Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

I have known this guy for about 5 years we had been attracted to each other before something came in between us. We stopped talking etc. but everytime i saw him i would catch him looking at me. This has happened over entire time i have known him. He is a member of a club that i also belong too and i see him prolly at the least 3 days a week. There was a meeting of this club the other night and he was talking with a friend of mine and as i went walking toward them he completely ignored what they were saying to say hi to me. I said hello back and went on to talk to my friend. Then last night he was at a holiday party for this club as well as myself, i was standing with two other people that he knew when one of them asked him a question he turned his body as to facing us and looked at me and smile and answered the question. I didnt ask the question so why did he answer while looking at smiling at me. Should i consider this interest???

2006-12-23 00:41:58 · 21 answers · asked by Paige 3 in Singles & Dating

i knew this girl for about one month and she really likes me so she asked me if i wanted to start talking and i said yes!! what does this mean? what happens now?

2006-12-23 00:41:12 · 14 answers · asked by Curious 5 in Singles & Dating

i am currrently in a long distance relationship, he is in dubai and im in the phil...i always think negative when it comes to how is he?,where is he?, is he safe?does anybody hurt him?is he still alive?does he has another gf?does he still love me and many more.were okay..now, but we always fight about boys, he dosent allow me to chat in the internet w/ my ex- boyfriends and whats the bad thing is i promised him and i still chat w/ boys...
i came from a all girls school and i dont even have a guy best friend...as in no one!
and after i confess what i did, we always end un fighting...it makes me more depressed..he is in dubai because he is working for our future, he is 21&im 17he is almost 6 months there and he has a contractual job there.3 years straight,,i miss him so much.i dont know what to do.i always think more of like is he safe when he walks to go to his working place and all that.i need advice...i dont know why i still flirt w/other guys maybe to fill the emptyness of his love

2006-12-23 00:37:31 · 11 answers · asked by sixteenforever 1 in Singles & Dating

Isn't their job to try to make it better any way they know how?My best friend was raped and after she told her boyfriend he wanted to talk about it to help him deal and she didn't.Why should she care about how he feels?She's the victim.

2006-12-23 00:35:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 00:35:42 · 18 answers · asked by happyness=) 1 in Singles & Dating

2 1/2 years has passed and when i ask he says when the time is right.should i be patient and wait?

2006-12-23 00:34:57 · 4 answers · asked by lorraine d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-23 00:33:35 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im now feeling urgent and there's nature call! what should i do?

2006-12-23 00:33:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You should wanna break a habit or lose weight or join a health club or get a better job or enroll in college etc...Because you know those things will bettter yourself for you.You shouldnt wait for a new year to begin to better yourself.You should already be mentally ready to do better for yourself.A new Year dosent mean a thing.BUT HAVING A POWERFUL,STABLE,ENCOURAGING,READY FOR A CHANGE MIND is the key.The only thing thats different about the new year is the numbers.Make a change for the better and do it for yourself not for 4 numbers (2007)...Now Let me know what you think!..

2006-12-23 00:31:39 · 7 answers · asked by bossy_chocalate 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my friend were discussing when you recieve a phonecall after midnight when the number is with held. My friend was saying that any guy who is in a relationship wouldn't answer a with held call he'd receive after midnight. So therefore if he was single he'd answer the call and if he was in a relationship he wouldn't answer the unknown call. What do you all think??

2006-12-23 00:29:49 · 15 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 00:29:17 · 13 answers · asked by bob b 1 in Friends

I've been with a guy for 5 years and have 2 kids by him. We've had problems in the past, he has hit me and cheated on me. My sister can't stand him and she even told him what she thinks of him. Now he got sent to prison and my sister told me she's not surprised and called him a bad name. He writes me and said he's sorry and wants me to be there for him. I believe he's telling the truth and is sorry for committing a crime. My sister finally told me do whatever I want, just don't ever mention his name in front of her. Why does she have so much hatred for him? She's not perfect either!

2006-12-23 00:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a lot of male friends..no sex just common friends but now I find it hard to find a BF because of this Why? If they are just friends what the problem I don't understand Really!

2006-12-23 00:28:10 · 6 answers · asked by for_ever_kobe 1 in Singles & Dating

No,I mean in a vacating way!!!:)For reals,is this good,do you think he is seeking to make me really happy...

2006-12-23 00:25:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I told my husband that I was gettin the marriage annuled, he cursed me out infront of the neighbors, and told me that I was ugly. That all of his exes were pettier and better sexually, that I had stretchmarks, that I would never find someone else...
my question is...WHY...? If I was that ugly, why did he marry me, and not his ex ? Of course after that episode I am refusing to answer his phone calls...so he text me and said that if I don't answer his calls and listen to what he has to say, he will ruin my reputation due to some pictures he has of me...WOW this man is finally showing his true colors, because just a few hours before this conversation he told me how much he loved me and wanted to work things out...does he have split personalities, or is he just plain evil? I have caught him in many lies before...WHO is this person that I married ? He was so charming and kind when he proposed...??? Why would a man do such a thing to a woman who was always kind to him and supported him

2006-12-23 00:25:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i am an asian stud(really i mean it) and I am currently in usa for my undergrad studies......i am really attracted to white woman and would like to start seeing someone but i am not sure about the dating scene here.......my question is for girls that if some one who is not white asks you out wud u be hesitant to go out with him or u wud treat him just as you would treat a white guy

2006-12-23 00:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by J D 1 in Singles & Dating

he loves chess,drums,rock music,horror movies...

