I need to stop being jealous of his female friends when they talk, at parties, the phone, or wtv, and to not worry because if I stopped being so jealous, he would be with me when he knew I trusted him and stopped bitchin' and accusin' him...so I want to, but I just don't trust any female these days...n-e-ways, I met this guy a while back who works at a store across from my job. Well we both have been spending time together, not outside of work, but we'll run into each other on breaks or to the bathroom, and we'll make out and ****, and I really wanna f*** around wit him but I'm scared my ex will find out cuz he told me that if I have sex wit' someone else, he'll neva be wit' me ever again...I kno' I don't want to date this guy, basically bcuz he's in the same situation as me, he's like my baby's dad, he doesn't wanna be wit' his baby mama/ex cuz she;s too jealou

2006-12-26 07:16:33 · 19 answers · asked by aztec_princess_87 1 in Singles & Dating

Should your boyfriend be writing sexy things to other girls on myspace like telling them he thinks their heartbreakers and sexy?

2006-12-26 07:15:59 · 7 answers · asked by Sammie_Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I was really good friends with this woman for about 2 years. Well, I hadn't seen her in about 6 months and she said she really missed me and wanted me to come visit her. I actually had other plans but she really insisted I come and I did want to see her so I went. Anyway, when we met I was going through a really hard time in my life and was pretty depressed. She had always been really kind towards me and protective. Well, now I'm doing much better but this time when I went to see her she was being really critical and pointing out all my flaws. It really started to piss me off because she's not perfect either but I don't point out all the things that are wrong with her. I believe in lifting people up. Anyway, I want to end the friendship but I don't know how. Should I tell her or just stop taking her calls? I'm kind of sad about it but actually more pissed off because a real friend accepts you as you, don't you think?

2006-12-26 07:15:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

I feel horrible..this guy i've known for more than half my life is acting crazy.Y is it that when guys get what they want from u, they pretend like nuthing has happened, and when u try 2 talk to them about the situation, they play dumb? Especially if u have known the dude for more than half ur life, n they still treat u like crap after u finally give in2 them..do guys think that it's that funny 2 treat ppl like that? r they that scared of emotions n that immature or what? I never thought it could happen 2 me..i've seen it on tv but..i just don't understand..need help......

2006-12-26 07:14:58 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. Musically Inclined 5 in Singles & Dating

I just wanna know???REALLY

2006-12-26 07:14:15 · 53 answers · asked by Sexybaby4u 1 in Singles & Dating

Explain please...

2006-12-26 07:14:00 · 10 answers · asked by mickeys12 1 in Singles & Dating

i would like to tell a girl that i have always liked her but i cant find the right sentance to say. can someone help please.
thanks

2006-12-26 07:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by Kyle O 1 in Singles & Dating

Alone on a sandy beach with the ocean in front of you or a all white room with a white bed and white sheets with your partner by your side??

2006-12-26 07:13:41 · 10 answers · asked by TheArtistFormalyKnowAsSlavemaker 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I need some Advice or help if i can get any!! well I broke up with my ex-boyfriend about 3 days ago, and i CANT keep him out of my mind!!! i love him so much but i know that he is not the right one for me he does not treat me right so i would love to know what i should to in order for me to forget about him!! please dont tell me to date other guys because i cant do that right now! im very religious and also very cultural and please dont tell me to go out because i dont go out at all my parents are strick because they are muslim so please give me some advice!!! by the way this is our 100000 time that we have broken up and i keep accepting him back.. but i dont want to do that anymore but i dont know how to control my minddd please please please helpp i am very stressed out thanks

2006-12-26 07:13:35 · 7 answers · asked by nasreen682002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do they ever go out with another girl to make that ex jealous? DO THEY REGRET? i hav situation. My ex is going out with a girl on my team 9 days after he met her after i talked 2 him about her. One of the reasons he broke up with me was i was too quiet with him. I showed him im not anymore but shes 100000000x quieter than me and is just plain awkward. He started going after her the day after i told him i wanted to be friends even tho i wanted more. GUYS= CONFUSING

2006-12-26 07:11:53 · 18 answers · asked by sugarbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I need some Advice or help if i can get any!! well I broke up with my ex-boyfriend about 3 days ago, and i CANT keep him out of my mind!!! i love him so much but i know that he is not the right one for me he does not treat me right so i would love to know what i should to in order for me to forget about him!! please dont tell me to date other guys because i cant do that right now! im very religious and also very cultural and please dont tell me to go out because i dont go out at all my parents are strick because they are muslim so please give me some advice!!! by the way this is our 100000 time that we have broken up and i keep accepting him back.. but i dont want to do that anymore but i dont know how to control my minddd please please please helpp i am very stressed out thanks

2006-12-26 07:11:44 · 14 answers · asked by nasreen682002 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know if you people have notist this guy with his stupids "facts" about how white people are better than black and all this rubbish, but its people like him who REALLY annoy me!! >:(
anyone know why people are so racist?

2006-12-26 07:11:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know you cannot be in love with two people at the same time because to truly be "in love" with someone your whole heart has to be in it. But what happens when you are torn between two people? Have you ever been in that situation? How do you know which feelings to follow or which are genuine?

2006-12-26 07:10:26 · 17 answers · asked by Lindy S 1 in Singles & Dating

even touched her she dont like i mean even a girl hold her hand aur touch her she dont like or she feel bad i dont knw why bcoz of her atmosephere where she lived... and i promised her that i will remove this but how i also dont even knw can any one help how can i remove her shyness or fear from her mind and plz dont say anything abt her and give only serious answer

2006-12-26 07:09:54 · 4 answers · asked by ronit 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

has told everyone that my dick is small her girlfriends wave to me with there pinkies,whitch is very humiliating ,im three inches but im a quarter inch thick ,what do i do to shut them up

2006-12-26 07:09:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think? He likes me..But maybe to shy to ask me out

2006-12-26 07:08:34 · 24 answers · asked by sassystar03@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

So a while back I ran in to an old friend of mine and we started doing the dating thing. Both of us had a little bit of histery and both of us had just gotten out of serious relationships. We ended up diving right in to a full blown relationship. So for a few months everything was picture perfict and we were both madley in love. Then she started to develpoe a little bit of depression. She had recently moved back to the area I live in and she missed her old friends. Not to mention she was having a difficult time associater her new area as home. She ended up telling me that she needed time to find herself and that she needed to be alone while doing this. I figured if it would make her feel better I was all for it and agreed to just be friends for a while. The problem is we are still being intamate and acting as if we are dating but she still dosent want to put a lable on it. I feel like she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Am I being led on so she dosnt feel loanley?

2006-12-26 07:06:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

then what to do? My ex bf is like this. The first 6 months i didnt love him that much and he feels insecure(he's a senior at a college where the ration of guys to girls is 7:1;he's kinda shy, dorky, not smooth at all, likes to play cool even when he cares and he's never had a gf before). but then i saw his determination and how much this means to him, i gradually loved him more and more and once he feels that he's very secure now he broke up with me. Main reason is i need a lot of attention and it can be stressful especially when he's busy. We broke up 3 times in a year but always came back b/c i chased him back. Now he broke up with me again b/c of the stress from lots of things. But deep down i know he's just confused, immature,doesnt know what he wants and wanna be single again so that he doesnt have to handle a relationship. So i wonder this time i let him be, after a month or 2 without any contact, will he wanna be back,once he realizes this time i'm determined to leave him alone?

2006-12-26 07:06:13 · 22 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

I was 15 this summer when i went out w15 guy.He really liked me.I went to Ireland after school ended and then sports took over our lives.I only saw 2x last summer at 2 of his swim meets.The last time was sooo awkwrd bcuz we hadnt seen each other and his parents were there and i didnt know what to do.We both got frustrated and he broke w/ me saying he still liked mebut this phone thing wasnt working out. I was upset but understood.I got back to school and wouldnt talk to him for 9 days bcuz i was mad. Then i did and i realized how much i do realllly like him.I told him i still liked him but he said he didnt think he liked me like that.I was really upset for ages n wasnt myself at all around him.Then i decided to be my fun self n we started to get along again.But hes going out w this girl on my team who i started talking to him about after i told him i wanted 2 b friends.Hes so nice 2 me tho and i know it was me who messed it up not showing any emotion. How can i get him 2 like me again?

2006-12-26 07:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by sugarbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

that she got for x-mas, I got it spinning so fast it left a burn on one of my testicles and the other one is the size of a grapefruit, woe is me, what to do, can you help?

2006-12-26 07:05:30 · 16 answers · asked by seahawk 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 07:05:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone knows what are the requirements to get married in a christian church? thanks for your help and Happy New Years

2006-12-26 07:04:49 · 14 answers · asked by Angel Eyes 1 in Weddings

My bestfriend in the whole wide world is going out with the guy I LIKE, i have liked him for 7 months, were good friends also, the guy i mean, and she started liking him 4 days before he asked her out!! I really want to split them up, i know that she does not really love him, its a crush, and he has taken over her house! everytime i try to talk to her she always starts talking about him! ARGHH its driving me INSANE

2006-12-26 07:04:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we fight all the time because he will not stop watching this. he waits until i leave the house then he gets on the computer and looks up porn he even knows the women in the porns by name. It bothers me alot and i have told him and asked him to stop looking everday and that i didnt care if it was just everynow and then but he does it everyday.. i mean am i not enough. When i ask him he says its nothing i am making too big of a deal about it. Then he says he will stop and the next day i see where hes looked again. I feel nothing i say matters to him. He tells me if i stop spying that we wouldnt have to fight over it but if he would stop we wouldnt have to fight either. what should i do because i feel i am trapped and that i am not enought for my husband and he doesnt care please help me.

2006-12-26 07:04:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married since feb you see, and I;m ready to call it quits. What I want is some advice on how to get out of a very abusive relationship. Ever since I said I do, my husband started hitting me. Even while I was pregnant. Last night he did it again while holding my infant in his arms. Its getting worse. I'm 23 to mention. I've toled his parents and they dont say anything to him. Noone tells him its wrong. His father is a prestigious bounty hunter/bonds man here and he said he doesnt care what his son does but if i call the police he'll ruin me and my families life. My husband also gives me death threats and tells me if I leave he'll kill us all. Please someone give me advice on how I can get out of this relationship!

2006-12-26 07:03:51 · 12 answers · asked by deftoneschik42o 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 07:03:18 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel R 2 in Family

I had sex with my boyfriend for the second time and I definetly think that it was better than the first time. Was the second time better for you?

2006-12-26 07:03:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year.. For four months now, we've been kicking the idea around of him moving in with me, but one thing or another always comes up and he keeps pushing the time frame back... I'm getting well and sick of the feeling of being 'strung along'.. Thoughts? Ideas? Or am I just pushing too much?

2006-12-26 07:02:55 · 24 answers · asked by ResQMouse 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for almost two years now, and for some reason he doesn't want me to meet his parents. He says that there isn't anything wrong, and that he wants to make sure that the girl brings to his parents is the "one", it's been two years now, should I try to meet his parents regardless?

2006-12-26 07:02:11 · 12 answers · asked by curley03 1 in Singles & Dating

like his wife he doesnt wanna have sex with me when i want only when he wants which is 1 a month not even and he doesnt like to talk to me in public? i cant take it what do i do should i divorce him even though it would ruin many relationships????

2006-12-26 07:02:08 · 11 answers · asked by yumna 1 in Marriage & Divorce