Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

We know each other from school, (lets call him 'Gary' again) and we've been exchanging letters during the Christmas holidays so far.

In the first letter i sent to 'Gary', i asked him that if by the fact we were writing to each other it mean we were boyfriend and girlfriend, and in his reply whitch i got today, he didn't mention any sort of an answer!!

And he has had a chrush on my for AGES he even has told me!

I've replied to 'Gary's' letter also not mentioning the question again, of the fear of seeming too pushy. oh HELP

2006-12-23 01:11:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean..when u start 2 go out with a girl..u take her out..
and absolutely not touch her..for 1 month..

U take her out..she looks gorgeous...and all u think is how beautiful
she is u do not want 2 touch her..because u want to just hang out with her...
she makes u laugh..u dance...u feel the rythm of her body dance next 2 urs...and you dont want 2 touch her..or kiss her..u love this moment..u do not want it 2 end...u just hold her..tight..and just hear the music play..

so after a month u wake up so sick...not knowing why!!
u feel like touching her face..kissing her..not because shes beautiful..or u like hanging around with her..
its because ur in LOVE..and not touching or kissing her..made u realize...whats more important!!

HAVE U?

2006-12-23 01:11:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 01:10:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out that both my husband and mother-inlaw have lied to me. My husband says it is not a lie though.
He is a truck driver and I just found out by snooping in his email that he picked her up this past Monday and took her on a run with him.
Before he left he had a cheque book with him and I asked him what it was for he said he was meeting his mom at a truck stop to get some signed. I had tried calling her later in the day to get a message to him and then again throughout the Monday and Tuesday (when she was on his run). When she called me back she did not mention being out with him.
When he finally called me on Wednesday he didn't mention it either, then I found out on Thursday by the email he sent her that he would be picking her up at noon at her place. When I confronted him he said they didn't lie. I see this omission as a lie and when I asked why he lied about the cheques he said no lie either but when he left here monday he said he was meeting her not picking her up!

2006-12-23 01:09:01 · 27 answers · asked by dyamismom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have fallen in love with a girl . But i really don't know it is love or just attraction .Please help me in finding it's really a love or some thing else.

2006-12-23 01:08:38 · 15 answers · asked by poo_tycoon 1 in Singles & Dating

This is kind of a weird question, and there probably is no answer, but there is a girl who likes me (and there were plenty of other signs besides this). But I've noticed that she uses my name a LOT more than she used to. Before she would say I have a question, now it's John I have a question. conversations start with my name, IM's always start with my name, even saying Hi, it's now Hi John. Now that I think back, it was the same with other girls. I asked my brother and he agreed. So here is a another sign to look for if you think a girl likes you. Anybody else notice this? I can understand other signs like looking away quickly, or not looking you in the eye, but I don't get this on. Why do girls use your name more than usual when they like you?

2006-12-23 01:08:29 · 8 answers · asked by john m 1 in Singles & Dating

if i go to mall and if a girl passes by me and says hi. what should i do say hi or just talk to her.

2006-12-23 01:08:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I post a funny question on Yahoo questions in the "singles and dating" section. I assume thats where grown ups will be. Then people turn it in as a violation because they don't want their eight year olds reading jokes about Santa. With all the comments about sex in this section why would anyone allow their eight year old on here anyway? Do you agree that some people on here need to lighten up and pull the corn cob out of their butts?

2006-12-23 01:08:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 01:08:02 · 15 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 2 7, I'm still not married, I've yet to even have a girlfriend. I mostly end up dating girls who turn out to be not interesed in me and it's getting old and I'm tired of it, I really need some help.

2006-12-23 01:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by J-Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

what word do you use for a girl

2006-12-23 01:03:26 · 19 answers · asked by n_aerow 1 in Friends

I asked a girl out and she said 'oh'. And she said she'll get back to me on that cause she said she was bz for christmas.....What do i do???

2006-12-23 01:02:19 · 20 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

But the test deals with math and I hate math I a fear that i'm not going to pass this test in order to go to college!! I seem to get the concept of it but when certain problems comes up it gets difficult!! What should I do in order to keep my hopes up?

2006-12-23 01:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well actually she said never
she said she'll never break up with me on the first day we were goin out
does that mean shes might be a little too attached to me for an actual relationship
or wat?
im really confused
me n her have been gettin along pretty well
but its just kind of weird like now i feel im commited till the day i die
should i say thats too much?
or just let it go?
im really confused plzz help me!!!!

2006-12-23 01:00:49 · 23 answers · asked by Matt Koz 2 in Singles & Dating

the man of my dreams...

2006-12-23 00:59:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a conversation with a male firend about relationships. He mentioned that girls who constantly have men/boyfriends walking in and out of thier lives will never find true love.They are going to be unhappy, cause they will never tully fall in love with someone. Now, I just stumble on a video where a guys says exactly the same thing. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2gi3-T_kOY I was shocked. I always thought that these type of girls always had the upper hand but apperently not. Why do men project one image( as they prefer women that easy and with many men) and then claim another( they dont like women who have been with many men)? Why is it women like the one I mentioned above end up unhappy? Please explain?

2006-12-23 00:59:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

by taking my 97 year old dolly bird nightclubbing,im 19yrs old?or is it just jealousy that make people look at us as though we are odd,cheek!

2006-12-23 00:59:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 at went to uni this october, me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2yrs and everything was fine as far as i was aware. Uni hasnt caused the problems i thought it may have done, and we visit and have stayed very much in love. However i've just come home for xmas, and my bf has been actin very unlike himself. He seems cold and emotionless, and doubtful of our relationship, which hes never been like. He says he still loves me and wants 2 b with me, but only when i ask him so. I feel like he doesnt want to spend time with me or be with me, as he never rings or txts. He used 2 b very sweet and soppy, which i loved, but hes no longer like this. He recently moved out his rents, and in with his best mate, he doesnt have many friends and tells me he gets really lonely since ive been gone. i think he might be depressed? i fel like hes envious of his single friends, but tells me he doesnt want to be with other girls. im so lost, the way hes actin is hurtin me so much, what do i do?

2006-12-23 00:59:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a boy on holiday in ibeza and i was left alne in the hotel. he came around and first of all we were just making out but then it got a bit out of hand and i asked him too stop and he wouldn't, im only 15 but i think he date raped me! help, im too scared to tell my mum i think im pregnant

2006-12-23 00:58:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it really possible to know u love someone so soon

2006-12-23 00:57:46 · 17 answers · asked by kirstyn l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a conversation with a male firend about relationships. He mentioned that girls who constantly have men/boyfriends walking in and out of thier lives will never find true love.They are going to be unhappy, cause they will never tully fall in love with someone.

Now, I just stumble on a video where a guys says exactly the same thing. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2gi3-T_kOY

I was shocked. I always thought that these type of girls always had the upper hand but apperently not. Why do men project one image( as they prefer women that easy and with many men) and then claim another( they dont like women who have been with many men)? Why is it women like the one I mentioned above end up unhappy? Please explain?

2006-12-23 00:57:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex was violent towards me and my other 2 children.
So I left him and went into refuge.
He has psycosis from Canabis abuse, alcohol problems and is a control freak.
After only a year with him I got out.

He once chased his boss with a machete

When I was in refuge, I tried to stay in contact cos of the baby but I quickly realised he was still playing games-
The last contact I had with him was when I contacted his friend, I was told to leave him alone cos I was a fruitcake.
I'm not, I just had postnatal depression and I wasn't strong enough to stand up to him.
He kept leaving me, then coming back as and when he pleased.The 1st time was 2 weeks after a C-Section.

I filed for divorce, and got my address withheld then all of a sudden he wants to see the baby.

So he had the first visit today
I was expecting trouble but there wasn't any.
I didn't even see him.
But i'm really annoyed that he didn't get her a Christmas present.
It feels like he's trying to get at me

2006-12-23 00:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex dumped me about three weeks ago b/c she said. 1) she didnt have the same feelings towards me as before, 2) she thought my love was too strong and that was freaking her out , and 3) she thinks that i should date other girs and she should date other guys b/c if we really loved each other then we'll get back to each other..

i have a gut feeling that is she is now with one my friends, don't you think he would have the guts to say 'dude, she has these feelings towards me', or at least tell me because isnt that what real friends do? i just feel now that they are both fake b/c of this

i dont have anybody i can trust talking to about this b/c of trust, i feel that if i tell one of my buddies, then he'll tell somebody, and eventually she'll find out how i feel, and start spreading rumors about me,

my question is , is it okay for me to block both these people out in my life and ignore them, i know its hard to move on after being w. her for 1 yr, or are there other ways of handling this

2006-12-23 00:54:07 · 4 answers · asked by sadbuttrueprince 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfreind called Olly and he is like tottally hot and everything BUT one of my best freinds (whos a boy) has like tottally been hitting on me and i dont like him in that way but i still want to be best freinds ive turned him down a few times but he kept getting at me so i agreed to go back to his place. But things got out of hand and we slept together and i think i might be pregnant, i dont no how too tell olly or my freind what should i do?

2006-12-23 00:51:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well he is older than me by 34 yrs... he is very nice...loving..caring ..n he is everything i want in a man...to love me.... im not after his money neither is he after mine..

2006-12-23 00:50:57 · 28 answers · asked by Rubini 1 in Singles & Dating

please give me ur name bcoz im finding someone.
i will be thankful to u.

2006-12-23 00:50:02 · 3 answers · asked by ANANYA 1 in Friends

Yesterday, I went to the mall with a friend of mine and there was this fat, ugly ***** behind us with her boyfriend or husband or whatever, and she thought we didn't hear her but she said to her boyfriend.."Look at those, stupid little whores." I'm like, what? We then turned around and she and her boyfriend had turned and were walking in the opposite direction. What was her problem? I didn't say anyhting to the dumb, *****!
Oh yeah, I didn't know what other category to put this under, sorry..

2006-12-23 00:47:43 · 27 answers · asked by Chloe 3 in Friends

2006-12-23 00:47:20 · 30 answers · asked by Andy W 1 in Weddings

2006-12-23 00:44:56 · 42 answers · asked by moony s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend wants to have sex with me.Should i agree to him.But i am feeling that i am going against my valves and the manners given to me by my parents.But i love him so much and cant live without him,what should i do now?

2006-12-23 00:44:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating