well he is older than me by 34 yrs... he is very nice...loving..caring ..n he is everything i want in a man...to love me.... im not after his money neither is he after mine..
2006-12-23 00:50:57 · 28 answers · asked by Rubini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love can be a powerful thing...I hate to advise anyone against following love, except for the fact that it has been known to be blind...please use caution
If somenone 34 yrs older than you has not found his love...if he is such a man to posess everything you want, has not found his yet, you may want to look at that once...
2006-12-23 00:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are having the same dilema that I seem to be having. I was asking myself that just yesterday. The way I look at it is, people are going to judge you for being with someone that much older than yourself and that is not right, if you love him and he loves you no one else should matter. The only mistake you may be making when you think about it is: if you are planning on having children this man may not be interested since he is as advanced in years as he is and he may not be around as long as a father of younger years, growing old together will be a little different too because just think, when you are 30 he will be 64. When you are 40 he will be 74, while at 40 you are in the prime of your life and are an active adult he will be 74 years and starting to go down hill and won't be so active. Love is blind though and if you are willing to be there for him in his elder years then I don't see a thing in the world wrong with it.
2006-12-23 09:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by JNR3078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is everything you ever wanted in a man then you have found the one. Dont let age get in the way if you are the happiest you have ever been with any guy then age isnt the issue. Dont settle for less just because age plays a part. His expierence in life will teach you a few things and help you to grow as a better person and in return you will bring him a whole new outlook on life and a sense of purpose.
2006-12-23 09:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think it's wise for women to marry older men because an older man has already established a career and more than likely be able to support a young women.Now if he is old and has nothing than that would pretty much tell you about his character.Good luck and always think of YOU
2006-12-23 08:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by charles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not against love or anything, but loving someone that much older can produce a lot of problems. What about children? Why don't you find someone who id closer to your age so you have a full life together?
2006-12-23 08:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think love has no boundaries, i myself was involved in a few where my girlfreinds were 15 years younger than me. Once you love someone age should not matter.
It is just people who are jealous or just want to interfere that would say something negative.
Go for it
2006-12-23 08:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by raj_shah_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as both parties are legal adults; there shouldn't be anything wrong with it. But the people around you, like family and friends, might not be too excitied since that isn't the partner that they would choose at your age. They may also be concerned with your personal growth and psychological development.
2006-12-23 08:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by dannyLinear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if your 20 he is 54. thats stretching it girl. and how do we know if he is after your money. how much more money do you have then him.
anyway, I always say age doesnt matter with love, unless its like pedifile love then thats just wrong. But that is a huge age span. how old are you?
cause when youre in your 40's he will be your grandpa.
2006-12-23 08:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by fuck 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not a mistake, depending on your expectations and your age.
It will be like having a Daddy and when you are 50, he will be 84. To each her own.
2006-12-23 08:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong w/ it just as long as your of the right age. Meaning that your over 18, if so go for it.
2006-12-23 08:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by traci s 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