2006-12-23 00:23:13 · 13 answers · asked by Smanela 1 in Friends

I always KNEW if my husband cheated on me, he would out the door. Then after some different circumstances 11 yrs into our marriage, he had to work out of state for 10 months, and he had an affair. The thought of leaving WAS there, but he confessed and is really remorseful and has not placed the blame on anyone but himself. He has been totally committed to repairing our relationship and supporting me in EVERY decision I make and every bad day that I have. He is in ALMOST as much pain as I have been. He truley struggles with his guilt. After much counseling and heart to hearts and a lot of soul searching, we are slowly putting our marraige back on track. I still love him more everyday, the trust is a work in progress. My question is any time I have posted a question on Yahoo!Answers, most (not all) of the feedback is so negative. I get the "once a cheat, aways a cheat" everytime. Sometimes it is very discouraging when I just ask for some general input. Have these (continued)

2006-12-23 00:21:34 · 27 answers · asked by hurtand still in love 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you mind your girl (serious relation) being less dressed while she is out "with or without you" !!!!

2006-12-23 00:21:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 00:20:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we had been frnds since 3 yrs..then suddenly i realised that i have more feelings for him..he used to tease me a lot and talk to me a lot,but recently a common frnd told him about my tru feelings for him..but he didnt say if he had anything for me too...yet my frnd said he had blushed a lot!!!..and now he behaves strangely,,sometimes he behaves normally,and talks to me on his own..but at other times, he just ignores me specially while at work..i feel very bad then...but i need to kno his feelings....even now,he givs me free help!

2006-12-23 00:19:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-23 00:16:45 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

this guy likes me but i have a boyfriend, i have asked him but he denys it but somthin tells me that he does and itsd5riven me crazy what do i do

2006-12-23 00:15:50 · 17 answers · asked by Des 2 in Singles & Dating

He left me seven months ago after becoming involved with another woman, the neighborhood whooore, who is not attractive and is disliked near and far. No. Really. (He didn't admit it at the time, saying that we weren't getting along. He later admitted that he was involved with her. She lives in the neighborhood and everyone knows about it. Very humiliating.
He now has broken off with her and wants to get back together. He said that he will go to counseling (which I think is a joke, really.) He says that he is sorry that he hurt me but has yet to say that he is sorry about what he did.
A therapist and a psychiatrist and my in-laws say that many men go through this when they turn 40 and their fathers are ill and that I should give him a chance. I am still hurt and angry. I am also too humilated to forgive him. (He left me for an ugly, unkind woman. Ha!)Our kids would like us back together and I AM NOT interested in marrying again. No one ever filed papers throughout this ordeal.

2006-12-23 00:14:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 21yr old best friend was raped 6 months ago and didn't tell her boyfriend until last night.The guy who did it was her boyfriend's brother whom he hates with a passion.When she told him he went off at her for not reporting it and not telling him sooner letting the creep get away.What the **** is the guy's problem?How dare he try to make it about him?This doesn't have anything to do with him.She was too scared to come forward and report him or tell her boyfriend because she was afraid what her boyfriend would do to his brother if she told him before the brother got out of the country.Please somebody explain to me what that asshole of a boyfriend of hers is thinking.

2006-12-23 00:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think a nice tight circumcision with the little light brown scar ring behind the rim is extremely sexy. Am I the only woman with this fetish?

It just looke so clean.

2006-12-23 00:13:34 · 18 answers · asked by Marissa 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I never seen her for 2 years for now, the last time I saw her, her hair was in shoulder length, well, honestly, she love to smile, but she never smile in photos and she never show her teeth either. Someday if I wanna meet her, I will love to take photos of her, do you think she will smile? cause I don't even know how to make girls smile.

2006-12-23 00:10:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I heard from a friend this story...

"Someone left a bunch of candy on our front steps and rang the bell. The note says to pass on the snowball to two other people.

Is this something new? I have never heard of this before? It was someone who knew we were peanut free. How do I find out?"

2006-12-23 00:06:53 · 7 answers · asked by Alison C 2 in Friends

stop writing her ?
I'm trying to get back with my ex . We broke up a year ago. I keep writing to her e.mail letters , but she does not answer me back. Why doesn't she answer & say not to write her ? Is she trying to keep me quessing ? What do u think ?

2006-12-23 00:06:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have so much drama going on in my life I think I can write a book!! It doesn't seem to stop...one thing after another! My daughter got married on the 16th and on that same night her husband was taken into hospital for a hernia operation as he lifted some heavy furniture before the wedding. They had to miss their flight for their honeymoon and stupidly they were not insured so have had to pay a lot of money. Two days later they were able to go on their honeymoon but we had to drive through thick fog from Heathrow to Gatwick. I have been having high drama since March and it just doesnt stop. Nevermind....it has to end one day doesn't it :) ????????

2006-12-23 00:05:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships