Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

the thing is tat im too caring, im so sick, i got insomnia, depression, and always loose my temper.. once we quarell, i punch my husband face and we like kind of wrestle,, the thing is im his second wife,, and b4 we get married,, we broke up 4 1 month,, and i start dating other guys,, but he keep calling me and wanting to marry me.. and due to his empty promised, and sweet talk i agreed to marry him... we have dated 5 years and its a long journey 4 me to wait the final words he said "marry me"... im ok wen he go back home to his wife and kids cos his wife didnt care less or much bout him... even we went 4 our vacation 4 1 week his wife didnt even bother to call.. so my prob is i care too much bout him till watever he do wit his wife i want to knw.. n tat means EVERYTHING... but now i n him haved agreed tat no question should be asked to him wen he is wit his wife n kids... u see, since the day i marry him i bathe him i cut his fingernails, i clean his ears, i shave him.. am i too much?

2006-12-23 23:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by D'yah Musshyyo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a guy that I love very much but then i came into contact with a guy I haven't seen in 5 years. The guy was so nice to me and I made it a mess because I got confused but he always reassured me he could never get angry at me. But I think he only wants to be friends with me but I can't stop text messaging him alot every day,,I want to stop but I can't because I miss him so much too. He knows that I have a guy but the guy hit me and he even asked my friend why my BF hit me and text me hello I am M I never angry at you and you go to Italy so I miss you and I hope we can meet someday I don't forget you so don't worry about this..I cut him off my IM and he even let me re add him and my blog. This time on my Blog he changed his nickname but left me a pinch and a flirt..I am so confused what can I do? But when he return to his military base he didn't tell me..anything or when he can come home again..

2006-12-23 23:56:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok..........Aloung with my other question..........i found out he likes me also. So should i ask him out, or wait till he asks me out. Than i heard, if a girl asks a guy out their called a **** or something like that. So should i ask him out, or just wait..... He told my friend, cause she asked him if he liked me, without me knowing. He said yea, i do. I just don't know if she likes me? My friend said o, she likes you believe me, Why don't you ask her out. He said, I have to see if my ex, Lindsey, is okay with it. Why is he waiting for her okay? He's he not over her? Please HELP!!!???

2006-12-23 23:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by loverforever150 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 23:53:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i just broke up with my boyfriend last night... would it be stupid to go to his christmas dinner party and expect to get back together and everything to be fine... would it be stupid to go, what if we get into a fight in front of all his family?

2006-12-23 23:49:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need some advice on what to say to my guy friend to help him. I have known him for six months and have got to know him really well, trouble is he's had a very bad life. He's 24 and his mum kicked him out when he was 14 and since last year he was just living rough and in hostels. He's now been in a council flat for a year but has had problems with eviction etc. Thing is he keeps saying whats the point of being alive and why are we born just to exist. I took him for a milkshake yesterday and he just kept saying that and i didn't know what to say. I cried when i got home cos i felt so bad not knowing what to say to him to give him good reasons why he's alive and was born. His family never really want to know him and he's got nothing. He won't come round my house cos he says he's embarrassed about himself, the way he looks and dresses etc he thinks people will judge him. And he won't let me go to his cos he's embarrassed of where he lives. What's the right words to say to him?

2006-12-23 23:49:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-23 23:48:25 · 9 answers · asked by orion 1 in Singles & Dating

If I want to invest dollars I go to the bank first, but where do I go if I want to borrow some lives to invest?
Do you think Rice would mind if I invest HER life? Do you think she will have a good Christmas? What about the “lives”, or their families, will they have a good Christmas too? Is that kind of cold hearted, arrogant, insensible, inappropriate way of thinking and way of talking typical American or what?
And I am not saying I am in favour or against the invasion of Iraq, that is not the issue here.

2006-12-23 23:47:30 · 9 answers · asked by f_vidigal 1 in Family

2006-12-23 23:44:44 · 5 answers · asked by omar7333 1 in Singles & Dating

Ami Jariwala (School Name) done her school from Mehsana and BDS from Ahmadabad. Does any one know her?

2006-12-23 23:44:19 · 11 answers · asked by d_1167 3 in Friends

even when that person is not a good friend..

thankx!!

2006-12-23 23:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-23 23:38:35 · 13 answers · asked by HAPPY H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Met a gal- artist n educated-on matrimonial site. got along quite well until she became rather over inquisitive thinking i was from same college as her ex [she is still enamored with him-he got married a month back]. moment i told her i was not from same college she literally slammed in my face. Like her a lot. helpppppp!!!

2006-12-23 23:37:22 · 10 answers · asked by kapilbansalagra 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 23:37:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 23:37:16 · 3 answers · asked by mr.ramraj 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 23:34:35 · 14 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If you've asked both grandparents not to smoke around your baby, yet they continue to do so after promising they would not. Would it be too drastic to tell them they can no longer watch your child without you being there, and future visits will be supervised?

2006-12-23 23:34:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-23 23:32:16 · 7 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Friends

2006-12-23 23:26:44 · 20 answers · asked by P.Bunyun 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 23:22:27 · 24 answers · asked by neverendinglies13 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 23:19:49 · 10 answers · asked by autustle 2 in Singles & Dating

the thing is i know the shops are still open but my mates have invited me down the pub - im in a right two and eight

There is a little corner shop that open tomorow but his selection is limited and i think she may be able to tell where i got the stuff from

what should i do - i dont want to ruin christmas again

2006-12-23 23:16:03 · 29 answers · asked by ozzysheeplover 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a 5 year old little girl who is a chatter box. My husband is always picking on her. He fights with her like she is his little sister. He thinks it's playing and it's hurting her feelings. When I call him on it, he says that I'm going to make her into a punk. When they play video games and he beats her he gloats and makes her feel bad for losing, and now she really feels like a loser when she loses at anything. They play fight and he NEVER lets her win or pretends to be hurt like normal parents, instead he lets her know how strong he is and that he'll never be beaten by her. Sometimes for no reason he'll trip her and think it's funny, or when I scold her he says, " ha ha" and laughs at her for getting in trouble. She forgets what I just repremanded her for bc she's 2 busy concentrating on Dad laughing at her. Help me, this is ruining my marriage. I don't like to see my daughter hurt all the time. I'm starting to hate him bc of this.

2006-12-23 23:14:00 · 28 answers · asked by Babycakes 2 in Family

I have been with my partner for 16 years, his father has recently found out that he could have bowel cancer but apart from my partner and his two brothers no one else is allowed to know about this they ve been sworn to secrecy I apparently am not allowed to know because I am best friends with my partners cousin who is known for having a big mouth and there terrified i l say something to her which I would never do, I have never gave them any reason not to trust me I do keep secrets and never gossip so why after we have been together 16 yrs and have 5 children between us that they still dont see me as part of their family i'm so annoyed I feel like throwing all their christmas presents in the bin! There like this with my sister in law as well and it drives her mad!

2006-12-23 23:13:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-23 23:12:42 · 10 answers · asked by akriti n 1 in Friends

I am doing a butterfly wedding theme. In June. My colors are David's bridal pool (aqua) white silver. I wanted to give each table there own specific butterfly. Ex: Monarch-the table would have monarch favors, monarch decorations and a little info about the monarch butterfly. the next table would be swallowtail butterfly etc. Do you think that this would crash my wedding colors? Should I just stick with white aqua and silver butterflies? and not the table theme? Is there a creative way to do them both? Thanks!!!

2006-12-23 23:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by Shampaine 2 in Weddings

I just dont like talking to women. It doesnt make sense to me-- Its the same conversation everytime. So go ahead and tell us right now so we can countdown the words in anticipation.

2006-12-23 23:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by Airtight 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my b/f are in a long distance relationship.

He was going to come and spend x'mas and new years with me, but he did not make it because he assumed his plane would be delayed due to the thick fog at Heathrow and that he was going to miss his connecting flight, so he did not even bother to show up at the airport yesterday.

I did ask him to leave a day earlier to ensure he could make his flight, but he came up with different excuses. I was very upset with him cause he told me he couldnt make it without even going to the airport.

I told him I hate him for not trying harder. Was I right to blame him? He is apparently very sad now too as he has been away from his city to get away from everyone. What should I do? Should I forgive him?

2006-12-23 23:07:26 · 13 answers · asked by OS 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a man who I once dated - a long time ago, and I really want to go out with him again, ... even if it's only for one night. I was crazy over him and he seemed to feel the same way. We were both married then, but neither of us are married now... - HOW do I get his attention???

2006-12-23 23:06:22 · 14 answers · asked by faithloveseternally 2 in Singles & Dating

I really don't understand this. Girls my age always date the assholes(who never want a serious relationship, the only thing they're after is sex), and then complain when the guy cheats on them. But no matter how many times I hear about how women want to date a nice/good guy(who is serious about a relationship), they never do.

I just don't get it. I'm a nice guy, and by those standards, I should be dating...but I'm not. I also always look for somebody who has a great personality, is nice and caring, and we're on a 'friends' basis...something I also always hear that women want, but I've never personally seen.

Are there women out there who actually want a 'best friend/nice guy' and not an asshole?

2006-12-23 23:02:23 · 28 answers · asked by Total Eclipse Of The Sun 2 in Singles & Dating